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Sanika

@Legilimens

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#81

Okay so much to say!

Yeh post likhne ke loye inta mehnat karna paa hai, I swear! Cause slow Internet, then no electricity!

I believe that this episode was integral to the running of the show cause kabhi na kabhi tou confrontation hona hi tha.

Shravan is so hung up on the humiliation he survived, so much so, that he made himself into the exact person teen sumao would have liked, successful and all that jizz and his ego has swollen so much.

But he has been extremely hurt and the valid question that sumo had not bothered to contact him for 10 years contributes to that hurt.

Sumo on the other hand, has evolved so much and all that poor thing wanted to do was hang out with her friend, but karma is a bitch.

What Shravan could have done is ignored her completely or privately confronted her and let her know that their friendship could not exist anymore.

However, the fact that he wanted to hurt sumo in the worst way possible shows that he is not over her yet and that he is still so vulnerable!

Now I hope Sumo, in the words of lambe wale bhaiyaa, moves on and focus on things that matter and shravan is left to repent his actions and feel guilty.

I also hope Pushkar will drill some sense into his head.

On a completely unrelated note, how desperate was Pushkar, trying to get inside his own party?!😆

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Samridhi

@BinKuchKahe.

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: Sanika.
Okay so much to say!
Yeh post likhne ke loye inta mehnat karna paa hai, I swear! Cause slow Internet, then no electricity!

I believe that this episode was integral to the running of the show cause kabhi na kabhi tou confrontation hona hi tha.
Shravan is so hung up on the humiliation he survived, so much so, that he made himself into the exact person teen sumao would have liked, successful and all that jizz and his ego has swollen so much.
But he has been extremely hurt and the valid question that sumo had not bothered to contact him for 10 years contributes to that hurt.

Sumo on the other hand, has evolved so much and all that poor thing wanted to do was hang out with her friend, but karma is a bitch.

What Shravan could have done is ignored her completely or privately confronted her and let her know that their friendship could not exist anymore.
However, the fact that he wanted to hurt sumo in the worst way possible shows that he is not over her yet and that he is still so vulnerable!

Now I hope Sumo, in the words of lambe wale bhaiyaa, moves on and focus on things that matter and shravan is left to repent his actions and feel guilty.
I also hope Pushkar will drill some sense into his head.

On a completely unrelated note, how desperate was Pushkar, trying to get inside his own party?!😆

WORD. Both Suman & Shravan are viewing each other as their teenager selves & thus are unable to connect & understand the way they have changed over the years. I so want Suman moving on. And most probably, she will.

Pushkar trying to enter the party was CAHUUTE. Much needed lightness in an episode of so much angst.

Edited by prc_fan1 - 9 years ago

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Prads

@Prads

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#83

Samriddhi,

Loved ur post..

I feel Shravan wanted to make Sumo realize what he was feeling wen she refused to acknowledge him n made fun of him in front of others..i agree that was teenage and now Sumo has realized her mistake..bt still everything cant be normal jst like tht..may b Shravan wanted Sumo to realize ths fact..tht simple sorry wont make their relationship normal jst like tht..but I agree tht wat she did was in pvt n known only 2 them bt he did in frnt of all humiliating her in d process..bt he was so much focused on showing Sumo a mirror and making her realize his pain tht he dint realize wat he s doing in d process.. so this time i will give him a benefit of doubt as of now..bt not supporting his behaviour of humiliating her in public though..

On the other hand..Sumo needs to realize tht her behaviour did hurt him n put a scar on his mind which is not gonna go so soon..I hv a feeling tht Sumo s unaware tht her behaviour back then hs affected Shravan so much tht it changed him completely ..Shravan jst changed for Suman..to show her tht how wrong she was to dismiss him frm her life to keep her reputation intact...bt he needs to understand tht this all was in teenage..d age where v hv diff ideas abt life..feel tht our school/college s only our world n tht reputation s v imp to hold..

like i said earlier..this issue wl come in between them n Shravan wl feel tht she wants to acknowledge their frndhsip now in front of everyone coz he s not d same nerdy, innocent bookwarm bt a smart, handsome n successfull lawyer..bt dint expect this point to come up so soon..bt this s d same question Shravan asked today to Sumo..n i dnt think he was wrong in asking too..bt he shd hv done ths in pvt n not in public...

