Please see the otherside of coin, before bashing - Page 5

Originally posted by: -PZlicious-

Bashing Siddhant Hmm i don't think so i think two of main leads who are getting bashed more than him its quite obvious we want AR than why would we support what Sid has done and what not?? he did make mistakes by not telling truth to her mom, telling Riddhima to pretend Armaan's wife no doubt his character getting butchered here but i don't think he is getting bashed here its just No one seems to understand what that other main lead name Armaan going through he done a lot for others specially Riddhima and still what people feel is bad for him but no one tend to see what is that poor guy's fault and how many times people are going to test his pateience and take advantage of him and treat him like toy...

I know not one but all the characters are bashed by us "fans", and I am not denying other two lead character's agony, my point is why people are coming with same argument in almost all the posts,

Let me put them here

@forced marriage, was Siddhant responsible for it? aren't people ignoring Sid's perspective? isn't marriage was forced on him? I think more than Riddhima he forced himself in marriage, and by that time Armaan wasn't in the scene. I mean physically present.

@Rage against Riddhima, before answering this let me make it clear -I am against any kind violence. now coming to my POV, Being human is not easy for anyone in the conditions when your spouse preffered suicide over you. I think his rage wasn't for Riddhima more than for himself, how can he be one of the reasons for someone to end their life that too the person he is getting married, normal human try to look for the answer and behave insane, he did that, which definitely Riddhima Understood, it was not to hurt Riddhima but to prove himself yes I am bad enough to make some die, human angst, which I understand but don't support. What I like here the human who still can differentiate between good and bad, and accepts what he did was wrong.

@HE being silent in whole court drama - I partially support this, because I think spouse wants their better half to give them assurance of their presence, which Siddhant is missing from Riddhima's side. He thinks RIddhima loves Armaan and have no feeling for him but still looking at her uneasiness either of two male protagonist should have reponded, but nope they were not because of their own sweet reasons.

And last but not the least human get biased, but that doesn't mean that other perspective is wrong.

Originally posted by: yattri

@monar: LOL! i know straight out of the K series..! heavyduty makeup, loud voice.. bantering,accusing... SAAZISH!! LMFAO! and dramatics classes.. dude.. i almost fell off my chair laughing....

@angelic_J: well i think everybody is biased.. arent you? and if he doesnt want to force his acts as her husband thn atleast as a friend he could have saved her grace at tht point of time... and even if he forces or not the fact remains tht they are married.. and riddhimma is abiding by the relation whether she love him or not..i know you wont agree but just saying :)

I bet Ekta ji ki Jai ho! I think world highest consumption of glycerin is in Indian TV industry 😆😆
Thanks to Ekta Mata for Glycerin's booming market in recession, I wonder if these TV actors can get natural tears any more?

Sazzish by joe, right word, and I never understand when bad vamps are making saazish no one will ever get to know, but on other hand when protagonist try to do something against vamps, somehow they get micro signal

I think that maybe before just seeing people saying stuff against Sid, instead of assuming it to be bashing people should actually understand what being said....

Originally posted by: rosette80

dear....ur so very right in every point...but wat is the use of bringing the topic here..wen most of them will not or morely does not want to accpet the fact...always will make the wrong impression of the right things..so dont worry...ur right and justified in every way! i am with u/..this is nothing of SR or AR..am equally a fan of AR and SR

Hey anjali!! thanks for finding my post right enough to convey Sid's angst 🤗 thank you!

