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Posted: 15 years ago
#31
😆 Love was the conversation with my friends today and their complex love lives 😆

We realised that there is difference between loving someone and being in love with some one!

Because you can literally love anyone but being in love with someone is major, so this is Riddhima's question is she loving Sid or is she in love with Sid?

Because to be honest she has been in love with Armaan, but has that love changed to loving/ caring about him and basically if he hadn't gone they could have been together!

Like my friend said if her ex said the right stuff she would still be with him but he didn't and she has moved on and is prefectly happy!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Angelic_J

I haven't jumped to any conclusions😛 I said feelings that "border" love but anyway it would be nice if you could answer the questions as well since it seems like you want to discuss😛 All the questions I have posed are valid given any reason for a divorce except if Sid dies😆
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And oh since you brought up the mirror scene, in case you failed to notice it was re-shot. SR both seemed calm in it and that shows their current situation as man and wife. SR have never had a romantic relationship so it would have been stupid to show them hugging or such. It's enough that they re-shot the scene to show they are normal now because during their wedding they were both pissed and unhappy😃



oh i would LOVE to discuss with someone who actually does it maturely and doesnt get sarcastic over stupid things. but i havent seen this week's episodes and most of your questions revolve around those. let me get done with my assignments and i'll be happy to tell you what 'I' think of the situation. 😊
and if she can see sid SMILING while putting the mangalsutra on her, while it never happened for real, she can most definitely imagine a 'happy' life in the mirror if she had that in her somewhere. there's a huge difference between being 'calm' and being 'in love'.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Amber_x


oh i would LOVE to discuss with someone who actually does it maturely and doesnt get sarcastic over stupid things. but i havent seen this week's episodes and most of your questions revolve around those. let me get done with my assignments and i'll be happy to tell you what 'I' think of the situation. 😊
and if she can see sid SMILING while putting the mangalsutra on her, while it never happened for real, she can most definitely imagine a 'happy' life in the mirror if she had that in her somewhere. there's a huge difference between being 'calm' and being 'in love'.

I don't remember being sarcastic🤔 My apologies if I have been but I have very sarcastic nature in general so don't take it personally😛
I know there is a difference between being in love and being calm. I did not say they looked as if they are in love. All I said was it showcased their current status that they are both content with what they have. And I don't think Riddhima was imagining her "future" in the mirror. She was more looking at what the current past in each relationship is😕 Like to what extent her relationship with Armaan and Sid has progressed until. She was happy with Armaan and content with Sid😛
Anyway looking forward to your answers :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Angelic_J

I don't remember being sarcastic🤔 My apologies if I have been but I have very sarcastic nature in general so don't take it personally😛
I know there is a difference between being in love and being calm. I did not say they looked as if they are in love. All I said was it showcased their current status that they are both content with what they have. And I don't think Riddhima was imagining her "future" in the mirror. She was more looking at what the current past in each relationship is😕 Like to what extent her relationship with Armaan and Sid has progressed until. She was happy with Armaan and content with Sid😛
Anyway looking forward to your answers :)



i didnt say you were sarcastic, read my post again. 😊
and i still say there's a HUGE difference between Armaan and Sid's mirror scene, and there's also a HUGE difference in being HAPPY with something and being CONTENT with other.
oh well! i have to leave for a bit! i'll catch you around and let you know what i think in a day or two..bookmarking this thread 😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
#35
Sid sent divorce papers but im 98% sure Ridhima wont sign them. I htink this is hopefully when she goes crying to sid and asking him how he can do that, leading to a much needed hug😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Amber_x


i didnt say you were sarcastic, read my post again. 😊
and i still say there's a HUGE difference between Armaan and Sid's mirror scene, and there's also a HUGE difference in being HAPPY with something and being CONTENT with other.
oh well! i have to leave for a bit! i'll catch you around and let you know what i think in a day or two..bookmarking this thread 😛

I know you didn't say me but didn't know who you were pointing at so just made myself clear😃 I do have the tendency to be sarcastic sometimes so forwarned you as well😆
Anyway YES there is a huge difference in being happy and content but let's leave that mirror scene on the side😆 I seriously want some answers to the questions I have posted on the first page😳 Once I get those then we can discuss the mirror scene as well because I am sure it will get tied into one of the answers to my questions😃
Do let me know whenever you reply😃 Will eagerly await your responseTongue
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Posted: 15 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: Angelic_J

are the creatives going to bring AR together again?😳😳😳😳 Ummm ok so Sid divorces Riddhima for no apparent reason apart from kinda giving her a push to make her decision so at least 2 out of 3 people can be happy. Anyway so the divorce happens and then AR live happily ever after?🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

