Hey ok. Here are my answers and point of view.
Answer 1:Ok, Umm. she was trying to talk to him as a wife because she told him she would
move on in life as it is her "sachai" earlier when she went to see him in pune(start it with a sach and this is that she is married). Another scene of that was seen when she says- I will go to your house because it my "sachai". And she has been proving that with her actions too- following every single instruction told by Sid even though she is not comfortable with it (I mean, pretending to be Armaan's wife). She has been trying very hard to live with this fiasco because it is her "sachai". but Sid lied to her, and broke that trust when he did not speak the truth first up. I mean he could have told her that Armaan is back and TRUST her to make the right decision (not necessarily choose him but go with her heart which is what she should do) Giving her a choice could have been done in a better way by telling her the TRUTH at first.And honestly, Sid has not lived up to his part of the deal and there are various reasons for it (not telling his mum first, then telling her to pretend to be Ammy's wife (when he himself said that he knows his mum betetr than anyone else), then sit through the whole court martial thing and AR (not real marriage) are just not the things you would expect from a husband. I mean- everyone here talks about marriage being a sacred relationship- but that guy has not able to live with the deal. When a girl is married, she expects her husband to stand up to everything she goes through in life. and honestly- he did deserve a lecture when ridzi has been putting up with everything that she had to face. I mean- first, going to Naina's house, then listening to all the crap Sid's mum says (and he just stood there most of the time honestly until he finally spoke up) and then expect honesty in this ARS situation. So, honestly- a talk was needed when she's doing trying hard to live with this truth of her life. I admit, he likes her- but he hasnt lived up to a sacred bond as people say it.
2.Ok. I am bit confused for this one. Ok for this one, I'll try to give a justification- But I myself am not clear. She said that because she told him she she wanted to move on in life and live with him as his wife as it is her "sachai" and Armaan coming back did not hurt her as much because she knows he left her for her own good. Ok- I am confused I must say. And honestly, I am angry her for saying that coz Ammy does not deserve this sort of behaviour. He deserves much better. Poor guy- he still blamed himself- he's selfess for her and she just blames him. I dont know may be coz she knows she can get away with anything with Ammy. But anyhow, I dont get it either and Ammy has done nothing to deserve the in my point of view. I actually feel bad for the poor guy. And honestly, I dont know why she said that.
3. Um.. May Be I can refute that. She says that when Armaan came back the first thing she throught was "How would I tell Siddhant...................." and then she pauses- she doesnt not mention her "love" or anything- coz she's afraid. She is living with this reality- but she truly loves Armaan. Even the mirror sequence was used to symbolise the desire of what he inner heart says- and that is she belongs with Armaan and can only be happy with him (was highlighted with a smile on her face too). and the contrasting image with Sid suggests that the marriage is the only thing holding her back.
4. Umm....yes that is a confusing one. May be it was shown to remind her that she is married and should not let this happen as Sid is her husband and this is her reality. (Sid didnt stand up either though- so the marriage could have happened if she had not spoken up) And honestly I have no proper reasoning for this. But, it could be because then she'll feel guilty to both guys then and that will burn her. I am confused myself. I still think its the marriage and confusion. So I am not clear and I cant justify it.
5. Um...I think this scenario is different because then she had accepted that Armaan is not coming back and was trying to live with the reality and actually move on in life. Thats why she went to see Sid in Pune to tell him that she is ready and thought they could have a future together (thinking he is a nice guy and if u notice even in locker room yesterday- she mentioned "Sid tum mere acche dost the na"- that shows that she was going to move with this nice guy since Ammy was not there anymore- she had accepted it for a fact). However, Armaan did come back and honestly, seeing him again- made her shocked at first but deep down (her feeling him and with story progression) it brought all the love and memories back that she was trying to leave behind and move on. And seeing Ammy there everyday- will only make it difficult coz her heart truly belongs to him- she would have moved on if he wasnt back (considering she was starting to accept the reality) However, Ammy came back and now she is confused. Her feelings have envolved seeing the both guys there. I mean, she went to kiss Ammy in FE, then cry infront of god (saying kismat ne hamein hara diya), and then cry in FE again (Please dont misundertand my feelings Armaan- mera pyaar jhoota nahi that). This shows she hadnt fully moved on and it was the beiginning And now, she has no clue whatsoever as to what she should do. She was trying to forget Ammy (considering she did not know that it was Sid who had sent Armaan to Pune) and tried to stick to the marriage (when she truly had feelings for Armaan- witnessed many times) and in doing all this- she's created a big mess. and does not know what to do.
6. My previous answer should clarify some stuff.
Honestly, she has left me confused. My POV- she only loves Armaan (truly- I mean). She did start to accept that he is gone (forever according to her) and give her life a second chance with Sid (when Armaan wasnt gone out of her fully) and just when she took the step ahead he came back- now she cant resist herself simply because she loved him to death and is now confused with whom she should go with. But I cant deny she did not have feelings for Sid but they were initial and not love, so my conclusion would be- Sid has not replaced Armaan in her life yet and its going to hard (or impossible as well) when he himself is back. My reasoning- its hard to forget someone u have loved for the past 3 years (nearly- its only been 3-4 months since Sidma marriage) when u have taken bullets for him, stood up against ur dad and went crazy looking for him and still melt infront of him (I mean when he's close to her).
ps: I havent seen the episode of 13/04/2010/ SO this post is from everything that happened before that. This is actually my POV. I may not be correct- so these are just my thoughts and actually not an analysis (if i can say this). So, Please spare me- if anything I said is wrong. And I havent mentioned social pressure- that was part of it too.
Edited by Jaysean - 15 years ago
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