I will say it- I am a die hard romantic.Throw me a love story and I will suck it up like a loser.What I am saying may prove to be old-fashioned or dusty for certain progressive minds.If so - please excuse me and my post.And if you still wanna wash your dirty linens in public-spare mine- I have a washing machine in the house anyway.
DMG today is dealing with an issue which can be seen in many ways-A married woman in love with her ex:
We can say-
Love conquers all and R should get back to A
She should not sacrifice her life for Sid and head to her happiness.
Ridhima is a woman who has been through loss all her life.The girl was rejected by her biological father,raised by Shashank- She often defied him for her selfish needs yet she was a good daughter.She meets Arman,falls in love with him,ruins his life with her selfish and unreasonable demands.She loses him and her mind and meets Sid-
A person she hated with her core
A person who she went to no lengths to hurt
A person who held her hand and walked with her when she didnt know herself
A person who almost destroyed himself and her-
Her villian and her saviour!
A person who married her
The person whom she trusted with her life
The person who made her see beyond herself
The person she wanted to spend her life with
Her husband- the one she adored.
He loved her for her
he accepted her damaged heart
He accepted her cruel ways
He accepted every rule she lay
He showed her the mirror
And yet he loved her.
I dont want to compare Sid's love with Arman;s - BUT I want to compare AR bond with SR-
While love flourishes AR relation- the SR relation is fraught with a human bond- the deepest bond ever- trust,respect,gratitude,affection.
Today CVs do not respect SR bond- for they are incapable of understanding human psyche.Sid has marked Ridhima- Some spots never heal and some bonds pull you together spiritually and emotionally as opposed to physically-
For me - I just want to say - Do not demean SR bond as you have demeaned the AR love.It is pure and it is spiritual-make sure to do justice to it.
Adieu
Neha