Testing Honesty??? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Lennie

The thing is SR told him, and also invited him and they want him to apart of their happiness as Armaan is apart of their lives

They both expected Armaan to be there, Armaan sees them most of the time, as a friend and a big bro to Sid - Sid expected him there, and the moment Shilpa had to be the one to tell where Armaan is, Sid understood why Armaan cant make it, he isnt even questioning how can Armaan to do this etc, no - Sid got it

Now all Sid has to do is tell Ridz coz he knows why Armaan isnt here and the reason, he knows it and is waiting to tell Ridz

See the difference is Sid knows, thats why its important to tell her coz he knows - her belief on honesty and Sid's belief on honesty is here

He is in-between her happiness and the truth, he doesnt want Ridz glow and happiness to fade and he knows he cant keep the truth any longer, coz they are open with everything and honest

And yes i do think Armaan should be the one telling SR he cant make, knowing they would expect him there, coz they care for him and is apart of their lives - if he told them, they would understand

As for Ridz comparing Sid and Armaan, she did is fondly, just see her facial expressions

But she summed it up right, how Sid and Armaan see the truth and how they handle it

She said what Sid does with the truth, sees the right and wrong and find the solution to do the right thing, and its never hiding it from anyone esp her (and thats what Sid has been doing in the last two episodes)

Whilst with Armaan he tries to find way of hiding the truth, and running away from it

Armaan is part of Sid and Riddhima's life my point exactly he should tell them he can't come I mean Sid got it and I am sure Riddhima would as well. It would be great to have Armaan there and get he has his own feelings and he shouldn't be forced to be there but I am sure if he told them then it wouldn't be eating Sid up to tell Riddhima because it isn't Sid's responsibilty but because Armaan didn't have the guts to tell them it has become Sid's responsibilty which I think is unfair and it is testing his honesty in a way it should never be tested!

In normal circumstances Sid (i.e., a husband) in such a situation need not be responsible to convey the message of Arman (i.e., Ex) and the former's honesty is nowhere connected in this matter.

But, in this example, Sid is also connected to Arman. Infact, the best thing in DMG right now, is the beutiful relationship that exists between Sid and Arman. He is connected to Arman on personal level and further all three Sid, Arman and Ridhima do share a bond threegether. That is the reason why I feel, Shilpa also felt it sufficient to inform Sid and Sid is also finding himself responsible in informing Ridhima of the situation.

But, just one more point. I think we can't blame Arman if he is not able to face the situation. Different people take different amount of times (infact different time zones) to come out of situations like this. So, it would have been best/ideal if Arman himself has convyed to Ridhima his inabiity to attend, but given the situation he might also not be able to do it.

Ridhima is anxious to see Arman out of this situation quickly, Arman is not able to respond that fast and Sid has some expectations but understands Arman's situation better.

Originally posted by: uppaas

Well I am also sorry that I am quoting you but This is something I really beleive is that Arrmaan knows that his nt going to SR wedding is going 2 hurt Ridz whom he claims he wants to see happy..Unfortunately SR and Armaan are woven 2gether ....If Armaaan can tell Ridz in boxing court that his state isbecoz.of her I think he could jolly well tell her that he will nt come 2 the wedding for whatever reason..

Thats What I feel..Pls it is my opnion....SO PEACE

Its ok...but i'm sorry but Ridhima has hurt Armaan a lot intentionally or not be it she has and after A-R-S triangle i don't see sensible conclusion if Armaan don't show up to marriage Ridhima shouldn't get hurt nor Sid by it cause they know it would hurt him why would you do that when you know its not going to be easy for that person if my friend would go through the same thing i wouldn't blame or get hurt if they don't show up cause it would be better for him/her may be time will heel all the pain what Armaan needs is time and they expect to be cool about it knowing this pain is going to last forever so its not big issue after all jab miya biwi ho razi to kya karega kazi..

and about confrontation in the court was mix of emotions and anyone can see that when person is soo hurt anything can come out of their mouth atleast there Armaan cleared her confusion and showed her what's right and wrong.

Originally posted by: uppaas

Awesome.post..Yes Ppl just dont want to face reality...

I will question Armaans love here????/ Ridz still loves him as a frnd and wants him as a part of her happiness..BUT ARMAAN is playing a spoil sport as usual..this IS NOT LOVE as tomm..IF ARMAAN MOVES ON AND FALLS IN LOVE AGAIN RIDZ AND SID WILL SUPPORT HIm....

