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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes, my heart hurt for Suman today. But I'm gonna try to be very objective about whatever that happened today. She broke his heart & humiliated him 10 years ago. So he gave it back to her by showing her the mirror. Fair enough.

However, is it as simple as what meets the eye? I don't think so.
Shravan asking her why she didn't contact him for 10 years really stuck with me. More than anything, Shravan's inflated sense of ego just cannot deal with rejection, that too from someone who he likes. Had she called him, tried to make amends..he might have returned or at the least forgiven her. But no she didn't. And that stings him till today. Note how he was simply giving her the silent treatment & being nonchalant in his attitude towards her when he first returned, but the moment she called him out for his ego, he couldn't deal with that feeling of being misunderstood, of being rejected by her again. And thus, he had to seek revenge for the past.

And Shravan's idea of revenge is letting Suman know that if she didn't want him 10 years ago, he doesn't want her now, that too when he has many options. Is Shravan wrong for thinking this way? Not really. 10 years have passed, things have changed & they have changed. And these changes has clearly created a disconnect between them even if they still share the same memories of the past. And thus, its very natural for Shravan to see himself as a commodity which Suman is running after today, especially after she rejected him in the past.

Today's episode couldn't be any more obvious in highlighting Shravan's low self-esteem. He truly has not changed in these 10 years. The difference is that he manages to cover it up with his branded clothes, fake smile & confident body language.

I am not sure how Suman is ever going to forgive him, & whether Shravan is going to apologise any time soon (I doubt he will apologise BTW) but one thing is clear - HE HAS NOT MOVED ON & HE CAN NEVER MOVE ON, while Suman is clearly going to move on.


Cheers,
Samridhi
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agreed that his point of not connecting in 10 years, was extremely valid.. but the way it was presented after that was bad idea. He has somewhere called her "Gold Digger" or "Like any other girl" he has come acrosss...
Definitely Eye for an Eye is wrong when it comes to such gap of age. He was ignoring her even after him returning even when she had apologised but as you mentioned, her calling him bhagode had just revoked that wound which were still not healed... Hence this was just the way he had taken out, yet I feel, there could have been better way...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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But he said she wants to be with him coz he is rich and famous...which is wrong and then gifting same dress and saying I haven't gift her and insulting in front of everyone...

Agreed he is still struck on same things and never moved on..

Waiting for sumo's reaction..Will she forgive him or not..
Last not least we don't know about what exactly happened ten years before...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Agreed that his point of not connecting in 10 years, was extremely valid.. but the way it was presented after that was bad idea. He has somewhere called her "Gold Digger" or "Like any other girl" he has come acrosss...
Definitely Eye for an Eye is wrong when it comes to such gap of age. He was ignoring her even after him returning even when she had apologised but as you mentioned, her calling him bhagode had just revoked that wound which were still not healed... Hence this was just the way he had taken out, yet I feel, there could have been better way...


Hmm... I actually thought it was presented very well, without actually going overboard, something which I was fearing. So thank you CVs. Objectively, if someone constantly ignores you in school but meets you on the sly & even there the person passes snide comments on the way you are..and then you meet that person after 10 years & you've turned into a stud & that person is suddenly trying to be all friendly..what would you make out of it? Anyone would think the way Shravan thought. And this scene was so real, because it brought out the disconnect these 10 years have brought to their relationship. Even if they were to make up in the future, things would never be the same as they were 10 years ago.

Also, he didn't return with revenge on his mind. So he would have gone on with his life, had she not provoked him & gave him a chance to say his piece. I personally think it is convenient for all of us to blame Shravan at the moment because we don't know the full picture yet. Whatever we've seen of their past is not the complete picture & it is no mystery that something even worse happened that caused him so much anguish, & pain. So I don't think that whatever he did was any more than what he went through. I don't personally believe in an eye for an eye but it is very natural for people to hold on to grudges, that too from a young age if it is not addressed. And the pain Shravan received from his mother & Suman were never addressed, thus that pain made a house in his heart & continues to sting him till today. Having become a smart lawyer, he thinks that the way to get it out is to get even, but soon he'll realise that getting even is no solution.

Phew, that was a long reply! I can't believe I am saying this but I am on Shravan's side today.
Edited by prc_fan1 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Awesome post as always ⭐️
Hmm insult part was not that bad but still epi was just heartbreaking💔
Poor sumo ..felt bad for her ..shravan should not have insulted her like this that too infront of everyone that was very bad step shravanthat status and rich dialogue was disgusting ..but i am all for intense and angsty romance ..so i am excited for upcoming episodes 😆
p.s. I love that dialogue "kya tumne mujhe kabhi contact kiya "so intezaar tha usse😳😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sam..very well written
I agree..his questions r out of his pain , but the way they came out is wrong, at least for me...& also he mentioned her as " koi bhi ladki aaj mujhe friend banana chahthi hai coz i'm now successful & RICH Shravan Malhotra", which came out in a ugly way..

Yes..He has not moved on & He will never move on or He Can't move on...

I'm waiting for her reaction... Monday come fast
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Team Sumo all the way. I am sorry I cannot be on the side of Shravan. He humiliated her, publicly called her gold digger, a person who belongs to a family friend. His question of why Sumo did not try to revert back to him is the only question which Sumo can and should answer. otherwise, the way he gloated and made fun of her was abominable.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't know what to say. Sumo was wrong at that time Shravan was wrong today. It was damn painful I cried. I can understand Shravan but when he said about his status n potryaed her as a cheap girl that was too much for me. But the most sad part is it messed up their beautiful relationship badly they have become more distant for each other.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: prc_fan1


Yes, my heart hurt for Suman today. But I'm gonna try to be very objective about whatever that happened today. She broke his heart & humiliated him 10 years ago. So he gave it back to her by showing her the mirror. Fair enough.

However, is it as simple as what meets the eye? I don't think so.
Shravan asking her why she didn't contact him for 10 years really stuck with me. More than anything, Shravan's inflated sense of ego just cannot deal with rejection, that too from someone who he likes. Had she called him, tried to make amends..he might have returned or at the least forgiven her. But no she didn't. And that stings him till today. Note how he was simply giving her the silent treatment & being nonchalant in his attitude towards her when he first returned, but the moment she called him out for his ego, he couldn't deal with that feeling of being misunderstood, of being rejected by her again. And thus, he had to seek revenge for the past.

And Shravan's idea of revenge is letting Suman know that if she didn't want him 10 years ago, he doesn't want her now, that too when he has many options. Is Shravan wrong for thinking this way? Not really. 10 years have passed, things have changed & they have changed. And these changes has clearly created a disconnect between them even if they still share the same memories of the past. And thus, its very natural for Shravan to see himself as a commodity which Suman is running after today, especially after she rejected him in the past.

Today's episode couldn't be any more obvious in highlighting Shravan's low self-esteem. He truly has not changed in these 10 years. The difference is that he manages to cover it up with his branded clothes, fake smile & confident body language.

I am not sure how Suman is ever going to forgive him, & whether Shravan is going to apologise any time soon (I doubt he will apologise BTW) but one thing is clear - HE HAS NOT MOVED ON & HE CAN NEVER MOVE ON.


Cheers,
Samridhi


Loved ur post
I may be one of those few who like the episode
Scores settled n now the story begins
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whatever he did would be valid and acceptable had it been done in private. Shravan's downfall is that he did it in public.
Sumo did get the point and might forgive the insult with time... but her being termed a gold digger would hurt her the most. That seriously caught her off guard.

Because in that one accusation he has teamed her with the likes of Powder puff and company. That I feel is something that she would find very difficult to forgive.
Edited by poppinss - 9 years ago

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