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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Thank you Taha for feeling stupid is not the right word to be used to establish your POV. Even I felt the same. Also I didn't like the word " amuse" either. Why we should be amused, offended or angry in an open forum where everyone has a POV and we all are given enough freedom to agree or disagree with the POV.
Just because we disagree it doesn't mean that POV doesn't exist. Each one of us are unique and have a unique take on things.
Let us choose words while putting forth our POV. That helps to have a healthy discussion for which the forum is supposed to be.

Dear Madam/ Sir. I m not one of those members who will pounce upon another member on seeing on opposing view. I respect all views. And I ve already given my clarification on the word used by me. Even you can get amused by my views what's wrong with that. I think its not my fault but of the English language that causes so much confusion and offence to people. I will try to give my views in Hindi going forward taki Kisi KO bura na lage. Maine isse b kharab words dekhe hain Isi forum pe. M still using sophisticated language.

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Nisha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: dellon

As a Wife Sandhya has given Everything to Suraj .. its upto u
how u turn it So u must not blame her .. In interview ,The interview Panal in itself asks candidate
how wld u like to see urself in the next 5 years or 10 years .. Problem
is Suraj lacks these things and always clutches to his Mother and Family
, he can do this at at extent he will even throw his wife out .. Its
not less than a Harrasment to any Wife. And She can apply Divorce from
him on Accusing and Harrasing Charges.But She was Patient went far from
him came only when he asked to come back to him , want to hold her hand
and excuse him .. If u again do the same thing then there is no
difference between u and animal ..

Sandhya and Suraj are not
only two different people with Different
Professions but with Poles Apart thoughts .. If one has dreams to become
somthing from Childhood itself , the other always clutches to Mother
and Bullying wife even after giving all that he need to do something in
life , or to dream of his own .. They Derserve to be Divorced. or the
Harrasment , Supressing might go to an extent of Killing the Person or
Committing to Suicide , or Doing a Murder on her for the Faults within
u ..

Point - 2

Life with Husbands like him is Always a
Strained Life .. Once Mother in Law tortures , Once Jethani tortures,
Once Nanad , Once Devar plans of something If once Family Harrases ,
Once Husband does the other Harrasment and Obscuring her LIfe ...

---- Just for the reason Sandhya is woman u cant call her names as Bad Wife ,
destroyed a family , She has also duties of her Job ..


Its
like asking a College going Girl or School Going Girl to complete
responsibilities at home by sweeping the home , cleaning utensles ,
getting ur siblings ready to school , Knitting their hair and then go to
Collge/School .. 🥱🥱


Why dont u ask the same questions of his Husband , Dad , Son Duties to the Men who work in Army/Police .. 😲 What abt his Responsibilities to his Family ??

Just
for a reason she is a Woman u cant Supress her , Its Just so Stupidity
.. This is
Callled Female Descrimination . And its Highly Practiced in India.
(Just Type Female Descrimination in Google and the very first word
follws is - Female Descrimination in India) .In
Foreign countries they simply Stike it Off these kind of Arguements that
say woman who do Jobs are Bad .. These Kind of thoughts Simply take
India Back to 100 years .. This is the reason India is Still a
Developing country and Smallest countries like Japan , is aiding us
Funds to our economy .. Change ur thoughts , These kind of thoughts Lagg
us Behind from this
competetive world ..

You are right. But on one point I would like to differ and I am sorry for that. I felt that there are not many husbands in society today who would go out of their way to help their wives. Sooraj ji had was not properly educated but his thought process was refined. And whatever perspective he had about girl education was changed by sandhya gradually. Its not easy for a man to stay away from his wife for so long. They consummated after two years. I remember a scene from the movie border where sunny deol tells his father in law that he would divorce tabu ( his wife) if he is transferred from longewala. And then he tells her that on joining the army he swore on the nation that he would always protect it. Commoners have no idea about the what goes on in defence. But since its a fiction show certain unnecessary elements were added. But then I feel the makers took many risks. Some paid off some did not.

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Nisha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Lifebeautifulso
agree, though Im happy to see Mugl-e-azam comes back and gives pov, I totally don't like use "stupid" word here. I don't support to use bad words, especially we all comes here because we share a common in interest- dabh. I hope that we could be friends from discussing.

Thanks my friend and sorry if you are hurt. In the last line of my post I had mentioned that nothing personal since we are not enemies. Maine apna POV rakha Kisi KO attack karne Ki Bhavna nahi thi.

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: dellon

Its only assumption Suraj Supported Sandhya .. he infact made her life a hell in the name of Support 


He has only made her Life to face more torture from his
Mother , Family and Himself tortured her ..


His Mother
Spiked her food with alcohol content so that she culd nt write exams
😲😲😲.. His sister accuses her to send her out , no need to say many attempts by rest of the family too.. He kept Silent even after
knowing several attempts made by his family on the Orphan Girl .. She
wld rather hv been better life if she dnt marry him .. What if their madness increases day by day and they
kill this Orphan Girl one day seeing suraj nowhere around ..

Probably She cld have a better life by being independent and marrying some educated family and understanding husband ,,

Fixed
Deposit money on her name , Jewellery of parents , Ankur knows at some
point she might need them for Financial problems if the Mother in law
throws her out . Though she never used FD , Jewellery ... u can use that
as assurity to Finance company , Chit company ..

Govt.
Provides Education loan to Students .. And ScholarShips for Merit
Students and Tution Jobs during Collage cld help her ... After Prelims
exams she cld get some understanding husband from her own community who
lets her to Study further and a Happy Family ..

Bhabho is a very loud character. I have always failed to understand her. She never uses her brain and gets easily manipulated. For sooraj ji I would still say that he had his own way of showing support to sandhya. Bhabho is a dictator but only sooraj ji dared to defy her since he was morally and ethically right. I feel that for a married girl her husband is her only support. No doubt sandhya also stood like a pillar with sooraj ji always. I guess bhabho got jealous when she saw sooraj ji support sandhya openly. I think that education does have a role in shaping one's personality but to an extent. Because there are many highly educated people who turn out to be morons. I remember during the laptop fiasco when sooraj ji wanted to tell bhabho about Mohit, sandhya only stopped him as she didn't want Mohit to fall from bhabho's eyes. Since sandhya had lost her parents she knew the value of parents therefore she was respected and loved bhabho and bhabhasa. But bhabho
😡 😡 . She had this age old thinking that daughters in law can never be daughters whereas her own daughter never respected her. I feel on this regard maasa was much better than bhabho.

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