My take on Shravan's behaviour with Suman [updated] - Page 2

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ritu.LeeRaholic

If he thinks he was immature when he loved her...then why he still kept the love letter with so much care..even he little bit shouted on chachi for this...

Kya kahu main khud confused hu uske behavior se...

Saad chakra raha mera


Originally posted by: fairy100

Is shravan confused? After seeing today epiosde i am pretty sure he is not planning anything. he wants just be friends. You are right!! for him right now its just friends.. If he was then he wasnt sleeping like that and then when he was with sumo they way he said being friend was just too causal.. So now i am confused that if he is just friends then why he was so jealous when a guy talks abt or to her... and now sumo is saying if friends tu friends.. lets see how long this track last.. I really want pushkar to make them realize. Also going away might make him and realize aswell or restrictions from family. See how sumo said no to him coming home and she didnt even go to her house. or as per if he goesn London the fear of losing again might confess. Bcz until he gets that jhatka that he can lose her he might keep it as friends.. The family seeing pics obviously sumo mami, mausi and sharvan chachi they wont stay quite and things will be diff for them.. lets see what next week brings


My answer to both of you -
He kept the letter & holds it dear to this very day, because he still loves her. He doesn't need Pushkar or anyone to make him realise that. But he doesn't want to confess & bind her to his love, because that is the fear of losing her. She's rejected him once & he doesn't want to go through that pain again, & neither does he want to loose her.
I personally don't find anything confusing about his behaviour.
Edited by prc_fan1 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: prc_fan1


I just updated my post.
He did notice Suman behaving differently, but I think somewhere he doesn't read too much into it, because he's gone through rejection once & is too scared to go through it again, which is why he chose friendship.
And yes, that is exactly what I meant by him freeing her & choosing friendship, because he didn't want to burden her with his feelings. He prioritized her, over his want for more from her.

This track is very unique & interesting. AND I CAN'T WAIT EITHER. Oh yes & Suman is used to getting herself stuck. I always feel second hand embarrassment for her😆


I still think Shravan has some clue about Suman's feelings for him. It could be true that I am giving more credit than he deserves right now...will have to wait and watch!

But two things are for certain...Shravan's feeling for Sumo hasn't changed in all these years...and he knows that he made a mistake back in the days by assuming things in his head about Suman...and so he won't do that again...hence the friendship with Suman!

I really want some hilarious and light-hearted scenes next week...Sumo and her antics. Will be a pleasant contrast to the more drama filled this week!

Waiting waiting...😛😛
Edited by puba - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: prc_fan1



My answer to both of you -
He kept the letter & holds it dear to this very day, because he still loves her. He doesn't need Pushkar or anyone to make him realise that. But he doesn't want to confess & bind her to his love, because that is the fear of losing her. She's rejected him once & he doesn't want to go through that pain again, & neither does he want to loose her.
I personally don't find anything confusing about his behaviour.


Absolutely agree!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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There is no way that he is playing tit for tat. I actually got surprised that this theory came up.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: prc_fan1


I updated my post because another question popped up 😆
@ bold : YES, that is exactly what he is being. Cautious, because he doesn't want to get hurt, & also because he doesn't want to loose her.
Oh they moved beyond the tit for tat phase long time ago. Pretty much when he came back for her. That was a clear affirmation that she can hurt him all he wants & even leave him, but he can never ever leave her. And isn't it beautiful how they both let go of the past without even apologizing? There is no way that petty games of revenge are required.



@bold: Ditto

Just read the third question.

I think he is aware of Suman behaving differently. The guy is shrewd, and quite perceptive. But again, is playing it safe. As teens, she was a back-slapping buddy and he read more into it. The hormones also we to blame too.

Going back to the old house episode, she asked for his friendship. "Can we be friends again". Lots happened since then... no doubt. But he may not want to jump the gun again.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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My two cents
Once you've been hurt - the second time around you tend to be more cautious
Shravan is still very uncertain about how Suman feels about him. In his mind she must be thinking about friendship too. He's in love with her but he doesn't know how she feels right now.
He did the safest step to mending their relationship -which is to shake her hand and call a truce. Remember he came back from London on bad terms with her and treated her bad at the party. He damaged their already strained "friendship " with his revenge nonsense .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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RESERVED.
Will be back to reply to this in the morning.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shravan's behaviour makes sense. 10 years back they were good friends and then that friendship broke. Now, they have just gotten over the past and have decided to re-build that friendship. It makes sense to first start with that friendship. Because that is the one thing that Shravan knows for sure exists between them; it's what he knows will be reciprocated back for sure. About love... he knows he loves her but he can't be sure that Suman loves him back. He may have noticed the effect he has on Suman in the kitchen and terrace-scene but those can just be mere attraction; it need not be love. I guess Shravan just does not want to confuse their newly re-started friendship with love.

And I don't think Shravan has any ulterior motives here. It's just that he is okay if he doesn't get the love but he would not want to lose the friendship again.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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so much has already been said... I just wanna sit back, relax and enjoy...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wonderful analyse Samridhi. Whether it's the way cv is trying to show, don't know. But it makes sense. Only the time will tell. :)

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