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Raybika or u can call reeyana too

@Reeyana

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Posted: 12 years ago

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don't know.. but in today's generation it has become a common thing (though i haven't experienced) u see when we were on 12th grade we use to go by bus to our college... and believe me there were 2 or 3 couple on the same bus... and we had to see them live kissing in the bus... god this was embarassing.. so i think it depends upon the couple itself.. we r no one to decide it for others.

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alishamerchant_

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Yaar i don't know it i should share my opinion cz this is a controversial topic!! No Comments!

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charminggenie

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Posted: 12 years ago

#43

Hey!

I normally write very less here but I just couldn't resist. See kissing or having sex as well is a very personal prerogative. Indian or not , its about how comfortable you are with your body and choices. Ofcouse being aware about protection and intimacy is a very good thing. But this in no certain ways has any reflection on a girl's morality or the society. OUr society has way too many evils to deal with then dictate and look down on a girl's personal choices.

FOr young girls, its important to learn how to rein in their emotions and be aware of their body. They need to learn that its ok to be intimate with someone if they feel comfortable enough. But be sure to draw the line where it becomes uncomfortable. Talk to your girls and tell them its normal to be attractive to somebody. Just dont be obsessive about it. Love happens many times and just be confident in who they are. Communication rather than policing them would go a long way.

At the end like I mentioned its personal call, if you feel like kissing do it and if you don't then be firm with that No!

Edited by charminggenie - 12 years ago

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srishv07

@srishv07

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Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Yaar mujhe nahin lagta hai that there is anything wrong in that...I mean if two people are so much in love then a kiss is just a way of expressing that love...but there again sab apni apni comfort levels pe depend karta hai 😊

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sita

@sitakshii

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Posted: 12 years ago

#45

THANKS Folks for all ur views
well as a teacher and as a sis i hv got sum responsibilities on my shoulders...so i putted my question in that way...

it was nice reading ur thoughts 😊

@ Rashmi--------yes i was def upset u know the reason but dont worry i will b fine soon ...:)😛

Edited by sita11 - 12 years ago

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sita

@sitakshii

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: charminggenie
Hey!
I normally write very less here but I just couldn't resist. See kissing or having sex as well is a very personal prerogative. Indian or not , its about how comfortable you are with your body and choices. Ofcouse being aware about protection and intimacy is a very good thing. But this in no certain ways has any reflective on a girl's morality or the society. OUr society has way too many evils to deal with then dictate and look down on a girl's personal choices.

FOr young girls, its important to learn how to rein in their emotions and be aware of their body. They need to learn that its ok to be intimate with someone if they feel comfortable enough. But be sure to draw the line where it becomes uncomfortable. Talk to your girls and tell them its normal to be attractive to somebody. Just dont be obsessive about it. Love happens many times and just be confident in who they are. Communication rather than policing them would go a long way.

At the end like I mentioned its personal call, if you feel like kissing do it and if you don't then be firm with that No!

Thanks a lot for ur advice
i will keep that in my mind while explaining to my students 😊

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Nabakov_Musings

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Posted: 12 years ago

#47

lol some comments made me laugh i mean cummon are you serious this is the twenty first century . Every couple in india nowadays liplocks\kisses whether their relationship lasts enough to translate to marriage or not and people are talking about kissing before marriage as a no- no lol. Kissing is extremely common nowadays. its all about ones way\manner in which they want their personal life to be shaped as. Each way will be different so we have no right to judge.

Edited by Escape.My.Love. - 12 years ago

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punnubaby

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Posted: 12 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: ankusanu
k i think it depends on d relationship:trust; duration of ur relation..n hw much u r confident of ur partner.kiss jrne se koi loose character b nh hota h..its also jst a expression of love fr d person u love jst like u hold hands or hug.. my views ..
jst a way to dhow u love..only

Completely agree wid u!! Lip lock b4 marriage I personally think is nt wrong provided the love btw the couple is very pure n pious!! There shd b a lot of trust n faith in the relationship!!In such a beautiful relationship I don think there is ny thin wrong in lip lock!!

Bt yes if its jus a act of adultery then im totaly against it!!!

A lip lock is rite or wrong completely depends on the purity of a relationship!!

By the way good topic of discussion!!!

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sita

@sitakshii

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Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: Escape.My.Love.
lol some comments made me laugh i mean cummon are you serious this is the twenty first century . Every couple in india nowadays liplocks\kisses whether their relationship lasts enough to translate to marriage or not and people are talking about kissing before marriage as a no- no lol. Kissing is extremely common nowadays. its all about ones way\manner in which they want their personal life to be shaped as. Each way will be different so we have no right to judge.

century doesnt hv to do anything wid this
going by ur views in 25th century ppl wont mind getting more intimate than liplock openly ...like on public places...
with each passing century we shd become more n more bold ..thats what u mean 😲😲

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Nabakov_Musings

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Posted: 12 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: XBitch_PleaseX

no itz ok when the girl is not comfortable she shouldnt do that
but when a girl is comfortable doing it...society still points out the girl...like itz such a big deal
im just telling itz a personal matter why always society pops in...do they set how many kids one will have..or how many times one will have sex?...then why r they after a lip kiss

lol sita i dont know which indian society you are talking about cause in the india i lived in my entire life , there almost every girl around me except me has gone way way further than just kissing when we were in high school . it was very common for half of the girls in my school and other schools across kolkata to have lost their virginity during high school. So I dont know which indian society you are talking about. I know so many conservative Indian parents' children who have gone much much further than just second base and were much younger than me.lol. India is extremely promiscuous , much more promiscuous than you think but its all done in secrecy cause everyone in our society pretends to see it as a taboo but secretly enjoys it . That's the hypocrisy of our society. Moreover , some girls feel that they shed their inhibitions when they go physical , and some don't and some feel that they do at one time and don't feel the same the next time , i mean it is all about ones point of view , and change in perception and action is constant and we can never judge that. ones so called moral standards i feel should only apply to themselves..they should not be the judging parameters for others around them. I always do that. Thats why I have best friends who are completely opposite to me in such matters.

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