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dhakarn

@dhakarn

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi...

Was raghu right in jumping to conclusion n blaming karan that he purposefully hid the identity of his mother? Was he right in accusing karan of plotting against shivani ? Was raghu right in assuming that karan had did something to ginni n not even trying to listen to karan n shivani n getting physical with karan...? Was raghu right in dragging karan's mother n their bloid relation in between ? N lastly was raghu right in not properly questioning ginni about what's happening n why she is with karan n just declare his verdict n leave...?

What r ur thoughts...

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Uma

@Uma-Arhaanfan

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Posted: 11 years ago

Yes he was wrong in doing all this.and he should have questioned ginni rather than being physical wit karan.but the sudden attack of jhatkas yesterday made him do the other way..i think when he leaves to home he may realise it and question ginni

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DivzOnAir

@DivzOnAir

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Posted: 11 years ago

Raghu did not make the right call in any of the situations u have mentioned.
Karan had told him on the first day itself that his mother.. how his views about marriage is different from his mother's. N y would Karan say that he is Renu aunty's son to Raghu? But I won't blame raghu entirely if he thought karan n his mom had teamed up against shivani. We were also skeptical about him after the article stated he is her son, right? Its natural reaction. V humans always assume the worst.

Regarding the ginni fiasco, I said the same in latha's post too. If I were in ginni's place, I would have got the first slap from my bro. N I would b lucky if he doesn't murder me.. but here raghu jumped at karan as if he was misbehaving with ginni at her home. On the contrary, ginni was at Karan's place. So even if Karan is a villain, ginni is as much at fault.. cos it looked like a consensual thing if anything.. I m actually waiting for tomorrow's episode to c how raghu questions ginni.
Dragging renu aunty into this new argument was not needed, cos c how his sanskari mother latha's kids are behaving. But it can b excused as an emotional brother's outburst. This is kind of a parallel to shi calling latha raghu's stepmom after she was hurt thinking even latha is after her property.

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dhakarn

@dhakarn

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Uma-Arhaanfan
Yes he was wrong in doing all this.and he should have questioned ginni rather than being physical wit karan.but the sudden attack of jhatkas yesterday made him do the other way..i think when he leaves to home he may realise it and question ginni

Thanks for the reply uma...

Yes i too found raghu wrong yesterday... hope he questions his own sister rather than asking karan about it... its hightime he looks at his family n realise the kind of people they r

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Simmi

@simmi.friends03

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Posted: 11 years ago

No...Raghu is wrong...whatever he is doing he is wrong..before pointed his finger on anybody he need to find the truth...actually he think whatever he think he do only he is the right...

but the problem i think deep inside..actually he is angry from himself only...& till he didn't realise it why ???? he won;t think straight...shivani's anger,pain in her eyes disturbing him...actually he made so many excuse to avoid the Q of Shivani but even he didn;t get it...

anger in shivani's eyes disturbing him..& the way Ranuka made her to bend in front of her ...its make him angry...becx he is angry from himself...

Sumitra can enjoy thinking that they r fighting but didn;t think that actually she herself is in problem...

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Simmi

@simmi.friends03

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: dhakarn

Thanks for the reply uma...

Yes i too found raghu wrong yesterday... hope he questions his own sister rather than asking karan about it... its hightime he looks at his family n realise the kind of people they r

yes Dhanya its high time for him to check his own family's act now...Hope now he will listen to Bela not to cheap Sumitra...

i think anger,pain in Bela & Shivani's eyes now asking him the Question which he need to answer now...

yes it was her sis Ginni who is wrong...Hope he find out soon...that Ginni is lying ..& its not Shivani karan's fault...or Ginni turn into another Sumitra...

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Latha.I

@Latha.I

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Posted: 11 years ago

We need to have a little bigger heart to understand Raghu here...1st we have to realize he is human and try it understand him just as the way we understood shivani's behavior 'under the influence' during MU

Raghu cannot act like a saint without any feelings...or emotions...

I don't find R completely at fault...given his situation there...1st he was under shock knowing Karan is renuka aunty's son...and shivani knows it but hide it from him...

And if we see the whole scene again...as soon as R spotted ginni there he walked to her 1st asked what r u doing here? Y r u in this dress? Wht r u doing in Karan's house at this time?

He did not get an answer from her...BUT 1ST HE ASKED GINNI ONLY...

Then Karan intrupted saying u r misunderstanding...then he asked Karan to clarify him...he asked Karan to explain...Karan kept quiet...obviously any brother would get worst thought on both the people under such situation...

And note he did not hit Karan...he held his collar and warned him saying as a brother I will do anything if man sets buri nazar on my sis...

