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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi radha
Nice post :-)
Here is my.explanation for.his behaviour
although before meeting suman he wanted to take revenge he pretended to hate her the emotional connect is there they have a lot of.memories beteeen them ,so even after he executed the plan in the reunion party ,so ,he was visibility haunted by her words seeign that she was hurt , so I
don't think by paying 3l he was actual Intented to helping her ,it was releaving him of guilt to some extent which is why it went so wrong

If you see yesterday's episode when.suman moved.towards him ,he thought she's approaching tk put color on him ,means he has no idea how much he has hurt her ,those fee moments were realization and it took time

If you see the execution he stopped still and remembered the significance of the jewellery and realized the fact that have finally reached a point on no return and she's moving on




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .bohemian.



Agree with that. Shravan held on to the hurt for 10 years and then planned elaborately to get even. On the contrary... Suman, although equally hurt, decided to move on and enjoy herself.

It could also be that he finally realized the amount of damage he caused. So much so that she was ready to part with her most prized possession to get the hisaab barabar.

I.just posted the same thing:-)
Also.I think.Sravan knew how hurt she is ,he knows how difficult its for her to.give away that packet

So rest assured shes never going to look back ,because she actually parted ways from her dearest gift ,shes clearly.decided to move on
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Posted: 9 years ago
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he was and is in love but his feelings were unclear for him as bitter emotions dominated his love for her and once his bitter ones are cleared after revenge, then the only emotions left were of his love for her...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ri21

No not at all. What i have judged from his behavior is that. His love for suman is unconditional. Though he has changed but its a fact that he has changed for suman. He became the man suman wanted. He shows to himself that she doesnot mean anything to him. But the fact is she means everything to him. Before we fall asleep and when we get up we think of that person whom we love the most or the person who has hurt us.

We have always seen shravan remembering suman. He still has crystal clear memories of them. Each and everything. He tried to avoid her but bhagoda said by sumo provoked him so he decided to make her feel what he felt. He just wanted to do this. Not more than that or less. He did his job and finished it. Whatever anger he had is now decreased. When we vent out pentup anger we release a lot of energy. So gradually things become clear. Now what has happened in monday though he did hisab barabar but he is not yet over suman and he ll never be. He was restless coz he knows he has hurt her. Its like chot suman ko lagti hai aur dard shravan ko hota hai. He felt guilty and was stunned when mashi told him suman had accident and they missed the flight.coz somewhere he knew whatever happened is because of him and moreover he just cant see her in pain. Another thing pushkar already told him suman has changed she is not the old sumo. And everyday he is seeing the change now. That she has changed. Be it taking responsibility of family getting used by them going to any length to give back money sulport from the catrer girls or her self respect. This has stunned shravan. We see how he melts when suman refused to talk to him and after the eye lock. She affects him like no one does. All this while he got to understand that suman is changed but what happened in holi party shocked him that she has changed this much. The way she went towards him and color throwing on her. She went ahead unaffected. He thought she ll color him coz in his subconscious mind he expected that. But she gave him the most important thing of her life to do hisab barabar forever. She gave him a part of himself which is more than the worth 3L. He then understood that she is not the same girl. She can even give away everything for her self respect. Kisika karza sir pain nahi legi not even shravan's. Shravan knows how attached she is with the jewellery. Its the last nishani she had whch made her feel her mother is with her but today she even gave that. She behaved normally and played holi. Bahar se she is shown happy but only he knew she is not. She is crying inside. And those tears which came from shravan is a mix of suman's pain,his guilt, how helplessly he loves her.
I tried to express in words as much i could. Coz yesterday's episode totally freezed me.

You are just awesome..I got all my answers..vefry nicely depicted by you..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shravan's emotions are all over the place. I wouldn't say it was uncharacteristic of him. I actually felt empathy for him. When I put myself in his shoes, I see myself acting the same. TBH, I think I could be acting worse.

Here are my thoughts on the recent roller-coaster of sentiments that Shravan is facing.


First he is mad at her, he plots very cunningly and insults Suman very publicly to "teach her a lesson". If you ask me, it was not as much to teach her a lesson and more so to soothe his pent up hurt and festering wound that he has had for 10 years. He thought he would be relieved once he has got his revenge. But the thing is...he is not relieved. He is hurt after hurting her and he feels guilty. To make him feel worse is the fact that she got into an accident and has to pay a hefty sum to maami. He feels more guilt.

Shravan is still mad at Suman and feels she deserves his anger and his hatred. But when he does hurt her, he feels sad as well. The revenge is not going as per his plan, because Suman getting hurt is hurting him too.

When he humiliated Suman, initially he was glad but on second thoughts he highly regretted it...so he is helping her. But at moments, he is like..."I still hate her". So, he ignores her and rejects her call. Then when she ignores him, he is hurt again. And when she gave him her mother's jewellery, he cries because he knows it means a lot to her. He knows he has pushed her too far. But...EGO issues. Both Shravan and Suman have ego problems. So, he won't admit he is sorry. Plus, he hasn't forgiven her.

The way I see it, Shravan hasn't taken a U-turn. His way is actually blocked. He is in a maze. He doesn't know what he wants really and what he wants to do when it comes to Suman. He wants to hurt her like she hurt him. But at the end of the day hurting her means hurting himself. His emotions are still very strong where Sumo is concerned. He "hates" her (more like he is mad at her) , he loves her, he ignores her, he cares for her. He may act cool but his feelings for Suman are very intense. One thing is for sure. He REALLY loves her, but old wounds and broken trust won't let him move forward with her. YET

Sorry for the long reply.
Edited by PlainJane - 9 years ago

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