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Posted: 18 years ago
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Sareeta..gr8 post n now im thoroughly enjoying the discussion here...a complete new perception of Ridhimma's well-discussed self superiority..i agree wid the fact tht this aspect of human nature is widely seen..i can say i've experienced it or rather fallen prey to it but again in Ridhimma's defense,,she's pretty unaware of her own complexities..like u said,she's showered wid love n regard all her life from her family n friends but maybe she never tried to take derisive pleasure n made other party suffer..this time she's confused(it's not the first time)but still she alwayz had someone there to help her solve her problems..she ca'nt share it..she's just unable to trust this guy..wht to do?..this is how mostly girls are..do'nt u think??
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Posted: 18 years ago
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arey aarti massi, gina di,sareeta di n shakira di - after reading ur comments na i feel like getting disguised as an ogre n gulp in ridhima 😡 n sing

OGRE HUN MAINNNNNNNNNN
RIDHIMA KO KHANE KE LIYE

*In tune of ZINDA HUN MAIN KISKE LIYE* 😡 😡
Edited by mehak_kapoor - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Oye control shontrol kar Mehkie apne aap ko... Aur waise bhi Tu ogre hai nahin, banegi... Ridhima ko khane ke liye..!!! 😉

Aah... before it gets too late... let me get to replying to the posts...I've been off the section for a while now!!
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Posted: 18 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: sareeta

Oye control shontrol kar Mehkie apne aap ko... Aur waise bhi Tu ogre hai nahin, banegi... Ridhima ko khane ke liye..!!! 😉 - wahi to di for one day i will change my self to ogre😆😆 n di ab control nahi ho raha............. mujhe bahut gussa aa raha hai,,,,,,,,,,😡 n i will sing

Ogre naungi main

ridhima ko khane ke liye😆


Aah... before it gets too late... let me get to replying to the posts...I've been off the section for a while now!!

Edited by mehak_kapoor - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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initially i liked siddhima ut after ur posts im havin a very different view of her now....

n as u said sareeta, in evry act of his may it b a BB match or wen he tries 2 justify imself or watevr ...armaan is tryin very hard 2 think dat he is not fallin 4 her but he is not able 2 we can very vell c dat ...
but its jus dat riddhima is refusing 2 understand his feelings...im startin 2 HATE her now 😡 😡
shes always putting him down .....

i think dat its time dat armaan ignores her soo much dat she will start feelin something 4 him...n as time goes she will crave 4 his longing n cant stand it anymore.... 💔
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: *~sneha~*

sareeta di..... 🤗 more of these for you!!!! Awww...thank you sooooo much !!! *hugs back*
an amazing post....completely loved it... Glad you liked it...even tho i am a ridzie supporter..i totally agree that she is extremely proud of being loved dearly. Gald you see the point that Aarti made in her post and also in this post , where we have only added a new dimension to the discussion!

well...i still feel that armaan shud try and clear misunderstandings and SHUD start fresh with her..even if its to start all over again as frnds! Am not sure, I agree tehre.... infact I disagree... coz I believe Armaan has done his bit, given his character and his persona , and if one were to see, he has been at the receiving end of Ridhima's mistrust and ire, for the mere fact of having attempted to show her the true picture , and for being a flirt and a prankster and a brat?! Aaaah... even the sound of it ... makes one scream... Unfair!

great post again di!!
Thank you!!!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sexysoul

wow...........gr8 topic
wa a tough say sarreta.......... it touyches your heart
even u can tke wa u wrote n see 4 urself
weelll i dunno abt others.....but i could feel dat it not jus true 4 ridz buh in our situation or any1 we know....it iz so true
man .........it woz 2 awsum 👏 ......fanx a lot

Glad you appreciate the idea and could relate to it !!! Its my pleasure too, to share my ideas with ya'all... Thank you... for teh compliments... about touching the hearts.. well ... I wrote what came straight from the heart , so for me.. yes it is indeed close to my heart as for the others...it only humbles me , that it does touch their heart and that they can relate to it!

