poppinss thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#1

Ok.. this week has been a yo yo of emotions, specifically for Shravan. Sumo was and is a bit more stable.

Shravan, was very angry with Sumo on Monday and was really harsh with her... Then he starts seeing her current situation and wants to help her. He still cuts her phone and decides to go back to London. Today he see's Sumo giving her the jewels that are extremely precious to her and he is terribly hurt.

Why? What did he expect? I felt his emotions were really uncharacteristic. I am ok with him melting after he thaws... gradually. But this is too much too fast. She gave him the jewels... so? What does that indicate? Why is he so hurt? He had nothing but hatred towards her in the initial days and she was trying to woo him. Now the roles seem to have reversed.

I am still enjoying the show and the chemistry and romance of the leads are really very good. But I cant imagine why Shravan is behaving the way he is? Sumo is behaving in a logical way... but Shravan's character seems to beat all reason.

Can you please give me your thoughts on this... please convince me and others like me who are totally lost.

Created

Last reply

Replies

14

Views

2.4k

Users

12

Likes

83

Frequent Posters

Euphoria_V thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 9 years ago
#2
Dear unfortunately I don't agree with you...

He was angry on her...on Monday he was totally harsh ...

But he didn't expect she will return his money this way...by giving her mom's jewellery to him...

That made him...sad and broken...
Because he knows the value of that jewellery...(suman's emotional attachment)

Because the girl who was mad behind *image* ...actually did this...(gave him the most important thing of her life)...

He doesn't know anything about the grown up sumo...but today lil bit he came to know about it...

Ps: Whatever he cant see her in pain
mineforever thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#3
I didn't find his behavior uncharacteristic. He has always loved Suman. He felt a lot of anger towards what she did and now that he took revenge from her ,it reduced. its not like he is cold hearted. After taking revenge he felt really guilty for what he did( remember the restlessness when Pushkar confronted him).Its bcos he had thought he would gain satisfaction from it but it only caused him more pain bcos it hurt her. He was also feeling guilty that bcos of him she had accident and also had to pay money to her maamiji that's y he paid it bcos it was never his aim to do more than what he planned.
What v saw in today's episode was his love coming to fore. He understood that she was really attached to the jewellery and it hurt him that the gesture which he made to make things settle complicated it even more.
What I don't understand is Suman's anger towards him since he is the one who was wronged.
Kavila thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 9 years ago
#4
Shravan never hated her and cant in her entire life😊
he was just being stuburn to realizeee what sumo did with her..

but as sumo is sumoo so forget it the topic

now sumoo affects shravan till the enddd ...she is the only one who can make him a nerd a heartless and same she can only make him the real shravan ,sumo ka shravan...

jewellery Was sumos life and Sumo has said that she will never ever will give this to anybody nor to her husaband and then suddenly sumo came and handed over the whole jewellery to him...THE FB start sumo insist his pain again

that he has become Beast who has taken Sumod life...in her stupudness that why tear rolles in her form eyes

Shravan love sumo madly the thing is he never Shows it...😊

WE GET ANGRO ON THOS WHOM ME LOVE THE MOST

HE WAS ALMOST ON MYTH THAT SUMO HAS NOT CHANGED till now

but passed few days he is himself amazed to see ...The newww Sumo which he is trying to decode it

So SUMO IS THAT CUBIC ONLY SHRAVAN AN SOLVE IT..asnd he is doing that .but sumo being sumooo she is hurtingg shravan un necesaarily

if he would have hated her then he would have not waited for her phone call in entire 10 years!!
poppinss thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#5
I agree that Shravan loves Sumo...
I think more than that Sumo in the past did read the letter and accept Shravan's proposal.

Yesterday, if Shravan was hurt two ways... he was sooo looking forward to Sumo putting color on him that he turns his face.. but she just gives him the jewelry. He was also hurt to see her enjoying the party without him... and ofcourse the last scene where she is upset about umi and Shra...

Looks like both got unhappy and jealous.

Angels11 thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 9 years ago
#6
No dear, Shravan's actions have never been contradictory & completely in line with his character. From childhood he is very thoughtful, sensitive, intelligent. He thinks twice before doing anything while Suman was the impulsive one always plunging into 1 disaster after other.

His way of dealing with hurt is to recede further into his shell. Also in personal & professional life he dislikes leaving loose ends. So his broken friendship with Suman was a loose end for him. He wanted closure. He 1st tried ignoring her but her insensitivity & lack of guilt angered him. I dont see the party fiasco as a tit for tat revenge. It was more of Shravan wanting to show Suman a mirror & make her understand how are actions hurt others esp him. Of course Suman never introspected & went off tanget. So he gave her up as lost cause. But what he thought as closure left him more restless. In Chachi's words he was koya koya 😆 He is unable to understand this but of course we as viewers know that this is because he still loves her & unable to move to.

