Some words cut too deep - Page 2

Originally posted by: Meena_J

oh okies, i was thinking of the bewakufiyaan from the POV he used to do to impress her before she became his gf...he still was trying to cope up with rejection but still loved her before she admitted her love and they were in the relationship before she demanded a split and that hit him hard ...so kinda in a sense ki never make the same bewakufiyan for the person who seems confusing at times ...

No, that is not what he meant at all😆

He wasn't waiting for some "return on investment" from her there ki maine itni bewakoofiyaan ki, ab fall in love with me.

No, what he was saying was that he feels like a fool in love because he gave it his all and got betrayal in return. Everything he was talking about was from the perspective of the post confession phase where he thought they were both on the same page in terms of the depth of their love....but Suman ultimately shocked him by pushing him away.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh what an analogy....haaye Sumo patthar bhi nahin hai yaar😆....now you're making me feel bad for her....lol....but yes, Shravan's dil was very maasoom and fragile and it got brutally shattered.

When he talked about bewakoofiaan, he wasn't talking about the things he did to impress Sumo...he's talking about the "bewakoofi" of loving her unconditionally...he gave that relationship his everything...his complete trust and all his heart. That is what left him shattered I think....that Sumo broke his trust by pushing him away so brutally. She broke off the relationship that he thought mattered equally to both of them.....that is his disillusionment that Suman could push him away like this.

And that's the part that hurts the most because it was so rare so see someone love so selflessly without any motive and some so "saaf dil" yeah my fav word for him itna pure tha ba shravan ka pyar hamesha se that it now getting polluted with that barbaad line really hurts hard everytime and their is nothing anyone can do to take it back to that selflessness . Even if SS reconnect which they will duh but shravan uss tatah itna khul.ke pyar kabhi nahi kar paayega and will always have self preservation as part of it

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Am I the only one who found suman not saying a single word for her mother odd bas mere papa mere papa. Not like they had any bond anyway but formality ke liye bhi nothing about her mom who is now dewar pe tangi hui too

Oh I just realized suman ka room got a makeover kancha ka everything is thrown out which depresses me more yeah i was looking for signs too closely anything to hang onto umeed

LOL no it's not just you....even in a maa-bete ke rishte analogy from Chachi, she brought in her rishta with her dad😆.....the mom literally was a rubber stamp in her life.....it's such a fail from a writing perspective to make her mom SUCH a token figure ki marne ke baad bhi Sumo ko ek baar bhi yaad nahin aati😆

Anyways, the story has always been skewed towards Suman's hero worship of her dad....toh abhi bhi wohi hai....her whole world revolves around her dad and things related to his memory.

Re: makeover....arey not totally....I spotted Kancha ka gemstone tree sitting on a ledge above the desk😆

I'm gonna hope Kancha aayegi....the Veer kid is useless and that new lawyer dost is all cringe chep types.....unless that Garima office assistant is expected to be Sumo ki new confidante at work😕

Originally posted by: AreYaar

No, that is not what he meant at all😆

He wasn't waiting for some "return on investment" from her there ki maine itni bewakoofiyaan ki, ab fall in love with me.

No, what he was saying was that he feels like a fool in love because he gave it his all and got betrayal in return. Everything he was talking about was from the perspective of the post confession phase where he thought they were both on the same page in terms of the depth of their love....but Suman ultimately shocked him by pushing him away.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL no it's not just you....even in a maa-bete ke rishte analogy from Chachi, she brought in her rishta with her dad😆.....the mom literally was a rubber stamp in her life.....it's such a fail from a writing perspective to make her mom SUCH a token figure ki marne ke baad bhi Sumo ko ek baar bhi yaad nahin aati😆

Anyways, the story has always been skewed towards Suman's hero worship of her dad....toh abhi bhi wohi hai....her whole world revolves around her dad and things related to his memory.