Is it just me or are there loopholes with the above scenario🤔🤔🤔🤔 Anyway given that this scenario takes place how on earth will the creatives justify:-
    Riddhima's outburst at Siddhant? If she is only under the obligation of being his wife then why was she trying to exercise her rights as Siddhant's wife yesterday during the locker room scene?🤔🤔🤔🤔 Why on earth did Siddhant's lie hurt more than Armaan's comeback?🤔 Isn't Armaan her one true love so accordingly no one should be able to emotionally affect her on the same level as him. But then she herself said Siddhant hurt her more than Armaan🤔🤔🤔 Why did she say the first thing that came to her mind after Armaan's comeback was, "How will I tell Siddhant Armaan is back?"🤔🤔🤔 Why did she imagine Sid holding the mangalsutra with a smile during her "fake" marriage to Armaan? She could have simply stopped the wedding WITHOUT dreaming about Siddhant with the mangalstura in his hands.🤔 Where do her feelings for Siddhant go? And if anyone is confused then I am talking about the same feelings that stopped her from leaving Siddhant's house when Sid's mum first came😛
  • And most importantly if Armaan is Riddhima's one true love then HOW THE HECK DID SHE EVEN FEEL FOR SIDDHANT TO BEGIN WITH?????
Everyone is welcome to post their views and answer my questions😃 Oh and before you bring in any new points to this discussion please do answer my above questions😃 There are only 6 of them so it should not be too hard😃😃
P.S - I know some of us love playing "bashing-bashing" but let's not play games in this thread and strictly keep it to a healthy discussion. The mods already have enough reports to deal with😃😃
Thank You😃

Here are the answers to the best of my ability and hope u read them as openly as u always do 😊
1. Even a hurt and betrayed friend would ask for answers, not only a wife...she was called there by him and he pretended otherwise, instead creating a no win situation for her...forget a wife, even a stranger would question another, when put in trouble by someone else's pretense...and here they had promised to come clean..right !!!
2. What she means by hurt here is that Armaan's return was the cause for a lot of heart burn for her, armaan's return hurt her in the sense it started a storm in her ...starting to settle life...it hurt her coz it opened up old wounds again...it hurt her coz it forced her to face feelings that she had thought were with difficulty forgotten...and sids lie should hurt her more coz armaans actions were innocent while sids reeked of manipulations and mistrust, armaan always had an open heart but was not well informed...sid actually chose to play hide n seek with her feelings..obviously this was deliberately done....it would and should hurt....testing someone's loyalty like this...
3. The character that Ridhima is and always has been , she is an introvert and an unexpressive person....more than that for her her obligations and reponsibilities always came first...whether it was her father, hiding from her sister, her responsibilities as a doctor while dating and now her obligation as a wife...she has always been mindful of the fact that she should not be the cause of anybody's pain...armaan was the only person she did not hesitate to hurt coz he was her own and she was not formal with him...she always put others first before armaan and herself through the years...this is and should not be an exception...she again thought of her moral responsibility first...
4. That might be labelled as wishful thinking...she was wishing that her marriage had been a happy one, wishing that the man whom she had already married would bring her happiness and joy instead of the complications that their marriage had been shrouded in...not because of love..nobody likes hassles and complications...about Armaan she does not dare dream about him anymore..she cannot...she is somebody's wife...Ridz is not made that way...she has been brought up with norms of what is right and wrong..like most of the indian women...so dreaming about Armaan out...left was Sid..who is her hubby and she was wishing that he had made this marriage happier and simpler..
5. She started feeling for Sid coz she wanted to start a new...and why was that...coz Armaan was a part of her past...past has to be put aside to survive..she wanted to make the best of the circumstances and what life had dealth her...but today its different ....ARMAAN IS NOT PAST, HE IS PRESENT...that is where the whole scenario changed...when she was ready to accept Sid, armaan was nowhere...but now he is back and he has a claim on her heart and now she has to reject him and choose Sid over him....and now after facing him and his love again..she knows...she can never ever forget Armaan ever....
6. As i said earlier, when she started feeling for him, Ammy was a thing of the past, a closed chapter, and sid was what the society, her parents and fate presented her with, so like a sane person, she decided to give this fated marriage her best shot, her best possible effort, buy putting her past aside, a fresh start, with respect and commitment....but then her love came back..making her realise that he is not her past, but will always be with her...he still awaits her, loves her and pines for her....dont u think this paints the whole situation in a totally different hue...she could have loved sid, if armaan was past but when armaan is present, can she love someone with her whol e heart...?
PLS EXCUSE THE LENGTH...FEELINGS TAKE SOME SPACE I GUESS
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Posted: 15 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: ana1

Sid sent divorce papers but im 98% sure Ridhima wont sign them. I htink this is hopefully when she goes crying to sid and asking him how he can do that, leading to a much needed hug😳

Ana if we want SR for the long run then I don't think we are going to see that hug anytime soon😆 I personally think Ridzy is going to sign those papers but some calamity will fall before the divorce is actually finalised😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
#39
I'll answer the questions, once I finish my course work. LOL.

BUTTTT. YO. The divorce isn't going to happen so easily. Riddhima will be confused; the confused soul that she is, she'll cry and cry. And I have a feeling Armaan won't let the divorce happen either. You know for Riddhima, and stuff.

I need to see what Sid's mom will do. She doesn't want to her son hurt, so she wouldn't want Riddhima to divorce him; but at the same time, she doesn't like Riddhima much AND her son was the one who sent them.. so.. hm.. :|

EDIT: fixed some grammar stuff. 😎
Edited by HotMess - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: HotMess

I'll answer the questions, once I finish my course work. LOL.

BUTTTT. YO. The divorce isn't going to happen so easily. Riddhima will be confused; the confused soul that she is, she'll cry and cry. And I have a feeling Armaan won't let the marriage happen either. You know for Riddhima, and stuff.

I need to see what Sid's mom will do. She doesn't want to her son hurt, so she wouldn't want Riddhima to divorce him; but at the same time, she doesn't like Riddhima much AND her son was the one who sent them.. so.. hm.. :|



the mom is returning to America

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