was raghu right? - Page 2

Originally posted by: DivzOnAir

Raghu did not make the right call in any of the situations u have mentioned.
Karan had told him on the first day itself that his mother.. how his views about marriage is different from his mother's. N y would Karan say that he is Renu aunty's son to Raghu? But I won't blame raghu entirely if he thought karan n his mom had teamed up against shivani. We were also skeptical about him after the article stated he is her son, right? Its natural reaction. V humans always assume the worst.

Regarding the ginni fiasco, I said the same in latha's post too. If I were in ginni's place, I would have got the first slap from my bro. N I would b lucky if he doesn't murder me.. but here raghu jumped at karan as if he was misbehaving with ginni at her home. On the contrary, ginni was at Karan's place. So even if Karan is a villain, ginni is as much at fault.. cos it looked like a consensual thing if anything.. I m actually waiting for tomorrow's episode to c how raghu questions ginni.
Dragging renu aunty into this new argument was not needed, cos c how his sanskari mother latha's kids are behaving. But it can b excused as an emotional brother's outburst. This is kind of a parallel to shi calling latha raghu's stepmom after she was hurt thinking even latha is after her property.

Yes divya ...given the situation we too assumed that may b karan is planning things with renuka... n so raghu too did... he didn't ask him though ...he just blamed him ...

Yes raghu should as ginni thoroughly...

Hmm... that was a pretty low blow...never expected it from raghu... yes he should have asjed vivek about his mothers bloid after he went n techically murdered an unnocent girl in his greed... n yes ! Shivani did it ...n now raghu too doing it...

Originally posted by: DivzOnAir

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Originally posted by: simmi.friends03

No...Raghu is wrong...whatever he is doing he is wrong..before pointed his finger on anybody he need to find the truth...actually he think whatever he think he do only he is the right...

but the problem i think deep inside..actually he is angry from himself only...& till he didn't realise it why ???? he won;t think straight...shivani's anger,pain in her eyes disturbing him...actually he made so many excuse to avoid the Q of Shivani but even he didn;t get it...

anger in shivani's eyes disturbing him..& the way Ranuka made her to bend in front of her ...its make him angry...becx he is angry from himself...

Sumitra can enjoy thinking that they r fighting but didn;t think that actually she herself is in problem...

Yes ...deep inside he had that fear that he was going to commit a blunder... n ruin shivani's life... n ofcourse ...he does have this notion that whatever he thinks n does iis right... his line ' i will do whatever i feel like right whether u like it not not' proved that he has no regard for others feelings n thinks that he can dictate others...playing god ... as shivani asked raghu rightly, its not a joke ... but then most r ok with raghu's raghu's show of possessiveness n authority...including myself... women likes being owned ...


Yes sumitra only has to plot the basics... the matter will go blow itself with the help of all others...

Originally posted by: dhakarn

Hi...

Was raghu right in jumping to conclusion n blaming karan that he purposefully hid the identity of his mother? Was he right in accusing karan of plotting against shivani ? Was raghu right in assuming that karan had did something to ginni n not even trying to listen to karan n shivani n getting physical with karan...? Was raghu right in dragging karan's mother n their bloid relation in between ? N lastly was raghu right in not properly questioning ginni about what's happening n why she is with karan n just declare his verdict n leave...?

What r ur thoughts...

Raghu was so spontaneous, totally unexpected from Raghu
He was wrong in judging karan as it was not him but his mom plotted against shivani,there is no need to drag about the blood relation...

Ginni issue was a total shock for him ,he jumped into conclusions without enquiring the issue from karan or ginni..Its human tendency to imagine the worst in such cases...hope he enquires after reaching home...I don't think it would happen because he will be hell bent on stopping marriage as he misunderstood the karan's character after series of events

Raghu was not wrong in questioning Karan... and Latha is right in saying that he first questioned Ginni.. but he didn't get any answer from her.. 😕..

But Raghu's words when he first came to Karan's house were odd.. 😲 (before seeing Ginni)

he blamed Karan for not revealing that Renuka is his mother.. why on earth should Karan reveal his mother's name to Raghu? 😕.. and moreover, he blamed Karan saying that all this was pre-planned by Karan and Renuka to trap Babyji.😕... how come Raghu forgot that he himself proposed the marriage to Karan and forced Shivani to accept it.. 😲

@latha: we blame everyone the whole time... is it not how all our discussions end? Agrreing on the fact that everyone is at fault. Normally, its only RaShi. This time v hav got two more scapegoats... none of the characters in this serial is perfect. They all have their own flaws. N they beautifully complement each other.

I dnt know about others, but I always try to find justification for wat both RaShi do. I may end up supporting Shivani more, cos I empathise with her more. But that doesn't mean I m blaming Raghu. I do feel very upset wen either of them are targeted at constantly without thinking wat was their reason for doing or not doing something,

In this case too, though I feel raghu was wrong (cos karan is not at fault) I know why he did wat he did(cos raghu doesn't know wat happened).. I didn't blame him...actually I was trying to justify his actions.

Originally posted by: DivzOnAir

@latha: we blame everyone the whole time... is it not how all our discussions end? Agrreing on the fact that everyone is at fault. Normally, its only RaShi. This time v hav got two more scapegoats... none of the characters in this serial is perfect. They all have their own flaws. N they beautifully complement each other.

