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I have reading a lot of posts regarding whether what sandhya did was right or wrong or whether sooraj ji is a man to be respected and thirdly how respectable the third lady is. I find all this amusing and I would like to share my views.
1. About sandhya's duties, I would say that just because she is a woman, wife, daughter-in-law, mother we cant question her call of duty. People in civil services are first civil servants and then their relations come. And from a fiction point of view then also I would say that its the creativity of the show and fiction is definitely different from reality. As I had said once, general public is not aware about so many secret missions that go on in the defence services. I remember the first time when even media felt that it went overboard when it showed each n every move of the defence services during one of the worst terrorist attacks in India and how it delayed their operations. ( no further discussion on this attack point pls).
2. About Sooraj Ji being a mumma's boy and just a kind hearted person nothing more than that. If you ask me I would give anything for a husband like sooraj ji. No boy, mind my friends, no boy is there who is not a mumma's boy. But why a girl is never questioned who is a mumma's girl.sooraj ji went against his mother whenever the need arose. He has shown aptly that education, social status, money etc are on one side and the character and decency of a person are on the other. The man didn't touch his wife until she also came close to him. After the pushkar bomb blast sandhya tried coming close to him on bhabho's insistence but sooraj ji refused and told her not to lose focus. So I ve all respect for that man. And if some one would say that he has flaws then I would say every one has some. No body is perfect but as far as sooraj ji concerned he is close to perfection. I guess some people are not able to digest the kind of love this man has for everyone but he just stands apart.
3. About cruelty shown, I would say yes these actions can come down heavily on any individual but then I guess the makers are trying to keep the show close to reality. And terrorist grps actually define cruelty. We all remember what happened to many of our soldiers. Their ears were pierced with molten iron, genitals were cut, fingers were amputated. Reality is worse than fiction and there are our soldiers on the borders who undergo such cruelties every day. No sleep, no proper food, -15 degrees temperatures, 40+ degrees temperatures. But still since we all love sandhya its difficult for us to see her like that. But again I would say that makers want to keep it closer to reality.
4. About justice for lalima. Just think of a situation where you go missing after an accident or some other reason when your family members are not around ( it happens in reality too). Ur thought to be dead. Ur in a remote place, not able to contact your family. Your husbsnd has gone insane and your child is motherless. Your mother in law brings in a new girl, gets her engaged to your husband and asks her to cure him by dressing as you. Your husband becomes ok and under family pressure marries her. You return and find your husband with another woman. What would you do when you would see your world crashing before your eyes? Many of you would say that sandhya did everything on purpose. Agreed. But still does she deserve this pain just because she kept everything at stake for her country which includes her family? How many would feel for the other woman if it comes to you? How many would say that just because she loves my husband and cured him by risking his life she is a great lady and we should leave them alone. I feel nothing at all for that third lady in DABH. She is just a burden. Keep all other things, logic, emotions apart and think for a second how would a person feel on seeing his/ her partner with some one else. I don't think any one deserves this kind of punishment.
5. About bhabho, I feel she is one mother I ve always disliked. The way she always shattered sooraj ji whenever he supported sandhya always made me feel whether she was his real mother. A mother is a mother and a mother can never be selfish but bhabho is very selfish. He gets her work done by hook or crook. She keeps lecturing others about how a wife should behave with husband but her own behaviour with bhabhasa was appalling and pathetic. She would talk to him as if he was a servant so she is no standard for defining how a mother or wife should behave.
M sorry if my views have hurt any one. Nothing personal. We are not enemies. And pls no pedestrian language will be appreciated.
1. About sandhya's duties, I would say that just because she is a woman, wife, daughter-in-law, mother we cant question her call of duty. People in civil services are first civil servants and then their relations come. And from a fiction point of view then also I would say that its the creativity of the show and fiction is definitely different from reality. As I had said once, general public is not aware about so many secret missions that go on in the defence services. I remember the first time when even media felt that it went overboard when it showed each n every move of the defence services during one of the worst terrorist attacks in India and how it delayed their operations. ( no further discussion on this attack point pls).
2. About Sooraj Ji being a mumma's boy and just a kind hearted person nothing more than that. If you ask me I would give anything for a husband like sooraj ji. No boy, mind my friends, no boy is there who is not a mumma's boy. But why a girl is never questioned who is a mumma's girl.sooraj ji went against his mother whenever the need arose. He has shown aptly that education, social status, money etc are on one side and the character and decency of a person are on the other. The man didn't touch his wife until she also came close to him. After the pushkar bomb blast sandhya tried coming close to him on bhabho's insistence but sooraj ji refused and told her not to lose focus. So I ve all respect for that man. And if some one would say that he has flaws then I would say every one has some. No body is perfect but as far as sooraj ji concerned he is close to perfection. I guess some people are not able to digest the kind of love this man has for everyone but he just stands apart.
3. About cruelty shown, I would say yes these actions can come down heavily on any individual but then I guess the makers are trying to keep the show close to reality. And terrorist grps actually define cruelty. We all remember what happened to many of our soldiers. Their ears were pierced with molten iron, genitals were cut, fingers were amputated. Reality is worse than fiction and there are our soldiers on the borders who undergo such cruelties every day. No sleep, no proper food, -15 degrees temperatures, 40+ degrees temperatures. But still since we all love sandhya its difficult for us to see her like that. But again I would say that makers want to keep it closer to reality.
4. About justice for lalima. Just think of a situation where you go missing after an accident or some other reason when your family members are not around ( it happens in reality too). Ur thought to be dead. Ur in a remote place, not able to contact your family. Your husbsnd has gone insane and your child is motherless. Your mother in law brings in a new girl, gets her engaged to your husband and asks her to cure him by dressing as you. Your husband becomes ok and under family pressure marries her. You return and find your husband with another woman. What would you do when you would see your world crashing before your eyes? Many of you would say that sandhya did everything on purpose. Agreed. But still does she deserve this pain just because she kept everything at stake for her country which includes her family? How many would feel for the other woman if it comes to you? How many would say that just because she loves my husband and cured him by risking his life she is a great lady and we should leave them alone. I feel nothing at all for that third lady in DABH. She is just a burden. Keep all other things, logic, emotions apart and think for a second how would a person feel on seeing his/ her partner with some one else. I don't think any one deserves this kind of punishment.
5. About bhabho, I feel she is one mother I ve always disliked. The way she always shattered sooraj ji whenever he supported sandhya always made me feel whether she was his real mother. A mother is a mother and a mother can never be selfish but bhabho is very selfish. He gets her work done by hook or crook. She keeps lecturing others about how a wife should behave with husband but her own behaviour with bhabhasa was appalling and pathetic. She would talk to him as if he was a servant so she is no standard for defining how a mother or wife should behave.
M sorry if my views have hurt any one. Nothing personal. We are not enemies. And pls no pedestrian language will be appreciated.
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