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Posted: 15 years ago
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The thing is SR told him, and also invited him and they want him to apart of their happiness as Armaan is apart of their lives
They both expected Armaan to be there, Armaan sees them most of the time, as a friend and a big bro to Sid - Sid expected him there, and the moment Shilpa had to be the one to tell where Armaan is, Sid understood why Armaan cant make it, he isnt even questioning how can Armaan to do this etc, no - Sid got it
Now all Sid has to do is tell Ridz coz he knows why Armaan isnt here and the reason, he knows it and is waiting to tell Ridz
See the difference is Sid knows, thats why its important to tell her coz he knows - her belief on honesty and Sid's belief on honesty is here
He is in-between her happiness and the truth, he doesnt want Ridz glow and happiness to fade and he knows he cant keep the truth any longer, coz they are open with everything and honest
And yes i do think Armaan should be the one telling SR he cant make, knowing they would expect him there, coz they care for him and is apart of their lives - if he told them, they would understand
As for Ridz comparing Sid and Armaan, she did is fondly, just see her facial expressions
But she summed it up right, how Sid and Armaan see the truth and how they handle it
She said what Sid does with the truth, sees the right and wrong and find the solution to do the right thing, and its never hiding it from anyone esp her (and thats what Sid has been doing in the last two episodes)
Whilst with Armaan he tries to find way of hiding the truth, and running away from it
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lennie


But she summed it up right, how Sid and Armaan see the truth and how they handle it
She said what Sid does with the truth, sees the right and wrong and find the solution to do the right thing, and its never hiding it from anyone esp her (and thats what Sid has been doing in the last two episodes)
Whilst with Armaan he tries to find way of hiding the truth, and running away from it


Sorry i'm quoting you but i think it shows Ridhima is trying way hard to prove that she is not guilty like she didn't do anything its cause of her decisions Armaan has hide many things from her to hide things knowing the fact it hurts so much and always think about other's happiness before his is big thing over telling the truth seeing the right wrong and find the solution the truth is Ridhima never apericiated what Armaan did for her and only find excuses and its stupid how she always compares Armaan to Sid casue they're both different in their own ways and they love Ridhima in thier own way it was pure insult to AR just my view. and sorry if i quoted you ignore.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Awesome.post..Yes Ppl just dont want to face reality...

I will question Armaans love here????/ Ridz still loves him as a frnd and wants him as a part of her happiness..BUT ARMAAN is playing a spoil sport as usual..this IS NOT LOVE as tomm..IF ARMAAN MOVES ON AND FALLS IN LOVE AGAIN RIDZ AND SID WILL SUPPORT HIm....

Ridz is right Armaan has always run away from problems and never faced them headon.........😊😊😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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arman cant open up right now if he could do that to wo khud hi wedding atten karne aa jata. becoz that would cause problem in ridimas wedding & arman dont want to spoil ridhimas happiness & neither arman said shilpa & sid to inform ridhima abt his absence in her wedding sid & shilpa themselves taking tension no body asked them to take tension.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: hewascool90210

amazing post👏

Why is Sid put to the test when this is not something he needs to be worrying about? Armaan is giving a marriage a miss so it he should be questioned and Sid should be the messenger nor should Shilpa.
i totally agree, why does sid has to be the one going through all this agni praksha, b/c of this sid cannot even fuly concentrate on his wedding, i mean it is his wedding for god sake why does he have to be so worried about his wife ex., so in dilema weither to tell his wife or not, it is armaan problem not sid nor shilpa. it is like armaan not coming to the weddign is more importan then siddhima wedding🤢, if he does come then use the phone and tell them i will not attend the wedding, and if he cannot talk then use textmessage, to tell, don't make sid and shilpa the one going around trying to tell this to riddhima, it didn't make sense to me at all😕



I know he is feeling guilty about something that isn't his responsibilty now it would have been different if Armaan had called him and told him he is not attending but Armaan has left it to Shilpa to tell Sid and Riddhima the truth.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -PZlicious-


Sorry i'm quoting you but i think it shows Ridhima is trying way hard to prove that she is not guilty like she didn't do anything its cause of her decisions Armaan has hide many things from her to hide things knowing the fact it hurts so much and always think about other's happiness before his is big thing over telling the truth seeing the right wrong and find the solution the truth is Ridhima never apericiated what Armaan did for her and only find excuses and its stupid how she always compares Armaan to Sid casue they're both different in their own ways and they love Ridhima in thier own way it was pure insult to AR just my view. and sorry if i quoted you ignore.