Holi is what made him realize this. The way he reacted to Suman & his tears & pain must have made it clear to at least him that he is still the very same nerdy, sensitive Shravan who was way too much into Suman. But of course being a lawyer who always thinks logically & rationally he understands that Suman never was & never is in love with him. So this unrequited love hurts & pains him. Thats why i feel he ll accept the engagement with Urvashi. His reasoning is anyway Suman doesnt love me. Let me at least make my family happy!
Ri21 thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 9 years ago
#7
No not at all. What i have judged from his behavior is that. His love for suman is unconditional. Though he has changed but its a fact that he has changed for suman. He became the man suman wanted. He shows to himself that she doesnot mean anything to him. But the fact is she means everything to him. Before we fall asleep and when we get up we think of that person whom we love the most or the person who has hurt us.
We have always seen shravan remembering suman. He still has crystal clear memories of them. Each and everything. He tried to avoid her but bhagoda said by sumo provoked him so he decided to make her feel what he felt. He just wanted to do this. Not more than that or less. He did his job and finished it. Whatever anger he had is now decreased. When we vent out pentup anger we release a lot of energy. So gradually things become clear. Now what has happened in monday though he did hisab barabar but he is not yet over suman and he ll never be. He was restless coz he knows he has hurt her. Its like chot suman ko lagti hai aur dard shravan ko hota hai. He felt guilty and was stunned when mashi told him suman had accident and they missed the flight.coz somewhere he knew whatever happened is because of him and moreover he just cant see her in pain. Another thing pushkar already told him suman has changed she is not the old sumo. And everyday he is seeing the change now. That she has changed. Be it taking responsibility of family getting used by them going to any length to give back money sulport from the catrer girls or her self respect. This has stunned shravan. We see how he melts when suman refused to talk to him and after the eye lock. She affects him like no one does. All this while he got to understand that suman is changed but what happened in holi party shocked him that she has changed this much. The way she went towards him and color throwing on her. She went ahead unaffected. He thought she ll color him coz in his subconscious mind he expected that. But she gave him the most important thing of her life to do hisab barabar forever. She gave him a part of himself which is more than the worth 3L. He then understood that she is not the same girl. She can even give away everything for her self respect. Kisika karza sir pain nahi legi not even shravan's. Shravan knows how attached she is with the jewellery. Its the last nishani she had whch made her feel her mother is with her but today she even gave that. She behaved normally and played holi. Bahar se she is shown happy but only he knew she is not. She is crying inside. And those tears which came from shravan is a mix of suman's pain,his guilt, how helplessly he loves her.
I tried to express in words as much i could. Coz yesterday's episode totally freezed me.
Ri21 thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 9 years ago
#8

Originally posted by: poppinss

I agree that Shravan loves Sumo...

I think more than that Sumo in the past did read the letter and accept Shravan's proposal.

Yesterday, if Shravan was hurt two ways... he was sooo looking forward to Sumo putting color on him that he turns his face.. but she just gives him the jewelry. He was also hurt to see her enjoying the party without him... and ofcourse the last scene where she is upset about umi and Shra...

Looks like both got unhappy and jealous.


No he was not hurt to see her enjoying without him. He was hurt that she gave away the most important thing. Her life to him and still she showed to everyone she is unaffected
bohemia thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#9

Originally posted by: poppinss

I agree that Shravan loves Sumo...

I think more than that Sumo in the past did read the letter and accept Shravan's proposal.

Yesterday, if Shravan was hurt two ways... he was sooo looking forward to Sumo putting color on him that he turns his face.. but she just gives him the jewelry. He was also hurt to see her enjoying the party without him... and ofcourse the last scene where she is upset about umi and Shra...

Looks like both got unhappy and jealous.



Agree with that. Shravan held on to the hurt for 10 years and then planned elaborately to get even. On the contrary... Suman, although equally hurt, decided to move on and enjoy herself.

It could also be that he finally realized the amount of damage he caused. So much so that she was ready to part with her most prized possession to get the hisaab barabar.
SS4MaNan thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#10
I don't think it's a U-turn. This is Shravan. He's not a man who wears his heart on his sleeve now, yeah, but he once was...it just took over last night. He was at his worst vulnerable state at that point and he couldn't help but let it show. More like, involuntary reaction. He knows the history behind her mother's jewelry and how dear it's for her. He knows it would've hurt her like no other, and when that feeling crawled in with a tinge of guilt, knowing he is some where responsible for it, he lost his sturdiness.

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".