Re: makeover....arey not totally....I spotted Kancha ka gemstone tree sitting on a ledge above the desk😆

I'm gonna hope Kancha aayegi....the Veer kid is useless and that new lawyer dost is all cringe chep types.....unless that Garima office assistant is expected to be Sumo ki new confidante at work😕

But woh bhi itni faltu thi itni ajeeb si usse acha toh Dumbo devika hi thi with her girl time atleast for a lack of word classy toh thi. This girl had a very "dehati" si zabardasti vibe so mujeh toh wahan bhi kuch feel nahi hua tha for the instant I am impressed with Dr sumo

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

And that's the part that hurts the most because it was so rare so see someone love so selflessly without any motive and some so "saaf dil" yeah my fav word for him itna pure tha ba shravan ka pyar hamesha se that it now getting polluted with that barbaad line really hurts hard everytime and their is nothing anyone can do to take it back to that selflessness . Even if SS reconnect which they will duh but shravan uss tatah itna khul.ke pyar kabhi nahi kar paayega and will always have self preservation as part of it

This 🥺....this is what breaks my heart for his character too....we never get to see characters like him loving with such a saaf dil.....that very purity of their love then getting maligned by Suman like that was just very shattering to watch even as an audience....toh Shravan ka toh I can't even imagine how he felt.

As for reconnect....I think Shravan still has that maasoom dil inside him even if the self-preservation instinct has kicked in.....isko pyar bas khul ke hi karna aata hai....aur koi tareeka hai hi nahin iski dictionary mein😆....so whenever they manage to reconnect, I think that Shravan will make a comeback and phir se khul ke lutaayega pyar.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Am I the only one who found suman not saying a single word for her mother odd bas mere papa mere papa. Not like they had any bond anyway but formality ke liye bhi nothing about her mom who is now dewar pe tangi hui too

Oh I just realized suman ka room got a makeover kancha ka everything is thrown out which depresses me more yeah i was looking for signs too closely anything to hang onto umeed

Originally posted by: AreYaar

This 🥺....this is what breaks my heart for his character too....we never get to see characters like him loving with such a saaf dil.....that very purity of their love then getting maligned by Suman like that was just very shattering to watch even as an audience....toh Shravan ka toh I can't even imagine how he felt.

As for reconnect....I think Shravan still has that maasoom dil inside him even if the self-preservation instinct has kicked in.....isko pyar bas khul ke hi karna aata hai....aur koi tareeka hai hi nahin iski dictionary mein😆....so whenever they manage to reconnect, I think that Shravan will make a comeback and phir se khul ke lutaayega pyar.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

This 🥺....this is what breaks my heart for his character too....we never get to see characters like him loving with such a saaf dil.....that very purity of their love then getting maligned by Suman like that was just very shattering to watch even as an audience....toh Shravan ka toh I can't even imagine how he felt.

As for reconnect....I think Shravan still has that maasoom dil inside him even if the self-preservation instinct has kicked in.....isko pyar bas khul ke hi karna aata hai....aur koi tareeka hai hi nahin iski dictionary mein😆....so whenever they manage to reconnect, I think that Shravan will make a comeback and phir se khul ke lutaayega pyar.

Woh toh he will lutaao caz again sumo uske liye toh woh line fit hai dil hote jo mere seene main do doosra dil bhi main tumhein deta todne ko🤣 Matlab he will go to any extent to lutao that pyar but the innocence of that first time will be lost woh uss level ka expectation rakhna and all I think will take a hit

Originally posted by: Meena_J

for this idk whether its like the ball is in his court kinda thing because pyaar mei pehlse itna hurt hua wah h and how they reconnect will be interesting for sure as both have become like tormented souls emotionally but just with different way of seeing life now despite retaining some preleap characterization aspects...yeah he wont remain miffed for too long with her...its like he needs a catalyst..

I mean that khul ke pyar karne wala Shravan will come back whenever they resolve their MU😆

Reconnecting will be a process and abhi toh bahut hiccups aayenge I guess....first it remains to be seen how they manage to even be on talking terms....right now they are only talking when forced to due to work....then at some point that lame third angle will also create further MUs....lol

Suman was already an expert at giving mixed signals even in her teen years....ab toh aur bhi complicated ho gayi hai😆.....but yes, Shravan generally isn't able to stay mad at her for long, especially when she's in front of him.....it was easier to stay angry with her when he didn't see her for 7 years.