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Posted: 17 years ago
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Ok, much as I have tried, I cannot seem to seem to disassociate myself from the memory that makes the song so funny for me. And in that light, the opening of the video was sooooooo brilliantly apt, I couldn't control my guffaws. I also found the juxtaposition of the pathos in the lyrics with the triviality of some scenes selected very representative of the humour. Am glad most of the people who have seen the video have identified with the comedy that you intended to portray.

And then again, I did not want to be deprived of the depth of words and emotions, so I muted the video (sorry…but the image of me on stage in rags in front of the entire college, with two flat stones in my hand, singing the same song in the style of Mumbai local train beggars, just wouldn't let go!!), opened the lyrics and sang along with the video. And I must say, anyone who hasn't had the misfortune of having this song ruined for them, would've have felt the pangs of sorrow in the lyrics, mirrored beautifully in Armaan's angst.

I am not going to dwell on the relevance of the scenes with respect to the lyrics, because for one, that is totally expected of you, so no surprises there, and secondly, everybody else has said whatever I would have. But yes, lived up to your reputation.

And now since I have a request for a philosophical take on the whole VM, let me get cracking on that, give this VM a different approach, because who is to say that only posts can become discussions. We should be able to generate a discussion with a VM too. Particularly one that has a different take on situations and calls for a respectable discussion and what's better than to have a discussion well substantiated by pertinent visuals!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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@All - THank you sooooo much for watching the video and chipping in your comments and kind words! Am really humbled and happy that you enjoyed the mix and most importantly the intent of the video came across well.. and was enjoyed by you!

Aarti ... am soooo looking forward to your take on my request... am actually...too eager to read it ... coz .. its food for thought and I dont even wanna miss that .. !!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Ok Sareeta…aapka hukum sar aankhon par…am just putting into words Sareeta's brainwave as this VM was made.

It is indeed strange how the human mind works. (Note I choose the word mind and not heart or brain.) It is a source of great mystery that we seek humour in the most tragic of situations and vice versa. Is it our defense mechanism that steers our consciousness away from the emotion at hand or is it our desperate escapist attitude that glosses over another's pain? It is truly hard to tell.

We always find it easier as a people to laugh at the pathos that plagues another, sometimes out of our own volition, sometimes forced by the antics of the sufferer. When it is out of our volition that we chose to laugh, instead of empathizing, it is not like we are being insensitive, because a part of us does feel the pangs of agony as experienced by the other. But we always find it easier to make light of a grave situation. In Sareeta's superbly executed VM, with a refreshingly new angle to the Armaan-Ridhima tragedy, we find it easy to laugh, as Sareeta found it easy to use deeply sorrowful lyrics with comic sequences to tickle our funny bone. It would have been impossible to, at some point of time, completely ignore the tragedy of their love and its current miserable state.

The victim of grief too sometimes joins in the mockery, perhaps the sound of another's laughter lightens him, perhaps he seeks to salvage the broken pieces of his life through mirth that he generates, perhaps he is heartened by the fact that even in his misery he can make others laugh, perhaps he wishes his forced laughter and his exaggerated expressions would relieve him of his misery, perhaps it is a mere charade and then again, perhaps even the derision is as real to him as is his pain. For if he can laugh at his troubles, his troubles would laugh with him.

I remember my best friend and I laughing for an hour after she suffered a break up because she cried about a broken hair brush not the relationship…I recall the very same friend rolling on the floor when the loudest ever burp escaped my mouth right in the middle of my sob story…

How many of us can identify comfortably with a theatrically embellished expression of angst while our hearts wept copiously, and yet we took the greatest pleasure in watching our most loved ones chortle at our display. Take heart…laughter is indeed the best medicine. Sometimes it helps and is inevitable that you laugh at yourself and even at your dearest associates to deal with the severity of the pain!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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just saw the VM.. n i must say it's totally Mind blowing!!
*Stands up and claps* 👏 👏 👏
it was a little tragic (dunno if it's the correct word).. but it also had a funny element attached! n that makes it the best video mix!!
Totally loved it!
(Btw, sorry for this extraaaa late comment! Agli baar se i'll definitely be on time!)
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Posted: 17 years ago
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It is believed that the first human laughter may have begun as a gesture of shared relief at the passing of danger.

It is said humor is a defense mechanism that allows people to face difficult situations without being overwhelmed, vent anger and despair, liberate hidden emotions, and promotes healing. This must explain the urge of the victim to join in the mockery and seek to salvage the pieces from the wreck of his situation.

