Please see the otherside of coin, before bashing - Page 7

Originally posted by: rajraj17301730

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are ab to kuch bacha hi nahi karne ko

biwi ko dusre ki biwi bana diya

eb bas ek hi kam bacha hua hai

wo ye hai ki ridhima ki shadi Arman se kara de

kam se kam Ridhima ko ek original husband mil jayega jo use apni wife to kah sakega dusra AR ki love story bhi hit ho jayegi

DMG bhi hit ho jayega pahle ki tarah

bas ab jayada karne ko kuch bacha to hai nahi

chalo itna to kar hi sakta hai kam se kam

again please refrain from using big fonts.

now coming to your point, original husband to sid hi rahega, Armaan to second hoga,

usne nahi banaya dosre ke biwi usne bola ke jabhi tak aap decide nahi karte ho tab tak you need to act,chalo agree galt kiya, but yaar Riddhima ne hi decision leke khatm karna chaiye tha na confusion, waise wo jaake kya bolta mom meet my wife who loves someone else and once she decides we can either be together or will mutually sign on divorce paper. cummon!!!

I am not here to bash anyone, just putting up different perspective of Sid's behavior.

ok my thots::

y i evry1 blaming sid n riddhima..a fair share of blame belongs to armaan also..he has been just sitting there like a blind, deaf, mute guy n professing his love story n making a hash out of their special moments in front of the entire sanjivani staff..n he very well know sid's mom is perfectly fine..yet he is entertaining such mindless crap..he must be totally dumb to not understand how uncomfortable riddhima is feeling when he is bragging about his love affair...i ws like duhhh grow up arman malik

agreed sid ws at fault..but u hv to see arman's idiocy 2..he is just behaving like an adolescent desperate to get back ridz...he didnt give nay consideration to the fact that she may not like him speaking so publicly about their love affair..n only a blind person wont notice her tears or her constant uncomfortable flinching...n da wya he said he is ever ready to marry her n then having that whole mock ceremony dsnt bear too good on his character either...i am not defending sid but just pointing out that there are inconsistencies in arman;s character also..

@-Veena-

I love to klnow different perspective to understand things better, I am jotting down my vision without getting biased.

and certain extent Sid's behavior looks shallow to us, but eternally he wants Riddhima to decide on something without his indulgence

--Armaan is narrating his love story where he strongly feels about Ridz.. everyone is supporting *shakes head*

--Ridz is forced to listen to this.. and pleading to Sid (with her eyes) to save her from this mess.. Nothing is happening..

--Ridz is made to dress like a bride and sit infront of all the friends that know that Sid and Ridz are married... I feel sad for Ridz and Sid..I can't believe Ridz is doing it and Sid is just not saying anything'

--Ridz is forced to take vows.. with her ex 'fianc ' still nothing is happening..

Yes Riddhima almost looked at him with plea in her eyes to save her from this collateral damage, and the kind of person Sid is, would have never tolerated the stuff as a friend or a husband, but here he just want to keep himself away from any influence, I would have preferred him leaving the circus but anyways He just wanted Riddhima to be strong enough to pull herself out of this public dilemma, and get on a decision of what she wants. Standing up for your friends not everytime helps them, some times leaving them to understand their inner voice is needed, anbd this what Sid is trying to do as a friend if not as a husband.

one the best dialogs - Kai baar Jawaab hamre samne hota hai but humein dikhta nahi, he some how conveyed Riddhima in an encrypted language, that answer lies in you.

Manier times he said I will be always there for you when you need me, and till now I don't think she needed him, specially to escape Armaan, who is in his innocence hurting her with every word.

looking at the whole nonsensical dramatic situation I feel bad for Ridzie, neither of the guys can see the pain and angst in her eyes, how uncomfortable she is with the whole drama, being angry and hurt are too different feelings, the guys should be able to see that.

--Ridz opens HER mouth and says.. 'I am married' ' Don't Sid feel anything!?

At this point I can see furious eyes of Sid, am not sure why need to watch tomorrows episode before commenting

Originally posted by: monar

I wonder what people would have done if Sid chooses to hold her back and babbled about marriage, rituals and society.. Gosh I don't wanna think about it, as then I would have hated him.

I would have stood up and applauded if Sid would have said something and then left it to Ridz and walked off.. for her to make that decision.. right now he is making fool (sorry don't have a better word!) of himself and Ridz.. because except his mum and Armaan .. everyone ..even the nurses know that Sid and Ridz are married' how is this fair to both of them and their emotional turmoil!!!!

Am sorry my post isn't clear of what I want to convey,

I meant when Armaan first came, if Sid would have hold her back, i wud have hated him

In all this the conclusion I have come to.. is yet again .. the CV's have done a stupendous job in screwing up a great character and making it a unreal person!

This is hurting the most as a viewer, runing Sid's character indeed is disgusting. Rather any character in that sense

Thanks for sharing your views, I loved reading them.

