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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice Post. Good to see an objective view on the episode. 😊

Sticking my neck out here. Suman comes across as one too eager to get back with her childhood pal. Glossing over the way she treated him as a teen. As someone posted on the main forum the other day... would she have been as eager had he been a plain Joe?

Taking a real world view... Mr Invisible is now Mr Popular. Take the love story out of equation... any guy would doubt the change of behavior. As for the public humiliation... desi show after all. Plus the whole 'bhagoda' thing pricked him big time.

And of course, they need to get the 'Pyaar aur sammaan ke alag alag hain raste' equation in.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: prc_fan1


No, they haven't shown us those scenes yet. All we know is that Shravan hid the letter in the library on a Friday & Sumo told him after school that day that she would read it on Monday. So no idea if she read the letter.

IMO I think she read the letter only after he left, & grew up fixating on it, & in the process fell in love with him. But let's see if the CVs think the way I do😆


OK...they should really show those scenes ASAP. Shravan asking her about not staying in touch for the past 10 years doesn't make sense if they've had an acrimonious end to their friendship given how he was bawling his eyes out while avoiding any sort of confrontation with her. I guess both of them have no empathy towards each other which enables one to sense each other's feelings without the need to spell things out. I don't know what I am blabbering...I am just on the fence for now. At least till I get to watch the episode tonight. Thanks for the clarification😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: anjubala

Whatever the situation or no matter how much disconnect they have, no one has a right to humiliate a person in PUBLIC. Suman never humiliated Shravan in public.. she used to ignore him, not talk to him but never said infront of other kids to be away from her. She used to say this to him when they were alone to not call her in school.

Shravan should have done the same. Say whatever he wanted to but not in public. He washed his dirty linens in public and that is a big NO for me.
He is nursing a wounded heart but that still does not give him any right to insult her infront of all. He is agreeing that she used to get her HW done from him, families know each other and to Urvashi says that he does not know her so why will he buy dress for her? Are you kidding me.. without knowing her you were doing her HW?


I completely agree that washing one's dirty linen in public is so not on & I don't personally support it. But,
few points -
1. Suman did humiliate him in public many times by making fun of him, that too when he was a friend.
2. There was definitely a public humiliation that caused Shravan to leave & we haven't been shown that yet but there was a hint of it in 1 flashback when Shravan was walking around the school looking for Suman in disheveled attire.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjubala

Whatever the situation or no matter how much disconnect they have, no one has a right to humiliate a person in PUBLIC. Suman never humiliated Shravan in public.. she used to ignore him, not talk to him but never said infront of other kids to be away from her. She used to say this to him when they were alone to not call her in school.

Shravan should have done the same. Say whatever he wanted to but not in public. He washed his dirty linens in public and that is a big NO for me.
He is nursing a wounded heart but that still does not give him any right to insult her infront of all. He is agreeing that she used to get her HW done from him, families know each other and to Urvashi says that he does not know her so why will he buy dress for her? Are you kidding me.. without knowing her you were doing her HW?





I agree with your Pov 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: prc_fan1



<font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">But she's the one that broke his heart & humiliated him first. So it is very reasonable of him to want her to make the first move first. The 2 years that he was in school with her, he always made a move first even though she stepped all over him & his feelings. When the realisation hit him that she never cared, he left. Why should he contact her first then?</font>



Completely agree with you.. We always sympathise with the girl and always expect someone to support her .. No doubt sumo was wrong though she was immature teenager then.. Shravan tried his bed to ignore everything and gi back but sumo unknowingly kept inciting him .. Finally he decided to take his revenge.. It is kind of childish on his part too to make an issue like this but sumo is definitely at fault.. Our hearts anyway go out to her cause she is girl we also wish someone would support her cause she is a girl .. But she has to deal with this on her own.. That's exactly what the CVs are trying to potray and kudos to them for understanding this psychology and not taking the damsel in distress prince to the rescue track which is mostly shown even in a lot of Hollywood films..
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Posted: 9 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: PC00



Because she tried to talk to him before he was leaving and he was the one who left in anger. Why should she contact him then? At some point you have to let things go, if you expect other person to contact you first they may not, then you have no right to complain if you don't initiate on your part too.


He left in the heat of the moment, just like how most of us don't hear anything objective when we're in anger. Most of us would agree that when someone is angry, you should give them some time to cool off then make amends/sort it out. The fact is Suman did not even try after he left. She stalked him on FB, but could not say a hi in all these years? And she apologizes.. when? After 10 years? That too upon seeing him? Had he not come back, she would have never apologized.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .bohemian.

Nice Post. Good to see an objective view on the episode. 😊

Sticking my neck out here. Suman comes across as one too eager to get back with her childhood pal. Glossing over the way she treated him as a teen. As someone posted on the main forum the other day... would she have been as eager had he been a plain Joe?

Taking a real world view... Mr Invisible is now Mr Popular. Take the love story out of equation... any guy would doubt the change of behavior. As for the public humiliation... desi show after all. Plus the whole 'bhagoda' thing pricked him big time.

And of course, they need to get the 'Pyaar aur sammaan ke alag alag hain raste' equation in.


WORD. Finally a post where I have nothing more to add.
THANK YOU. Your post came as a breath of fresh air😆


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Okay okay...koi mujhe bathayegaa young shravan ne letter mein likha kya hai ?? 😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: hasinig89

Okay okay...koi mujhe bathayegaa young shravan ne letter mein likha kya hai ?? 😕


shravsn feelings sumo ke liyey...😭
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Posted: 9 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: hasinig89

Okay okay...koi mujhe bathayegaa young shravan ne letter mein likha kya hai ?? 😕


Erm..you did not see the earlier episodes kya?
He basically confessed his love to her & told her that he wants to be with her hamesha, whatever college she goes to & wherever she goes. Also, he said he was fine with rejection as long as they always remain as friends.

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