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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sometimes we say something,not because you want to,but because it is right to say it.

I will say it- I am a die hard romantic.Throw me a love story and I will suck it up like a loser.What I am saying may prove to be old-fashioned or dusty for certain progressive minds.If so - please excuse me and my post.And if you still wanna wash your dirty linens in public-spare mine- I have a washing machine in the house anyway.

DMG today is dealing with an issue which can be seen in many ways-A married woman in love with her ex:

We can say-
Love conquers all and R should get back to A
She should not sacrifice her life for Sid and head to her happiness.

Ridhima is a woman who has been through loss all her life.The girl was rejected by her biological father,raised by Shashank- She often defied him for her selfish needs yet she was a good daughter.She meets Arman,falls in love with him,ruins his life with her selfish and unreasonable demands.She loses him and her mind and meets Sid-

A person she hated with her core
A person who she went to no lengths to hurt
A person who held her hand and walked with her when she didnt know herself
A person who almost destroyed himself and her-

Her villian and her saviour!

A person who married her
The person whom she trusted with her life
The person who made her see beyond herself
The person she wanted to spend her life with

Her husband- the one she adored.

He loved her for her
he accepted her damaged heart
He accepted her cruel ways
He accepted every rule she lay
He showed her the mirror
And yet he loved her.

I dont want to compare Sid's love with Arman;s - BUT I want to compare AR bond with SR-

While love flourishes AR relation- the SR relation is fraught with a human bond- the deepest bond ever- trust,respect,gratitude,affection.

Today CVs do not respect SR bond- for they are incapable of understanding human psyche.Sid has marked Ridhima- Some spots never heal and some bonds pull you together spiritually and emotionally as opposed to physically-

For me - I just want to say - Do not demean SR bond as you have demeaned the AR love.It is pure and it is spiritual-make sure to do justice to it.

Adieu

Neha

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Posted: 15 years ago
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where is the written uptate .if anyone know then inform me please!!!!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Brilliant post! I dont have anything to add... You've said it!

You have some fantastic talent with words...Your posts are amazingly beautiful and deep.
Let me tell you it was a post of yours on SR during their golden period that made me become an IF member.... Where were you?
please keep writing!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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👏 very aptly said......i jst want CVs to do justice wit dere own creation......wel i ve already lost da essence of dat magical bond......bt i soooo want it bak..asap!!!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Reserved!

Neha nice to see you in the MF!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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sch a lovelllllllly post...sr bond is so special..damn the cvs for mking it a mockery
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Posted: 15 years ago
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lovely post Neha.........nice to see u back.......
And ya................all we want is justice.........for the RIGHT to prevail.......
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Posted: 15 years ago
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amazing post👏 everything you said is right and i agree with every words you said! AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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so good rto see a post by you after ages and yes we want justice
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey Neha,
Awesome!!!!!!
I am a die hard romantic...I beleive in fairytales...and love happy endings......but all in the movies and serials......if it makes any sense...coz in real life it aint happeneing...if it does its a blessing....if life were a fairytale....we would only have happy people.....how diabetic
Coming back to the topic.....humans make mistakes.....you can only learn this way....maybe down the line ...this mistake of ridhimas ....may end up being a blessing in disguise for her ...who knows....
no pain no gain.........good guys in life shed more tears than getting their share of happiness....so someone like Sid may end up suffering too much before he gets his share of sunshine....
My issue with all that is happening....is that whatever is happeneing is for the wrong reasons...... there are no life lessons to be learned from it accept....
Falling is love seems to be painful all the around......
I wont even get into the ethics /sanctity of marriage.
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