Sumo..is independent n dsnt show tht she cares for anyone bt hs a special place for Shravn in her heart..d moment she felt their frndship can go back to what it was, she jst blossomed inside out..her hapiness was visible in her behaviors..little did she know tht its jst a facade n its not easy to mend her frndship wid him jst like tht..i hv a feeling tht she did take him for granted..bt Shravan s v imp to her coz she dsnt hv anyone whom she can call her own..her thankless family only needs her coz she s making food for them, sharing household responsibility of her n all..br apart frm her nanaji, no1 actually bothers or cares for her..she hoped tht this frndship hs gone back to wat it was not n she can hv sm1 whom she can cal her own..i.e. Shravan..only to realize tht ths was a facade..poor girl..bt she s a fighter n m sure she s gonna bounce back..

phewww..so long post..bt i agree to u tht Shravan hasnt moved on a bit...he s still there..trapped in d day wen he was going away frm Sumo..n thts y wants to make Sumo realize d pain he once went through..both r unaware of each others life n struggle..it will take a while for them to know it n only then their feelings will be changed..otherwise as of now..everything s based on their assumption abt the other's life..

story hs taken a nice turn tomorrow n now their journey wl start..m looking forward to it..

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priya

@JugniPH

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 9 years ago

#84

^ ditto.
shravan did wrong. a big wrong. he kbow how it feels when one get humilated. still he did. thats wrong. i hope sumo give a tough time to him later. same time it shows how deeply he was affected by sumos behaviour of never acknowledging him public and i guess he got humilated by her friends for that letter. may be sumo stood silent then. he was too much in giving reply to suman that he is not realising that what he is doing is bigger wrong than what sumo did in past

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 9 years ago

#85

@ Rogerrocks:

It is great to see you on this forum. The last one I saw you on was the Veera forum, before the show went crazy! :)

I agree with you that what Shravan did was borderline psychotic. But then it has been shown that he has spent 10 years thinking about this and clearly obsessing over it. He is obsessed with her, with what she did to him, and what it all meant. She changed him. He changed himself into this person mostly to show her what she is missing. It's warped, but trust me this behavior though far fetched, is not fantastic.

So in a sense, this whole bad behavior of his is a reflection of what has happened in his mind for the past 10 years. He wanted Suman to feel what HE felt then. But this just felt so wrong, coz it was a set up. Suman was how she was, there was nothing thought out about it. She was insensitive without calculation. But Sharvan was cruel on purpose! So I agree with you on that score, but I also kind of understand why he did it. Once again, like Samridhi, I also don't agree with it at all. Just see why it happened.

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Amrtina

@Amrtina

Inactive

Posted: 9 years ago

#86

Shravan is behaving like an immature kid

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Samridhi

@BinKuchKahe.

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#87

Prads,

I am sorry for the late reply! I thought I had replied but I just realised I forgot to press the 'post' button LOL.

WORD on both ShraMan being at fault. If Shravan needs to repent for the way he carried out his so called revenge, Suman too needs to realise the gravity of what she did. She cannot just forget it all in the name of 'bachpana'. I have always said this - for these two, its like a circle; every action has a reaction. Its difficult to come to a consensus on who started this conflict. Was it Shravan who fell in love with her first & then made her the centre of his universe? Or was it Suman who did not love him back as much, or because she humiliated him? Anyone can argue on any side.

And that is what makes their story so real, so painful & so beautiful.

Truly, the real journey starts now, as things are at least out in the open.