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Posted: 14 years ago
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So Riddhima compared the two men 😆but I have to say Sid's honesty should not be tested in such a way nor should Shilpa to be honest. 😆

Armaan can not attend the wedding, I mean we all know why but nor should Sid or Shilpa be the ones to tell Riddhima this. This should not be their worry, Armaan should have been the one telling Riddhima that he can not come or will not come.

Why is Sid put to the test when this is not something he needs to be worrying about? Armaan is giving a marriage a miss so it he should be questioned and Sid should be the messenger nor should Shilpa.

Riddhima did'nt compare Sid and Armaan but she state that these are the qualities of Sid that she likes the most and for which she respects him for.

So why is Sid's honesty questioned, when it is Armaan who is not facing up to the truth? 😳

You know the rules!😊 Lets not get personal and actually discuss the topic!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Firstly great topic niks :).
I totally agree with you , why is it that Sid has to be the one to do everything 😕.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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am nt being personal,but while talking wiz yr husband u cant compared ur ex wiz him.its nt good according 2 me.sure its gonna hurt yr husband
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -alimabi-

Firstly great topic niks :).
I totally agree with you , why is it that Sid has to be the one to do everything 😕.



Thanks 😳

I wish I could answer this but this should not be something he should do! It is should not be up to him to tell her Armaan should have told Siddhima well at least Riddhima himself!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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ohkay

based on last 3 Epi's I would put my views somewhat like this.

1stly to expect Armaan to attend the SR wedding is wrong as i would see it is difficult for him to see the girl he loved getting married to someone else. So i feel its unfair to assume that he would attend the wedding.

Secondly if he does'nt attend, then to have Sid or Shilpa's honesty put to test is also wrong. As its Armaan's decision to attend or not and he chose to skip the wedding for the reason known to us all. Shilpa, Sid know the reason but for them to convey and make Riddhima understand this would be a hard task. As Riddhima might end up asking them reasons as to why and surely Sid and Shilpa would'nt be in a position to state Armaan's issue's then.

You cannot expect Armaan to forgive and forget everything in just minutes or days. He would need time and some patience from all.

In all ... even if Sid hides the fact, i wont blame him as I would want Armaan to tell the facts to Riddhima.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ammyridz600

am nt being personal,but while talking wiz yr husband u cant compared ur ex wiz him.its nt good according 2 me.sure its gonna hurt yr husband



That is true! But that is not the issue I am talking about, I am saying why should Sid be the one to tell Riddhima about Armaan not coming to the wedding, Armaan should be open enough to tell Riddhima he can't or won't come.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Preeti-

ohkay

based on last 3 Epi's I would put my views somewhat like this.

1stly to expect Armaan to attend the SR wedding is wrong as i would see it is difficult for him to see the girl he loved getting married to someone else. So i feel its unfair to assume that he would attend the wedding.

Secondly if he does'nt attend, then to have Sid or Shilpa's honesty put to test is also wrong. As its Armaan's decision to attend or not and he chose to skip the wedding for the reason known to us all. Shilpa, Sid know the reason but for them to convey and make Riddhima understand this would be a hard task. As Riddhima might end up asking them reasons as to why and surely Sid and Shilpa would'nt be in a position to state Armaan's issue's then.

You cannot expect Armaan to forgive and forget everything in just minutes or days. He would need time and some patience from all.

In all ... even if Sid hides the fact, i wont blame him as I would want Armaan to tell the facts to Riddhima.



Armaan shouldn't attend the wedding because it will be hard for him, yes Siddhima want him there but if he doesn't go that is personal choice and I respect that.

Yes Sid and Shilpa shouldn't be the ones telling Riddhima the truth so if Sid doesn't he can't be blamed because it should not be Sid's responsibilty to tell Riddhima but also Armaan should tell Riddhima it is hard for him to accept this and so he can't attend because that is the truth because running away and leaving it up to Sid and Shilpa isn't right!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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amazing post👏
Why is Sid put to the test when this is not something he needs to be worrying about? Armaan is giving a marriage a miss so it he should be questioned and Sid should be the messenger nor should Shilpa.
i totally agree, why does sid has to be the one going through all this agni praksha, b/c of this sid cannot even fuly concentrate on his wedding, i mean it is his wedding for god sake why does he have to be so worried about his wife ex., so in dilema weither to tell his wife or not, it is armaan problem not sid nor shilpa. it is like armaan not coming to the weddign is more importan then siddhima wedding🤢, if he does come then use the phone and tell them i will not attend the wedding, and if he cannot talk then use textmessage, to tell, don't make sid and shilpa the one going around trying to tell this to riddhima, it didn't make sense to me at all😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Because Sid feels guilty about not telling Ridhima the truth he wants to clear the confusion one for all and Ridhima also described how she would feel guilty if Armaan don't come to the wedding and its not about blame game Shilpa is no one to blame cause she already told sid and Shilpa-Ridz aren't that close so its better she didn't told ridhima and now that sid knows he feels he shoudl tell her..but i don't think Ridhima will blame sid even if she gets to know this after marriage and Armaan is human being why do ya'll expect too much from him? he has gone through lot may be he don't wanna create same problem like he created on her birthday so its better he stay out of it and anyway Ridhima has left him its not his duty to tell her everything where he is? and why he can't come? in my view character like Ridhima don't deserve any kind of explanation from anyone well except Sid so its not Sid nor Shilpa nor Armaan's fault.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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First of all its not sid's duty to give armaan's message to riddhima and riddhima's message to armaan.
Please dont get me wrong and i'm not getting personal at all but its true "To test honesty first we need to be honest" riddhima dont have right to say anything about armaan. She need to check herself before pointing out others.

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