do u think its right to liplock before marriage???/

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Amina

@KreyaArshiLover

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Posted: 11 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: Serena.V
Its weird to be married first and them get ur first kiss 😲

🤣 oh god this was too good yaar!!

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sita

@sitakshii

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Posted: 11 years ago

#72

@ Kreya...thanks for the feedback...i will def keep that in my mind while dealing with my sis and my students :)

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Merlin

@Minni147

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Posted: 11 years ago

#73

I Don't Know how to React about this Matter Coz Az i think both Sides What i Actually feel iz Kissing Before marriage iz not a Bad or Its not a Good Thing.. In a Relation when a Girl & Boy Gets Close to Each other They Will kiss its Common az u Mention if That Relation may Stay or not Then After Kiss its some thing which Kills u inner.. BTW now a Dayz in relation Kiss & Sex Before Marriage Became Pretty Common.. & Kiss became a Silly Matter.. PPl Mind Set got Changed Everyone Changing their Mentality... I Don't Agree with Sex but coming about Kiss Before Marriage iz not a Mistake U must Not b Hurry in a relation Better Known Each Other Very Well & if u trust & Believe that Ur Truly going 2 Spend ur Rest of Life with that person then u Can Kiss

Lastly i say Backstep iz Better than Regretting [ Before & After Kiss]😛

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Kangto09

@Kangto09

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Posted: 11 years ago

#74

My second reply on this forum but I had to respond. I echo the sentiments of people who say there is nothing wrong or right about kissing before marriage. What is important is how you as a person and your partner feel. Virginity is still highly prized in India yet I don't think it should be used as a mean of control. Virginity doesn't put you on a moral high ground. I live in Canada and I haven't kissed anybody. Simple reason is that I haven't found anyone I like and trust enough to kiss. However, if I was able to find a guy who respected me, loved me, understood me, and there were romantic feelings involved, I would have no hesitation kissing him. It really goes down to personal choice. I am more of an old-fashioned person who is okay with a kiss and hug but no sex before marriage. Other people believe that how can you find out if you are sexually compatible with your partner if you have not done it? Sex shouldn't be something dirty and shameful but beautiful and consensual. Both points are valid but a person must do what feels right to them? If you are a teacher, I would suggest you raise the girls to be strong, independent women who rely on their instincts and good judgement. I am a huge believer in sex ed because if someone one young wants to experiment, at least it minimizes consequences. I've had pregnant teen girls in my high school and that life ain't pretty. Better to know about safe sex practices.

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NaijaLuv88

@NaijaLuv88

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#75

I wasn't going to respond but it was interesting to read everyone's views on here. Personally I'm not Indian and I live in America, but I can understand why some people are unwilling to comment or believe that kissing is restrictively held for marriage or for more of a serious relationship. I know in my culture it isn't as pressed about kissing, dating, and sex however, in my family i grew up in a more traditional than most and I wasn't allowed to date and etc. So, whenever I used to see classmates (and some friends) talking about kissing or that they had sex I was personally uncomfortable as sex before marriage was a big no-no within my family. However, I never judge them or said anything pertaining to their activites as long as their were being smart and were aware about being safe in whatever activity they were doing.

I personally believe kissing is up to the two people who are engaging in it. As long as the couple are both willing participants then there shouldn't be any issue. However, I wouldn't kiss someone unless it was a very serious relationship that I was in and would eventually lead to marriage. However, kissing is defined differently by others some see it as being a very intimate act while others just see it as something that isn't serious. It is really up to the person and how they view kissing in itself.

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TheGiggles

@TheGiggles

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Posted: 11 years ago

#76

For me, I don't see how can something as pure as love can be considered as impure. People should be free to decide what's good for them. After all it's their lives, their own happiness in game. It's them who are going to suffer the consequences.

The best gift a parent can give their children is to guide them so they can make wise decisions.

And it's just a manipulation of the big hypocritical society. And it all end, of course, in pointing girls/women(even by women themselves) till the point of dehumanize them.

And then people actually wonder why so many rapes, female feticide and abuse in general. Something is obviously wrong,

Everyday we see brutal violence, women being abused on TV and movies. But that's ok, no one says anything. A kiss scene or a display of affection, now that's bad. That's improper!. What an example for young!

*Note the sarcasm.

And then people actually wonder why so many rapes, female feticide and abuse in general.

Maybe that's what we need. To be more open to affection and more closed to violence.

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