Sublimation is a defense mechanism of channeling grief into light-hearted situations, reducing the intensity, placing the cushion of laughter between people and the situation which is what I believe Sareeta has so beatifully achieved in this video. Comic relief to the situation without actually making fun of or ridiculing Armaan's feelings providing the much needed relief from the anguish of Armaan's feelings.

Laugter is believed to be caused either by incongruity of a situation, or when the focus is on someone else's misfortune or mistake where we can detach ourselves from the situation and laugh or as a release of built up tensions cleasing our system. Kudos to Aarti for putting that across so beautifully in her post and to Sareeta for releasing the tension of the potentially painful situation with comic relief acting as a vent to our frustration at Ridzy.

JFK is supposed to have said there are three things that are real: God, human tragedy, and laughter. Since we cannot understand completely the first two, we must do with the third: laughter. Pretty astute dont you think.!




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Posted: 17 years ago
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awwww pooooooor armaan! that was realllllly good sareeta! great job! thanks for sharing! hope you make more! 😉
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: ifrahnaqash

just saw the VM.. n i must say it's totally Mind blowing!! Thank you sooo much Ifrah!
*Stands up and claps* 👏 👏 👏 *bows humbly to the applause*
it was a little tragic (dunno if it's the correct word).. but it also had a funny element attached! n that makes it the best video mix!! Yes that was intentional Ifrah, to bring the paradox of how pain can be viewed in a lighter vein and the the pain in seemingly comic situations is palpable if one is sensitive and perceptive towards the save!
Totally loved it! Thank you soooooooo much!
(Btw, sorry for this extraaaa late comment! Agli baar se i'll definitely be on time!)
You took the time to watch and comment , that matters so much.... Der aaye durust aaye meri jaan!!

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Robin_M

awwww pooooooor armaan! that was realllllly good sareeta! great job! thanks for sharing! hope you make more! 😉

Thank you sooooo much Robin! So glad you enjoyed the vedio! Sure it would be pleasure to share my video dedications with ya'll!!!

Thanks a lot again!!! Am glad you took the time to watch and comment!😉

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Great Video Mix! 👏 👏
must say I enjoyed it very much
It was a little sad but also funny wich made it reslly great! 😃
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Aarti - THank you soooo much for obliging and putting up this post! Means a lot! I really wanted you to pen down on that thought, coz I knew , no one else could do justice better than you!!!

You and Gina together have really said it all , all that I felt and was finding it tad difficult to express in my usual style .... but may I dare to add a thought in here to all that you and Gina have already conveyed...

In the situations Aarti, which you have cited in your post, I understand that one is aware of another's pain and has been witness to it and also the attempt on the other's part to mask it under the shadow of humor and jest...

Gina has so well , added to your point that sublimation is a defense mechanism to prevent oneself from surrending to the burden of the intense pain... the only weighs down a sorrowful heart , ever so strongly with each passing moment....

But may I dare say , that much as my intent of the vid mix was to bring out this paradox of how the two emotions of pain and laughter are interlinked and are always not ignorable given the sensibilities of the one perceiving them....I also did wonder , how often was it , that we are able to sense the undercurrent of pain , in the humor and seemingly witty and comical statements of strangers we meet...

I guess... what I am getting at is that when we do interact with strangers as well and enjoy some good fun filled moments with them... and comment saying they have a sense of humor... that an undercurrent of painful tone that accompanies their sense of humor is palpable ... and it perhaps makes us appreciate their sense of humor all the more and also , get us thinking on the fact at times... that if the matters at hand , that we laughed at only moments ago , are really a matter to be laughed at ...?

I dare say, I spoke there from personal experience , in the sense that I have always been able to unknowingly ... and not really realizing, been able to sense a painful undertone to seemingly comic situations be it with strangers ... or even friends... and hence this sudden urge to share this thought , that has always been with me... for several years...

I guess as a child, I refused to laugh at things, that others found funny and never realized it ... but I jus thought it was not ok and something jus stopped me from laughing... and when I asked... I jus didnt have a reason... but knew... I was never gonna laugh at that...... and as I grew up... my desperation to understand this behavior has got me thinking... although this is the first ever time I shared it with someone and requested to write about it...

Thank you Aarti and Gina... for making it all so clear to me...!!!

I hope I made some sense there! If not ... my apologies for confusing all the more...

Like the wise say... Confusion of mind , spread on to many others is what leads to a perfect discussion! 😉

Edited by sareeta - 17 years ago

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