His only mistake....

Originally posted by: basheerahmajeed

His only mistake is that he is KIND.

Might I add naive to the trait as well!

' He is the killer of Antara's Dad and Geeta's husband." This is continuously repeated in the forum.

But the fact is unfortunately he is! He was used and manipulated but so our most of the people in these situation. Judicially they are not awarded as innocent party too. There is a reason public warnings like- don't trust strangers, or handle unknown items are issued. The ramifications are too much! He still is very much liable to be tried in the court, not for intended murder but accidental!

Point is... he did not. He thot he was delivering a gift. Yes, the characters of the show are not aware of this, but we are. And yet there are debates on "how can she ever love her fathers killer?"

The point is - Antara might overlook what he did or how he was used in that circumstances and grant her forgiveness. But the fact remains - he does stand to be the symbol of how and what happened to her father. How does she psychologically separate her father's death from his love is a vital point. It is not just about the intent or how the murder happened but the result which affects her. Would she be at peace or ever in a position where she can stand infront of him and not visualize the gruesome scene.

If Geeta Kaul was rational and had in any tiny way been influenced by her very wise husband, she would be able to look beyond the deed after her initial shock. She is older and wiser... and thus, she should begin to question. For she will remember Raghu as a kind do gooder.

Geeta Kaul has lived under the after-shocks for some time . Her first priority should be be her family and the young boy,Ishan, who is far removed from reality. She should confront and admonish Antara on her silliness and rashness. I don't know how aware would be about Raghu's actions when her health improves but she should confront him about what made him do that. She is no way liable or obliged to Raghu and her forgiveness and approval should take a good healthy time.

Antara , on the other hand , is a young grieving girl who can 't see anything beyond her dad's death. And this is where the character fails to receive sympathy from certain members of the forum {as Gaganjot has written.} She is in love. People in love will try their bestest to understand the wrongs their lovers have been accused of . After the shock her first questions should be "why?, when?, where?, who?, and how?" Instead she very foolishly believed the one man who she KNEW, would do anything to hurt her lover.

The thing is , she was too bitter , too broken when she heard everything and reaffirmed by Raghu himself. At the same night and same moment , Satya for his own reasons gave her a last hope to live and fight. She did the most stupid thing to overcome not only the love she has for Raghu but foolishly believe in this sort of revenge. Impulsiveness has always been her bane and here due to the circumstances it was magnified. I feel as soon as Satya's reality or her mother's own words hit her, she would realize the gravity of her actions. She needs a big jolt to figure the whys , maybe DM reveal is a precursor.

After having said all that, I will also like to say--- no -- how can we judge Antara --- for she did what a lot of people do-- make a decision when she was at her lowest emotional period of her life. What the CVs are trying to teach us is, what all wise people know. Do not make a decision with only your heart, your mind must play a part too. Something that is easy to say but hard to do.

Bingo with that. She made a huge mistake at a time when she as a person was at her lowest and indeed she is going to bear the result of it!

Coming back to the point-- please don't refer poor Raghu as the killer or murderer. So sad, I feel when I read that. He is a kind soul. Too kind to see the evil in his DM.

Sentiment appreciated. But I feel this is his journey, his future deeds would be powerful enough to cover and negate this stamp on his conscious.

By the by , I do want to congratulate the CVs here. Their script, annoying ,faulty, full of loopholes or not ,has brought about a lot of healthy discussion and debate in this forum.

Agree. The whole discussion and debate is so good for sharing different POVs and such a departure from other forums!

And that too in English😉.

So thankful for that!

Originally posted by: basheerahmajeed

His only mistake is that he is KIND. Indeed, he is a gunda with a heart of gold. In fact his rough behaviour is mostly to hide how kind he is! Imagine Shetty finding out his secret?!😲😆

'He is the killer of Antara's Dad and Geeta's husband." This is continuously repeated in the forum. So glad to see this. He was just in the right place at the wrong time. He has been used as a pawn and now through no fault of his is made to pay by having his heart broken.

Point is... he did not. He thot he was delivering a gift. Yes, the characters of the show are not aware of this, but we are. And yet there are debates on "how can she ever love her fathers killer?" We can't choose who we fall in love with, just as Antu could not choose whether to love Raghu or not. It happened. But it was her choice, just would it be ours, how she dealt with that love when she found out his part in her father's death. But that does not mean she has stopped loving him, just that she is trying to kill her love and though not very successfully!

If Geeta Kaul was rational and had in any tiny way been influenced by her very wise husband, she would be able to look beyond the deed after her initial shock. She is older and wiser... and thus, she should begin to question. For she will remember Raghu as a kind do gooder. This is too simplistic...and emotions never are. She loved her husband and lived with him for years, bore him two children and then she just forgives the person who had a hand in his death?...I won't be surprised if she is dazed for a while before she starts thinking. Yes, she has the benefit of more life experience than Antu and so will know that everything isn't black and white and the life is more about the shades of grey. Only then will she think and then perhaps see to having a conversation with Raghu. In real terms this could take months, but in film time who knows - 2 days/2 weeks or 2 months!

Antara , on the other hand , is a young grieving girl who can 't see anything beyond her dad's death. And this is where the character fails to receive sympathy from certain members of the forum {as Gaganjot has written.} She is in love. People in love will try their bestest to understand the wrongs their lovers have been accused of . After the shock her first questions should be "why?, when?, where?, who?, and how?" Instead she very foolishly believed the one man who she KNEW, would do anything to hurt her lover. Yes, she did fail to ask an important Q to Raghu when they are in the mandaap, and though it irritated me, I knew it was being kept for later revelation...but again the excuse is that she was under emotional overload. It happens to all of us when we get angry, we say and behave in ways that later we would cringe! (hopefully no one has gone to marry their enemy!😉😆). At that point, she could not trust anything Raghu said because with his own mouth he admitted he lied to her about something crucial. I know people believe in rosy love but the fact of the matter is everyone is human and the people we love dearly can lie to us...So, why shouldn't she believe Satya? when Raghu admitted to lying to her. That is the only thing that matters, hence her later thinking she has been betrayed. Lover is not another word for being trustworthy.

After having said all that, I will also like to say--- no -- how can we judge Antara --- for she did what a lot of people do-- make a decision when she was at her lowest emotional period of her life. What the CVs are trying to teach us is, what all wise people know. Do not make a decision with only your heart, your mind must play a part too. Something that is easy to say but hard to do. Oh yes and please whatever you do, do not enter into bargains that may lead you into marriage with an abusive man!...whilst your former love lives in the same house as well!😃

Coming back to the point-- please don't refer poor Raghu as the killer or murderer. So sad, I feel when I read that. He is a kind soul. Too kind to see the evil in his DM. Yes!

By the by , I do want to congratulate the CVs here. Their script, annoying ,faulty, full of loopholes or not ,has brought about a lot of healthy discussion and debate in this forum.Debate is healthy and nice...but assumptions or trying to impose real life sense to fiction is not the way to go.😊

And that too in English😉. I also concur 👏.