SK got strength of character

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sk looks simple,thinks and acts simple......these days the trend is to admire the go getters...The old value of "simplicity is the best virtue "is lost...today's youngsters may not relate with SK's character.
He has a strength of character.
1. He doesn't hide anything about himself. He told everything about himself and admired the same characteristic in Preeti when she tells she has some decease(though it is a lie).
2. He tells Sneh latha that it is very important that Preeti should like him.
3.He refuses to take dowry.
4. He respected Preeti when she told her he is not her choice.
5.He doesn't feel hesitant to tell he only played gilli danda and likes only daal bath when Rishi was showing off.
6. he takes on the responsibility as the eldest son and does his best irrespective of how the step mom is.
7. He understands his stepmom is very insecure person and her agressiveness comes out of her insecurity...so he simply chooses to ignore it.
8. He supported Preeti and talked on behalf of her to his step mom.
9. when he can help somebody he just acts and helps.
10. Lastly what he says and what he does match perfectly.
. He doesn't believe in dowry system...he didn't take and he doesn't want to give. When your actions match with what you are thinking and what you are doing......that person is not a coward
he is a real man. Fashionable Rishi with a trendy life....is a coward...he can't face the reality...he hides it from his wife.. he tells the party is to make his mom happy...there you see the difference
he is saying something and doing and thinking something else.When frustrated he shouts at his wife.....where is the respect for his wife....I suppose only sissies respect their wives.
In SK's position it is an easy way out to fulfill all his mom's wishes by just letting her take dowry from Preeti's parents. He was never tempted......he could have taken the money from the bank manager in the hospital..he never did. Anybody in his place can easily react to his step mom's behavior..he chose to ignore it....Only a strong person can control temptations and anger.
He is a fallower of Swami Vivekananda....If Vivekananda is alive he will be proud of Sk's strong character.
It is very easy to shout back at the step mom and remind her he is the one who is putting the food on the table.
It is very easy to tell Preeti to either accept him as husband or leave him......But he doesn't choose an easy way out for any problem. He faces the problems like a real man. Like a hero. He is far from a coward or a sissy.






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Posted: 15 years ago
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Great analysis.. Agree in many points but disagree with some.
him ignoring his step-moms bad mouthing is not so good👎🏼. Even silent agreement to the evil is a crime and here he is at fault in letting his mom taunt his wife. He should be responsible for his wife's pride at his home or rather their home. He can ignore whatever his mom tells about him but not about Preeti or her parents and in that regard he need to starighten his backbone and stand up to his mother.
Baaki sab tho chakaas hai in your analysis.👍🏼
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ammoos

Great analysis.. Agree in many points but disagree with some.

him ignoring his step-moms bad mouthing is not so good👎🏼. Even silent agreement to the evil is a crime and here he is at fault in letting his mom taunt his wife. He should be responsible for his wife's pride at his home or rather their home. He can ignore whatever his mom tells about him but not about Preeti or her parents and in that regard he need to starighten his backbone and stand up to his mother.
Baaki sab tho chakaas hai in your analysis.👍🏼


Thanks ammos....just one doubt........how come we never called DM coward or sissy...just because he looks smart unlike SK. DM never stopped moti .....
Is it because SK looks so simple and nerdish. This is what happens in reality..looks matter a lot.....
Do you think even the fictional characters are subjected to same prejudices.
Edited by jkrfan - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Totally agree wih yu jkrfan!! SK is indeed a strong character n he does what he says. He's teh best character in the show!!
Even in today's epi, he didn't say anyfin against his stepmom eventhough she was shouting at him..he's strong n way too much adorable!!😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Aww sweet post! Totally agree!
Suryakamal is a gem!! Love his character!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with you totally love Surya character he is really sweet and adorable and I hate the guts of his step mum why do they have to show her in the first place lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i disagree..........firstly, looks and attidtude and smartness matter a LOT in today's world....and Suryakamal's way of talking is ANNOYING as hell....!! no one would respect someone who talks in a monotonous "jee-huzoor" tone all the time...he does not need to be RUDE, but he could be firm and yet polite in his tone...he does not possess any PERSONALITY, for starters.
he is good-natured but he does not have a backbone, which makes it very diificult to fall for a person like him.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: krystal_watz

i disagree..........firstly, looks and attidtude and smartness matter a LOT in today's world....and Suryakamal's way of talking is ANNOYING as hell....!! no one would respect someone who talks in a monotonous "jee-huzoor" tone all the time...he does not need to be RUDE, but he could be firm and yet polite in his tone...he does not possess any PERSONALITY, for starters.

he is good-natured but he does not have a backbone, which makes it very diificult to fall for a person like him.


Today's world....appearance is what matters even it is deceptive....
.I agree with you the makers of this show are exaggerating his simplicity too much that they are making him a boring character..that we are not able to appreciate the good qualities in him. Even SK's mom's character is exaggerated. They can tone down the mom's aggressiveness and make SK a little bit more firm....I suppose they can achieve this without changing his looks....they should make his good qualities shine through his bad appearance. Personality is not how you look and what you wear after all.
I hope Kavita B is reading our comments. Do something Kavita make the viewers fall for SK.

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