Well if this wrong. Then Raghu beating the street boys for sake of shivani is also wrong...and that too where the whole wrong talk was initiated by shivani herself...when we saw a MAN in Raghu then y should we see a goon in Raghu now?... So he can do anything for shivani but dame thing if he does for his family it is wrong...

Getting back to scene then shivani walked in and shouted at Raghu...how can he blame Karan without knowing wht hapnd...then he asked shivani to explain...u only told me she was at Friends place but she is here...u explain...she has no answer...

But still for us it R's fault for asking everyone ginni Karan and shivani...but it is not their fault not giving an answer though they know wht hapnd

We can understand Karan and shivani for hiding the facts from Raghu saying they have still figure out...y ginni lied to them...but we have to find Raghu at fault for trying to understand what hapnd...so he questioning them is his fault...but again it is his fault for not finding wht hapnd... R we really fair?

Though shivani knows the truth and hides it from Raghu and ulta she shouted on Raghu as if he did a crime...when she found ginni is not friend's place? And was missing y did she not call Raghu y r we overlooking her negligence there...

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DivzOnAir

@DivzOnAir

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Posted: 11 years ago

@Latha: raghu did go to ginni first. But the tone was different with both Karan n ginni. With ginni, he was more shocked but with Karan he was harsh. Raghu is not wrong in treating Karan the way he did, any brother would. Actually they would do worse. Like i said before, its human nature to assume the worst. But he should deal with ginni the same way too is all I feel. That is y I m waiting for tomorrow's episode to c how he questions ginni.

N about asking everyone again n again, he was asking yes, but did he giv shivani or karan a chance to answer?

N as for hiding renu aunty is karan's mom, I think there is a difference between hiding n not telling. Karan obviously had no reason to tell raghu that he is renu aunty's son. Shivani, v know dnt judge ppl based on their relatives, so she too might not have felt any reason to bring in renu aunty.

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Latha.I

@Latha.I

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: DivzOnAir
@Latha: raghu did go to ginni first. But the tone was different with both Karan n ginni. With ginni, he was more shocked but with Karan he was harsh. Raghu is not wrong in treating Karan the way he did, any brother would. Actually they would do worse. Like i said before, its human nature to assume the worst. But he should deal with ginni the same way too is all I feel. That is y I m waiting for tomorrow's episode to c how he questions ginni.

N about asking everyone again n again, he was asking yes, but did he giv shivani or karan a chance to answer?

N as for hiding renu aunty is karan's mom, I think there is a difference between hiding n not telling. Karan obviously had no reason to tell raghu that he is renu aunty's son. Shivani, v know dnt judge ppl based on their relatives, so she too might not have felt any reason to bring in renu aunty.

I really don''t understand how the tone should be in such situations...is he supposed to be happy??? is he supposed to be begging? how should a tone should be...of a bro in such situation...remeber Jaz tone and Daju hitting Raghu...in the 1st epis of show...when they saw Raghu in shivani;s room at midni8...when abhi plotted that...then also even without understand wht hapnd jaz shouted on Raghu and Daju slapped him...but we have understand that...but not here...

and wht does it mean R did not give time to them to answer...when shivani got time to stop Raghu and question abt his decision on her life... and ask to divorce sumi...in such situation...but did not get time to answer wht he is asking...she cared only abt her getting back to wif position least bothered abt a young girl there...or did Raghu say...I don;t want to listen to anyone...???

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DivzOnAir

@DivzOnAir

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Latha.I
I really don''t understand how the tone should be in such situations...is he supposed to be happy??? is he supposed to be begging? how should a tone should be...of a bro in such situation...remeber Jaz tone and Daju hitting Raghu...in the 1st epis of show...when they saw Raghu in shivani;s room at midni8...when abhi plotted that...then also even without understand wht hapnd jaz shouted on Raghu and Daju slapped him...but we have understand that...but not here...
I think v have a communication gap here 😊. I dnt have any problem with raghu being harsh with karan. My problem is that ginni dint get a slap she deserved. She was at Karan's place at night in a skimpy dress. If anything, it looked like a consensual situation. So I felt that raghu was soft in dealing with her. The reason y I m waiting for tomorrow.

and wht does it mean R did not give time to them to answer...when shivani got time to stop Raghu and question abt his decision on her life... and ask to divorce sumi...in such situation...but did not get time to answer wht he is asking...she cared only abt her getting back to wif position least bothered abt a young girl there...or did Raghu say...I don;t want to listen to anyone...???

Actually shi started the mrg thing only wen raghu declared that he'll not let the marriage take place. N as for not caring abt the young girl, shi knws that she has not been harmed. So her main concern obviously would b her friend who is taking blame for no mistake of his. Though i agree, if shi had called raghu first itself all this could hav been easily avoided...maybe she was scared of the reaction, n she trusted Karan enough to get ginni safely home.

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