Gift on first night. Like Really?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am a Mohit Mallik fan so started watching this show. I will continue watching it until the story does not interest me anymore.
The last couple of episodes have been grating on my mind a bit badly. But today's episode took the cake. What gift did your husband give you on first night?!!! That flummoxed me. a) Why would you ask that question in front of everyone? b) And if someone asked you that question, why would you feel embarassed to answer. If you do not want to let the world know that you did not get a gift, say you do not want to reveal. Why show that you are saddened because your husband is not the romantic you thought he would be?
I hope they stop these regressive dialogues. However, how beautiful does Urmi's mom look! I want them jhumkis now!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Oh my gosh. It was so weird that Urmi actually expected a gift on her wedding night. I don't know why she had all these expectations in the first place. How long have you been talking to Samrat for? A few weeks? Lol and now you're in love? Hahahaha get a reality check!

I guess Ishaan really messed things up for Urmi by sending those fake "romantic" messages. He's too much of a romantic for my taste actually. But, I guess Urmi likes those type of men lol and look what she wound up with instead.

On the whole regressive matter, it continues! Like when Samrat's mom was like to Urmi, "your mom has prepared you well for your in laws". Basically someone who cooks, cleans and doesn't use her own brain to make decisions. Also, more "sasural is a girl's real home" nonsense. These writers must really hate women.

Anyways, after the inital wah wah wah from Urmi, I'd like to see actual arguments ensue between this couple. It'll make for good drama at least.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ishaan had told everyone that Samrat would give a gift to Urmi once they were alone after the wedding. And that's why Urmi was expecting a gift. Samrat, to be fair, did go out and buy a necklace for Urmi. But his mother's green eyed monster reared its head and won the necklace.😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Urmi is a dreamer...from the first episode that was evident...she built up her ideal of what her husband would be like and that's why she has all these expectations...

She built Samrat up in her mind into the guy she thought he would be and he isn't living up to what she dreamed...


She's too naive and subservient for my tastes...the show has been a downer for me for the past few episodes as I see no character progression...not even a little bit...whatever Samrat did out of his comfort zone was to prove a point...so it doesn't count...

This whole marriage means nothing to him...

The gift on the wedding night thing...idk...she again was expecting too much as she dreamed the ideal SR and got welts on her wrists and a less than romantic wedding night instead since her new hubby finds the TV more interesting than her...


I'll keep up with the show for while longer...

Sahana! Nice to see you here 🤗
Edited by cclove - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yup, even I was wondering, what Gift on the first night and why😆
Btw, Urmi has really weird idea about love and marriage...esp. for a marriage that isn't out of 'love' but rather 'arranged'. Although, I feel too, for her, being young - one gets all these ideas about "romantic' over-hyped love, thanks to Bollywood...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Unless they surprise the audience with some usual talent of Urmi it will be difficult for Samrat --
She is nice.. ok she is docile, nice hearted, clean beautiful.. END. Lot of girls are like that ..

What ii that spark or suspense that will capture Samrat 's attention we need to wait for that ..

Samrat did buy a gift in ishan's insistence but his mom took it .. sick lady
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Posted: 11 years ago
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There has to be something in her that attracts sam to her nd he starts feeling for her
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Urmi is a sweet girl with her filmy dreams as many have said already. I feel for her lost dreams but what would be awesome is if the writers make a whole turn around track-let Urmi feel the pain of her lost dreams and continue to get her disappointments, then one day have an "enough is enough" moment and change completely. Let her become a strong, demanding wife who doesn't care for Samrat outwardly. I don't know if it's in Urmi's character to get such a change. It would be nice at that point though that Samrat then learns to love and respect her and go from there. For now, it's just a bit too much over-the-top drama of poor girl who is being disappointed left and right. (I haven't been watching the show, just reading the updates).
I hope they can make her character develop into a strong one. Let's see what the writers have in store for us!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Urmi I needs to snap out of her Lala land..seriously.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lechocolat

Oh my gosh. It was so weird that Urmi actually expected a gift on her wedding night. I don't know why she had all these expectations in the first place. How long have you been talking to Samrat for? A few weeks? Lol and now you're in love? Hahahaha get a reality check!

I guess Ishaan really messed things up for Urmi by sending those fake "romantic" messages. He's too much of a romantic for my taste actually. But, I guess Urmi likes those type of men lol and look what she wound up with instead.

On the whole regressive matter, it continues! Like when Samrat's mom was like to Urmi, "your mom has prepared you well for your in laws". Basically someone who cooks, cleans and doesn't use her own brain to make decisions. Also, more "sasural is a girl's real home" nonsense. These writers must really hate women.

Anyways, after the inital wah wah wah from Urmi, I'd like to see actual arguments ensue between this couple. It'll make for good drama at least.

Ishaan needs to mind his own business. Yes, I too want Urmi and Sanrat to actually have conversations instead of expectations alone. Lol about the writes. They should probably go on a vacation!

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