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Posted: 11 years ago
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Raghu had every right to ask karan as to why ginni was coming out of his bedroom in skimpy clothes. .. In anger, he said what he said. . If shivani in anger can call raghu naukar and call mahima barren which too is not required then it's just spur of the moment anger...

From raghu pov it's easy to understand that being renuka son it could be a plan because he omitted the fact that he is renuka son... renuka did not help matters when they came gloating to raghu place and they did insult him and he does not know that karan and his mother are estranged so he assumed that he was plotting with his mother. ..


When he assured raghu not to be the case then he calmed but with ginni coming out of his room , he jumped to conclusions... I don't think it's a matter of right and wrong when it comes to characters as we watch as third party knowing all the facts...


If we see through character eyes then the are just being human.. making mistakes
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sheena-

Raghu had every right to ask karan as to why ginni was coming out of his bedroom in skimpy clothes. .. In anger, he said what he said. . If shivani in anger can call raghu naukar and call mahima barren which too is not required then it's just spur of the moment anger...

From raghu pov it's easy to understand that being renuka son it could be a plan because he omitted the fact that he is renuka son... renuka did not help matters when they came gloating to raghu place and they did insult him and he does not know that karan and his mother are estranged so he assumed that he was plotting with his mother. ..


When he assured raghu not to be the case then he calmed but with ginni coming out of his room , he jumped to conclusions... I don't think it's a matter of right and wrong when it comes to characters as we watch as third party knowing all the facts...


If we see through character eyes then the are just being human.. making mistakes



The post is on raghu not shivani ... n what shivani did was dicussed earler when she did it...

I hope everybody everytime follows the same principles of right n wrong n humans makes mistakes for all the charaters... i remember many calling shivani mental n cheap n what not n for the same 'mistakes' that raghu is doung now... just wanted to know whether the same rules apply for both the human characters... n i got my answer ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhakarn



The post is on raghu not shivani ... n what shivani did was dicussed earler when she did it...

I hope everybody everytime follows the same principles of right n wrong n humans makes mistakes for all the charaters... i remember many calling shivani mental n cheap n what not n for the same 'mistakes' that raghu is doung now... just wanted to know whether the same rules apply for both the human characters... n i got my answer ...


I don't get what you mean tbh. .. I have never called shivani mental or cheap and I have said from the start the both characters are humans so it's unfair accusation on me dhanya. ..

Am I not allowed to mention shivani mistakes either. .. I was just using that as an example that if calling blood relationship is low then at that time in anger shivani said was low...

In anger I understand why characters say things both raghu or shivani...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sheena-



I don't get what you mean tbh. .. I have never called shivani mental or cheap and I have said from the start the both characters are humans so it's unfair accusation on me dhanya. ..

Am I not allowed to mention shivani mistakes either. .. I was just using that as an example that if calling blood relationship is low then at that time in anger shivani said was low...

In anger I understand why characters say things both raghu or shivani...





Even i don't understand why r u ferling offended di... i was just reiterating what u said about how to view actions of characters..

I said many ...n wasn't specifically meaning u di... n i just said about topic being about raghu bec many a times shivan's past actions or mistakes too get dragged here as if to compare...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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From a brother's point of view , yes I thought he was right. He had just found out karan was renuka's son. Thr Renuka who was an expert at plotting and planning. Ginni was found at his home wearing a short dress at atnight. Any elder brother would think the boy is at fault for misleading his little sister. Ginni is a teenager after all. India is not so advanced that the brother wud think its consensual. Spcially in a middle class family. [BR][BR]And regarding Raghu blaming Karan for not mentioning abt Renuka. The instant thought that wud have come to his mind when he realised that Renuka is Karan's mom was that karan had been conveniently planted by his mom in raghus office for getting revenge on Shivani. And his niceness and his love for shi was an act.[BR]Also his talking abt blood relations is not wrong either, a mom has significant influence in shaping the son's behavior and attitude towards life. Anybody wud regard karan with suspicion because of this. Even I am doing so why shud I blame araghu.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@dhanya...
Okay because you answered my post I assumed me... so my apologies...


As far as being a post on raghu , I think to justify Someone action in a scene we bring up past incidents where something similar happened... so it kinda evens out..

Raghu should not have even pursued the whole marriage thing in the first place... that was his blunder... I don't know what he should have done but I always felt he needed a mentor who he can speak and guide him on love and marriage...

It's a huge responsibility to have to be a shadow for shiva I. ... sometimes his decisions may be right and sometimes wrong... currently he is in a mess and without proper guidance he will make more blunders and mistakes
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhakarn

Hi...

Was raghu right in jumping to conclusion n blaming karan that he purposefully hid the identity of his mother?

Not right ..but more of human reaction .. or rather I will say the hidden possessivenss he feels for Shivani that makes him react in such impulsive way .// .. plus the way Renuka and Mahima marched into his house with shagun and stuffs and started taunting them , thats where Raghu got this doubt that mayb Karan is mixed in all this ...


Was he right in accusing karan of plotting against shivani ?

Again like I said above if Raghu just came to know Renuka is Karan's son , his reaction might hv been different but the way he came to know with Renuka+Mahima marching into their house with such confidence and evil victory smile , it gave him the doubt that mayb Karan is mixed in all this ...

Was raghu right in assuming that karan had did something to ginni n not even trying to listen to karan n shivani n getting physical with karan...?


It was actually his instant reaction .. like many times if its family vs outsider .. we will always like to target the outsider over our family without even chking if our family is on the right or wrong side .. human reaction I will say 🤔 .. in fact few months back only when Shivani was under the influence of evil trio , she always will believe her brother over Raghu because that time she was not in love with Raghu ... here I guess already Karan as Renuka's son was giving him doubts , on top of that seeing Ginni there just messed up his mind and he reacted rather impulsively without really thinking of the pros and cons (I used Shivani ka case as example here to explain my point of family vs outsider)



Was raghu right in dragging karan's mother n their bloid relation in between ?

yes that was wrong on his part .. no need to bring the blood relation here when he himself should b aware of the past where once Shivani in anger told him Latha is not your biological mother and he almost slapped her ,.., so it hurts when blood relations r scrutinsed and he should not hv done it

N lastly was raghu right in not properly questioning ginni about what's happening n why she is with karan n just declare his verdict n leave...?

I m waiting for monday on this .. I believe the drama will continue once they reach home and Raghu might question Ginni for sure but my only worry is if Sumi says Shivani gave her permission to go in this party or whatever it is . ..I hope we dont go round and round with more MUs on the way






About Ginni derserves a slap or not , honestly I m dead against the whole slapping act ... so I prefer instead of slapping Ginni , she need to b questioned in a stern tone ... Ginni is right now a teenage girl , a very dangerous age for today's youth .. one slap and they can become further rebellous ... they need to b asked questions in private actually and I hope Raghu to do that on monday ..

Between Raghu hodling Karan's collar and assuming worst about him and Ginni was a impulsive reaction but neverthless wrong too

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