Ridz is right Armaan has always run away from problems and never faced them headon.........😊😊😊

Ok I am not saying Armaan should turn up to the wedding that is his personal choice but he should have the guts to tell Siddhima he can't make it, I mean they want him there because he is someone they love and they want to share their happiness with him. Sid understood straight away nor has he called Armaan or forced him to come he respects it is hard for Armaan.

Originally posted by: -PZlicious-

Its ok...but i'm sorry but Ridhima has hurt Armaan a lot intentionally or not be it she has and after A-R-S triangle i don't see sensible conclusion if Armaan don't show up to marriage Ridhima shouldn't get hurt nor Sid by it cause they know it would hurt him why would you do that when you know its not going to be easy for that person if my friend would go through the same thing i wouldn't blame or get hurt if they don't show up cause it would be better for him/her may be time will heel all the pain what Armaan needs is time and they expect to be cool about it knowing this pain is going to last forever so its not big issue after all jab miya biwi ho razi to kya karega kazi..

and about confrontation in the court was mix of emotions and anyone can see that when person is soo hurt anything can come out of their mouth atleast there Armaan cleared her confusion and showed her what's right and wrong.

Well OK Armaan choose not to come fair enough..If he would have told this to RIDZ on his own in which ever way it would have been better for Armaan as well..

Loike u are saying that Ridz hurt Armaan in a lot of ways in which 1 was that she did not tell A abt her marriage with Sid but armaan doing the same thing not telling Ridz that he will nt come becoz Ridz will come 2 know that she he has not come becoz of sid and her which is worse...

And 2 wrongs dont MAKE A RIGHT...


that is y I find Sid the most truthful character as he blurts out the truth ..which is way better than hiding things..

Originally posted by: nikita_88

I am not saying it is about the guilt because the guilt will always be there for Riddhima till Armaan is happy.

If Armaan doesn't want to come, I don't blame him, I mean he shouldn't have to go through with it but what I am saying is Armaan should have called Riddhima or Sid to tell them not left it to Sid and Shilpa to tell Riddhima.

Fine he doesn't owe Riddhima any explaination about where he is but he does owe them an explaination on why he isn't coming because he is friends with them I mean if I was getting married and a good friend of mine couldn't make it I would like him or her to tell me they aren't coming not just not turn up.

I think you're right but i feel once Armaan comes back he will apologize and they will forgive him after all they know why and Ridhima should feel guilty ater all she has hurt him one way the other and let's see if Armaan thinks he has done wrong he would confront it let's see.

@uppass: fine let it be you don't get what i'm saying its your POV i have different POV and there are various reasons why i adore Armaan and shows great example of true lover nad i'm happy with it.

Originally posted by: nikita_88

Ok I am not saying Armaan should turn up to the wedding that is his personal choice but he should have the guts to tell Siddhima he can't make it, I mean they want him there because he is someone they love and they want to share their happiness with him. Sid understood straight away nor has he called Armaan or forced him to come he respects it is hard for Armaan.

Well if he cared he wld come but then yes he is humane so it is OK that he does not come but if he cld tell her so many things ,..then he shd also tell her that he will not come and SR WILL UNDERSTAND...

Originally posted by: KSGrockzz

arman cant open up right now if he could do that to wo khud hi wedding atten karne aa jata. becoz that would cause problem in ridimas wedding & arman dont want to spoil ridhimas happiness & neither arman said shilpa & sid to inform ridhima abt his absence in her wedding sid & shilpa themselves taking tension no body asked them to take tension.

Armaan hasn't asked them to do anything but Riddhima is meant to get married not ask Sid where Armaan is? Because she believes he has turned up since Shilpa is back.🤔 Of course she will know he hasn't come so of course it is a tension

Originally posted by: pavs

Firstly i dnt condone with riddhima's actions...she shud not in every breath compare her ex wid her present ...in everybody's minds comparisons arise but nobody is as blunt about it as riddhima is...if such thots come to her mind she shud either speak to herself or just try to see the positive parts of the past relation..she shud let the bygones be bygones...i also dnt like the fact that arman is still acting so stuck up...in his actions he is slowly alienating sid...if u cnt forget sum1 thtz fine..no body can forget instantly a person they loved..but what is the point of writing her name in blood ??this will blatantly show how much she still affects him to others....n for riddhima i think he shud hv come to the wedding...he dsnt care bat sid ..thtz fine...but when she considers him such a gud frnd he shud hv atleast made an appearance

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