Originally posted by: pavs

ok my thots::

y i evry1 blaming sid n riddhima..a fair share of blame belongs to armaan also..he has been just sitting there like a blind, deaf, mute guy n professing his love story n making a hash out of their special moments in front of the entire sanjivani staff..n he very well know sid's mom is perfectly fine..yet he is entertaining such mindless crap..he must be totally dumb to not understand how uncomfortable riddhima is feeling when he is bragging about his love affair...i ws like duhhh grow up arman malik

agreed sid ws at fault..but u hv to see arman's idiocy 2..he is just behaving like an adolescent desperate to get back ridz...he didnt give nay consideration to the fact that she may not like him speaking so publicly about their love affair..n only a blind person wont notice her tears or her constant uncomfortable flinching...n da wya he said he is ever ready to marry her n then having that whole mock ceremony dsnt bear too good on his character either...i am not defending sid but just pointing out that there are inconsistencies in arman;s character also..

At the end Ridzie is in receiving end

Sid roxxxxxxxxxxxxx



thats the besy way to sum it up👏

Monar.. thanks for your reply..

Fair enough… I am open to understanding the other side of the coin..

One comment:

Manier times he said I will be always there for you when you need me

I would like Sid to be "with" her not "infront " of her @ her time of need.. "Tum mujhe samnee paoogi" (I don't know the exact dialogue)I know I am taking it literally… but really thais is what happened.

I am not against Sid and Ridz being together… whatever Ridz decides I am sure they will be happy… I just hope they have the same respect for each other.. Love will come with time. But the basis of marriage is love, trust, honor and respect. Hope they achieve that!

@ monarrrrrr: heylo am back again. i see its getting tougher to defend sid.. now.. esp after the two back to back epis of him not saying anything...! i know you think otherwise.. but still
leave sid leave armaaan i feel pathetic for the girl in between.... i feel for her so bad.....!!! :( neither is armaan stopping eventhough he sees ridz is not quite comfortable and nor is sid.. but armaan doesnt understand the situation half as much as sid does... but sid......i think he lost his voice somewhere... poor girl cant do anything.. sitting with the "kill me now" expression... guilty of betraying not one but two men in her life.. cant look at anybody and the rest are just giggling away.... just my thought.. maybe its biased cos i love JW.. more thn anybody in the show... LOL!
@rona dhona: i hope this ends sooonnn! am hating all of this... there are plenty of other shows tht do this..not DMG tooo.. i miss laughing while watching DMG.. ya ths wht i miss in the show... damn the TRPS.. it aint increasing anyways.. LMAO!
ughhhhh nvm i shall NOT care anymore! (ive said tht manier times before)

Veena thanks for keeping yourself open to listen other views, I really appreciate that,

I would like Sid to be "with" her not "infront " of her @ her time of need.. "Tum mujhe samnee paoogi" (I don't know the exact dialogue)I know I am taking it literally' but really thais is what happened.

I comprehend what you are saying, his presence might not signified everything, and as I said earlier he should have gone but on second thoughts this could have made things even worse for Ridzie.

Ridzie was embarrassed and poor girl is facing alot, but His presence gave her a place to look at rather than hiding herself in her own guilt, I don't know what will happen next but as of now she had someone to feel the angst of her with the same intensity. he is a husband sitting there to listen her wife's love tale. Ah gosh CVs should be punished for this 😡, sometimes you help your friends with your passiveness.

what I am more scared of is Armaan joining these two in wagon of agony. I know reality will come fast and harsh to him as of now he is happy being there, next he will share the the pain and angst of losing with other two, Gosh I don't know what CVs have stored for us further. 😭

I hated CV for all the dragging, I would have loved to see Riddhima taking a firm decision wither Armaan or Sid, but now this whole dangling will hurt many..

Originally posted by: yattri

@ monarrrrrr: heylo am back again. i see its getting tougher to defend sid.. now.. esp after the two back to back epis of him not saying anything...! i know you think otherwise.. but still
leave sid leave armaaan i feel pathetic for the girl in between.... i feel for her so bad.....!!! :( neither is armaan stopping eventhough he sees ridz is not quite comfortable and nor is sid.. but armaan doesnt understand the situation half as much as sid does... but sid......i think he lost his voice somewhere... poor girl cant do anything.. sitting with the "kill me now" expression... guilty of betraying not one but two men in her life.. cant look at anybody and the rest are just giggling away.... just my thought.. maybe its biased cos i love JW.. more thn anybody in the show... LOL!
@rona dhona: i hope this ends sooonnn! am hating all of this... there are plenty of other shows tht do this..not DMG tooo.. i miss laughing while watching DMG.. ya ths wht i miss in the show... damn the TRPS.. it aint increasing anyways.. LMAO!
ughhhhh nvm i shall NOT care anymore! (ive said tht manier times before)

Hey dear, welcome back, kahan they?

Defending Sid, Ah Till the last breadth and till he is behaving sane according to me 😉 but this banda don't need any protection yaar, he will come up with flying colors on his own I am sure 😊.

No doubt my heart went out for Ridzie today, 😭😭😭, poor girl, I am going to give two tight slaps to CVs so that they wake up and write some sane script! they need some tight doses from us, JW proved her worth yaar, awesome actor! 👏👏 hmm I am biased to whom, I think marriage 😆😆

@Rona Dhona Ridzie is becoming water reservoir, 24X7 tears availability , waise Rona dhona is so traditional in Indian idiot box.

Just strike, me think of watching these serials in 3D TV Damn I am so dead 🤣