I dnt know about others, but I always try to find justification for wat both RaShi do. I may end up supporting Shivani more, cos I empathise with her more. But that doesn't mean I m blaming Raghu. I do feel very upset wen either of them are targeted at constantly without thinking wat was their reason for doing or not doing something,

In this case too, though I feel raghu was wrong (cos karan is not at fault) I know why he did wat he did(cos raghu doesn't know wat happened).. I didn't blame him...actually I was trying to justify his actions.

Originally posted by: Latha.I

We need to have a little bigger heart to understand Raghu here...1st we have to realize he is human and try it understand him just as the way we understood shivani's behavior 'under the influence' during MU

Raghu cannot act like a saint without any feelings...or emotions...

I don't find R completely at fault...given his situation there...1st he was under shock knowing Karan is renuka aunty's son...and shivani knows it but hide it from him...

And if we see the whole scene again...as soon as R spotted ginni there he walked to her 1st asked what r u doing here? Y r u in this dress? Wht r u doing in Karan's house at this time?

He did not get an answer from her...BUT 1ST HE ASKED GINNI ONLY...

Then Karan intrupted saying u r misunderstanding...then he asked Karan to clarify him...he asked Karan to explain...Karan kept quiet...obviously any brother would get worst thought on both the people under such situation...

And note he did not hit Karan...he held his collar and warned him saying as a brother I will do anything if man sets buri nazar on my sis...

Well if this wrong. Then Raghu beating the street boys for sake of shivani is also wrong...and that too where the whole wrong talk was initiated by shivani herself...when we saw a MAN in Raghu then y should we see a goon in Raghu now?... So he can do anything for shivani but dame thing if he does for his family it is wrong...

Getting back to scene then shivani walked in and shouted at Raghu...how can he blame Karan without knowing wht hapnd...then he asked shivani to explain...u only told me she was at Friends place but she is here...u explain...she has no answer...

But still for us it R's fault for asking everyone ginni Karan and shivani...but it is not their fault not giving an answer though they know wht hapnd

We can understand Karan and shivani for hiding the facts from Raghu saying they have still figure out...y ginni lied to them...but we have to find Raghu at fault for trying to understand what hapnd...so he questioning them is his fault...but again it is his fault for not finding wht hapnd... R we really fair?

Though shivani knows the truth and hides it from Raghu and ulta she shouted on Raghu as if he did a crime...when she found ginni is not friend's place? And was missing y did she not call Raghu y r we overlooking her negligence there...

What r u implying , that all those who find raghu wrong in this current situation like our forum friends have small hearts ?

It is bec raghu is human that he is wrong... only humans can b wrong or right...

Nobody told here uncluding myself that raghu didn't question ginni first... raghu didn't question ginni enough! N karan only interrupted when raghu asked ginni why she was in karan's place at this point in night in such dress... he only interrupted when his name was taken n that too in a worse accusing manner... n all he said was ' u r misunderstanding raghu' which was right ... n he had to begin some where...he can't direcctly jump to ginni telling lies n all other stuff including the live letter...

N raghu asked them...but they didn't stay silent except ginni... when ever karan n shuvani tried to talk raghu silenced them n even said that i don't want to hear a thing!... he never let them speak!

N shivani was deligent ...its not her fault that raghu's sister told a lie to her n went from the house in sawaar kamees n ended up at a club in a short dress! When she knew what happened she n karan mafe sure that ginni is safe... n she trusted her friend to take care of ginni... she was about to go to karan's house when raghu came n sumitra twisted the situation... n shivani couldn't do anything as renuka too came...

N as for raghu beating those pervs to almost death nobody said what he did was right ...! Infact i even made a pist on how both raghu n shivani r wrong there...

Raghu is wrong where he is wrong...just as shivani is wrong where she is wrong... i don't think 2 humans have diff rules of right n wrong...

N shivani didn' t hide about karan's mother from raghu... just as she sees only raghu n not his greedy family except bela n latha she doesn' t judge karan by his mother... n she knows that he is luving apart from renuka...she doesn't know that he has unformed renuka about the marriage

Originally posted by: shanthi510

Raghu was so spontaneous, totally unexpected from Raghu
He was wrong in judging karan as it was not him but his mom plotted against shivani,there is no need to drag about the blood relation...

Ginni issue was a total shock for him ,he jumped into conclusions without enquiring the issue from karan or ginni..Its human tendency to imagine the worst in such cases...hope he enquires after reaching home...I don't think it would happen because he will be hell bent on stopping marriage as he misunderstood the karan's character after series of events

Yes...human tendency only to jump into conclusions... many were accusing shivani to b mental n wrong when she did the same thing during mu... so i just wanted to know what all thought about raghu now that he doing the same thing...

Hmmm... i don't think the mu will get cleared soon...

Originally posted by: a_uma

Raghu was not wrong in questioning Karan... and Latha is right in saying that he first questioned Ginni.. but he didn't get any answer from her..😕..

But Raghu's words when he first came to Karan's house were odd.. 😲 (before seeing Ginni)

he blamed Karan for not revealing that Renuka is his mother.. why on earth should Karan reveal his mother's name to Raghu? 😕.. and moreover, he blamed Karan saying that all this was pre-planned by Karan and Renuka to trap Babyji.😕... how come Raghu forgot that he himself proposed the marriage to Karan and forced Shivani to accept it.. 😲

Di... raghu can question karan ... i was askung about his accusations n blaming n then dragging his mother in between ...

N i never said in my post that raghu didn't question ginni... i said raghu didn't question her enough... hopefully he will ask her when he gets to his house...

Yes that's what i meant too... how could he accuse karan for plotting when he was the one who gave karan the hope n forced shivani ..?