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Originally posted by: sania_58

I want to say something about Harrasment in work place.
U will complain against harrasment , I will do the same, 10% women in India will do the same.
But 90% will not do the same.
Its the harsh reality.
Infact, the same with Domestic Violence.
Most of the companies still dont have any complain cell.& Further harassment & all to chalta rehta hai.
Higher Authority most of the time takes sides of the criminal, not Victim.
In reality, justice is a long long way.Lots of patience needed.
In most places, log openly Vishakha Guidelines ko violate karte hai.
Hamare country main laws to bohut saare hai, but execution bohut rare.

Originally posted by: *king*

Well Anu what u say is true, both have handled her and misbehaved with Rads.

However there is one fundamental difference and that is the situations. In most of the scenarios you have mentioned it was rads who used to force herself into situations. Arjun never had Rads in his radar until she became a stumbling block in his path of revenge. rads forced herself to ride with him, barged into a stranger's room, again ran into the elevator to join him, pushed him ,although unintentionally, into the pool. The king isn't saying this gives him the right to assault her. But if we consider that if Rads hadn't forced herself in above mentioned scenarios Arjun would have just treated Rads like he treats Changu.

In Saral's case its the other way round. he is entering her personal space and dictating terms.

*king*

Originally posted by: *king*

@Arshita : Well, anyone with a sane mind wouldn't agree with the manhandling. Its funny that Rads is lost in Arjun's eyes when he is threatening to kill her.

Our CV's believe romance is like a weed, it can grow anywhere and everywhere. We need to thank our stars that they didn't include a scene wherein there is no chloroform/ anesthesia in the hospital and the doctor operated on Rads while Ardhika were lost in each others eyes.

This is why Tere Sheher Mein is one of the best show in the current lot. The love stories are so believable and relatable, so are the characters.

*king*

Originally posted by: arshita235

In real life if a guy touches a girl she will not tolerate leave manhandling

many of us are working women imagine if someone behaves so with us dont we file a harrassment case??

i will defo do

abt fiance...can rads for once slap him n break d rishta

marriage is a big time commitment

rads n saral were best friends so rads defo knows his thinking abt women n sanskaar

if she has a problem she just has to say no...her parents will surely support her

rads didnt stand upto both...leave being against she didnt even raise her voice

if saral was played by aham n arjun by karan then everyone will say

"awww he is being jealous he is so possesive of his fiance"...problem is with us also

Originally posted by: sania_58

@ Arshita, I want to say something about this.
I dont think Radhika will that easily come out from this Saral wala commitment.
Because Saral is not just a boy, who likes Rads & engaged with her.
Saral is Radhika's elder sister Devar right???
Radhika's didi gave this proposal.
so, Its in Family.It will be difficult for Radhika.

Originally posted by: arshita235

agreed

90% wont standup because in d end girl will nly blamed

"out of all girls y he is harrasssing nly u...u might given some signal"

"u need to two hands for a clap"

"Zaroor ladki ne kuch kiya hoga warna wo kyun peeche padta"

and the main dialogue "See the kind of clothes u wear provokes them we cant help it u should follow dress code"

how will a girl dares to standup if this is d case

about domestic violence,i personally know a girl who is going through it

many things have been done police case,panchayat everything

she left d his home & joined my hostel

after few days both parents convinced them to reconcile...parents know that guy beat her daughter from 11pm to 4am

still they wanted her to reconcile

now that girl is again with her husband

Originally posted by: matreyee

Manhandling is not justified regardless of who does it hence i am not going to side with anyone...but Arjun behaves aggressively with Radhika only when she interferes with his plan ad it usually the LAST resort he applies in hope that she will get scared and back off...Saral on the other hand is used to such cheap actions as he believes its his right to treat his to b wife in any manner he likes....so u see its not the action that differentiates them but the thought process behind those actions...

Originally posted by: sania_58

About tolarating Harassment in work place, I agree with all your points.
I want to add more.
I am also a working woman, I am a teacher.
Now, the Question is, main kyun kaam karti hoon???Teaching is a noble profession, I got the job. thats it.
Now I am Independent.
But I know many women who only work for money.Financial problem is the main reason for working.
If she filed a complain, that one of his colleagues harassing her, then she will face many problems in working.Her job will be in danger.
In this situation, 90% women in India always do Compromise.