Well I am also sorry that I am quoting you but This is something I really beleive is that Arrmaan knows that his nt going to SR wedding is going 2 hurt Ridz whom he claims he wants to see happy..Unfortunately SR and Armaan are woven 2gether ....If Armaaan can tell Ridz in boxing court that his state isbecoz.of her I think he could jolly well tell her that he will nt come 2 the wedding for whatever reason..

Thats What I feel..Pls it is my opnion....SO PEACE
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -ASTHA-

First of all its not sid's duty to give armaan's message to riddhima and riddhima's message to armaan.

Please dont get me wrong and i'm not getting personal at all but its true "To test honesty first we need to be honest" riddhima dont have right to say anything about armaan. She need to check herself before pointing out others.

hey ashtha...how has riddhima been dishonest??she is on eperson in the show who has been pretty blunt abt what she wants and has been upfront.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -PZlicious-

Because Sid feels guilty about not telling Ridhima the truth he wants to clear the confusion one for all and Ridhima also described how she would feel guilty if Armaan don't come to the wedding and its not about blame game Shilpa is no one to blame cause she already told sid and Shilpa-Ridz aren't that close so its better she didn't told ridhima and now that sid knows he feels he shoudl tell her..but i don't think Ridhima will blame sid even if she gets to know this after marriage and Armaan is human being why do ya'll expect too much from him? he has gone through lot may be he don't wanna create same problem like he created on her birthday so its better he stay out of it and anyway Ridhima has left him its not his duty to tell her everything where he is? and why he can't come? in my view character like Ridhima don't deserve any kind of explanation from anyone well except Sid so its not Sid nor Shilpa nor Armaan's fault.



I am not saying it is about the guilt because the guilt will always be there for Riddhima till Armaan is happy.

If Armaan doesn't want to come, I don't blame him, I mean he shouldn't have to go through with it but what I am saying is Armaan should have called Riddhima or Sid to tell them not left it to Sid and Shilpa to tell Riddhima.

Fine he doesn't owe Riddhima any explaination about where he is but he does owe them an explaination on why he isn't coming because he is friends with them I mean if I was getting married and a good friend of mine couldn't make it I would like him or her to tell me they aren't coming not just not turn up.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -ASTHA-

First of all its not sid's duty to give armaan's message to riddhima and riddhima's message to armaan.

Please dont get me wrong and i'm not getting personal at all but its true "To test honesty first we need to be honest" riddhima dont have right to say anything about armaan. She need to check herself before pointing out others.



Umm...a bit out of context. Riddhima needs to be honest fine but what I am saying is Armaan should have called Riddhima to tell her he is not attending I mean we all know why I am sure Riddhima would know why. But leaving it to Sid and Shilpa is wrong.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Firstly i dnt condone with riddhima's actions...she shud not in every breath compare her ex wid her present ...in everybody's minds comparisons arise but nobody is as blunt about it as riddhima is...if such thots come to her mind she shud either speak to herself or just try to see the positive parts of the past relation..she shud let the bygones be bygones...i also dnt like the fact that arman is still acting so stuck up...in his actions he is slowly alienating sid...if u cnt forget sum1 thtz fine..no body can forget instantly a person they loved..but what is the point of writing her name in blood ??this will blatantly show how much she still affects him to others....n for riddhima i think he shud hv come to the wedding...he dsnt care bat sid ..thtz fine...but when she considers him such a gud frnd he shud hv atleast made an appearance

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