Edited by sareeta - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: devilofkindness

initially i liked siddhima ut after ur posts im havin a very different view of her now.... Aaah .. well.. Hmm...

n as u said sareeta, in evry act of his may it b a BB match or wen he tries 2 justify imself or watevr ...armaan is tryin very hard 2 think dat he is not fallin 4 her but he is not able 2 we can very vell c dat ... Aaah... well this post was not at all about with almost a nill reference to Armaan... and more about Ridhima and her sense of pride , from where the derisive pleasure stems from...And as for Armaan he has merely become a victim to this derisive pleasure of Ridhima's for a seemingly horrendous crime of having attempted to show her the true picture out of his concern and affection for her!
but its jus dat riddhima is refusing 2 understand his feelings...im startin 2 HATE her now 😡 😡 I think the reason for one to despise Ridhima's actions( please note I say actions and not her totally... coz she does have her own positive facet to her persona)... would have to be her hollow sense of pride that drives her actions and reactions... and not for not understanding Armaan... which would eventually happen... if she understood her own ... and accepted her faults with grace...
shes always putting him down ..... Like mentioned afore... its her superior sense of moral self that drives her reaction to look upon in disdain at anyone who challenges that sense of pride and attempts to show her the true picture and invariably becomes a reason to induce a teeny sense of self doubt! It angers her , and that any mortal is even remotely capable of making her doubt herself and that very thought drives her to condemn him all the more!

i think dat its time dat armaan ignores her soo much dat she will start feelin something 4 him...n as time goes she will crave 4 his longing n cant stand it anymore.... The craving is gonna happen for sure... but not before she is hit with a blow about how wrong she is about herself and yes the fact the attention she was once blessed with... and unconditionally albeit Armaan... or even if it is by another man.. is no more something she can bask in... will only add to her disgust at self! 💔

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Posted: 18 years ago
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@Gina , @Sharika – Absolutely enjoyed reading your take on the topic and read it several times to enjoy the essence of it… Loved the way you have elaborated , every point mentioned in the post… that only makes one appreciate it in greater depth…

As for what people expect from us , well I guess, that is driven by the same sense of pride, also mixed with a feeling that they are entitled to services of the others and like mentioned in the post, it does stem from a constant feed of praise from those around, that they deserve all of it and that they are indeed a gift to the entire mankind!

What did leave me reeling and feeling cold and morbid was the example of the women who undertake social service… and their mockery of the same…

Although I realize I did quote the bit about people expecting subversiveness and also despising and looking down in disdain at those who succumb and relating it to individuals… , to see that being applicable to people who undertake social activities was really brutally enlightening…!

And as for the point you raised about people condemning the others about their opinions, I guess,… it all boils down to jus one aspect like Aarti pointed out in her post Fall from grace… it is jus … aspect… Higher Sense of Moral Self… that is jus as hollow and jus as weightless as the smoke that vanishes into thin air!

Thank you sooooo much Gina and Sharika !! It was truly really wonderful reading the thoughts… will keep chipping as when.. again , coz your reply has really got me thinking… and also shaken me up totally towards the end!

Edited by sareeta - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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@ notty...something i mentioned earlier in a post of sareeta's as a response. i think it was dainty and i just want to use it here again as a response to your question, when is love not enough and when does respect turn into disrespect...

sareeta's response was bang on, but i just wanted to add to it...oprah winfrey in one of her women emancipation shows mentioned that love is not what you feel for another person, but how the other person makes you feel about yourself. for someone like ridhima, who already has an image of perfection she associates with herself, when some one like armaan makes her acst even the slightest shadow of doubt on her carefully preserved sense of self, she finds herself incapable of responding to the more basic signs of attraction. what then follows is not just the need to make the eclipse-agent bow before her radiance, but an even more powerful need to re-establish the sense of greatness that has been marginally shaken out off its pedestal!!

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