@ Angelic_J, while there are people who bash , not everyone is bashing.... but I really didn't understand how Sid telling Armaan the truth or SR together telling Armaan the truth would have made Ridz tied down. Anyway the whole world except Armaan and Sid's mom knew that they are married. And Sid could have still left it to Ridz's choice whether she wants to be with with A or S. What is the problem in that? When the wedding was forced and he had reason to wonder whether R really loved him etc, it makes sense to wait for her decision although she was willing to move forward... Of course from Sid's perspective everythign changed when Armaan came back and he needed to know if Ridz still wants to move ahead with him or go back to Armaan (esp because he has seen her pagalpan at an earlier stage).... That was the wise thing to do..... but then why keep the third person in that triangle in the dark? and also agree to be his friend , but continue looking at him making a fool of himself and also a mockery of R in the hospital? Even if I think that it is Ridz's responsibility to tell Armaan, how does it make it right that Sid is askign Ridz to pretend to be Armaan's wife? Does he put himself even once in Armaan's shoes and thin k how he would have liked to be treated had he been in Armaan's position? The honest and wisest thing would ahve been for Sid and Ridz to tell armaan that they are married... and Sid could still have been the good guy and given riddhima the right to choose to live her life the way she wants!! I am not bashing Sid... But inspte of the multiple posts I have read, I never understood that reason... and yeah I didn't like that cafetaria thing that A did not realise that R is not comfortable and stop it there without making a tamasha of the whole thing!! While I blame mostly R ( of course the biggest blame needs to be on the CVs.. but from a story perspective) for all the fiasco that is happening (with a tenth of the energy she is using to run away or shout at A she could have just told him that she is married... and if she was confused, she could ahve been honest abt that too...) , I think even Sidd could have stood up yesterday ( if not as hubby, as a friend atleast) to stop that tamasha that was going on in the name of a court martial!!!

Originally posted by: kash4life

I think that maybe before just seeing people saying stuff against Sid, instead of assuming it to be bashing people should actually understand what being said....

The points where we have a problem with his Values is

The asking Riddhima to do the natak...YOU CANNOT justify that the way you have explained as it is sheeeeer insentivity towards Armaan and his own wife

Faling to tell Armaan or asking Ridz to tel Armaan the truth..insteasd he tells her to pretend to be his wife...for his stressed out mother.

Giving Armaan false hope about Ridz, Im sorry but what he is doing in my opinion is not sacrifice it's making matters worse!

I appreciate your views, but is this the only reason, because since when I joined this forum I can see loads of post against every movement of Sid.

I know upto certain extent I disagree to how Sid is managing everything, but can't question his values, as even he wasn't sure what His mom can come up with.

Regarding telling Armaan about his marriage, I wonder why should he, if Riddhima is not interested to convey this, he left the choice to Ridzie, and if Riddhima Chooses Armaan, armaan can normally be told about their marriage.
Think at first telling Armaan, see though we are married, but if you want I can divorce and you can Marry Riddhima, sounds pathetic to me, its almost like closing all the doors for both Riddhima and Armaan.

if you have different POV I don't problem this is soley my POV.

@monar, it was not meant to be a bashing post... and I am just saying my reasons for not liking what Sid did. I am just saying that I think honesty is the best policy in all this... Sid doesn't really have to tell Armaan - that i can divorce and u can marry etc etc.. and it is not about Armaan wanting .. it is about Riddhima wanting .... Everybody will get hurt anyway... But with the truth out in the open you will be allowing all the three concerned to do it with dignity... And while it is mainly Riddhima's responsibility, atleast when he sees things going out of hand and when he accepts Armaan as a friend ( now he might have doen that majbooran, because in all honesty he wouldn't have been able to say No to Armaan without being rude), but still I feel that would have been the best course,.. and I just didn't get it why she needs to act as A's wife! I am extremely sorry if I come acorss as rude or anything.. That was not the intention and I am not part of any of the fights that usually go on in this forum...

@monar: pooor actors.... have to tolerate the glycerine.. most actors.. esp females have eye problems.. i remember jen had one not long ago... all bcos of the telly queen EKTA mata!! hail her...!! hahah
nahin nahin nahin...! and then the camera zooms on the face from 4 different directions... ZOOOOOOOOOOOM!! LMAO! head ache head ache... and SAAZISH!! oh never to forget the saazish.... have nth to do in their own lives so making others life a wrath..LOL!
but to my disgrace DMG is going ekta mata way. too much rona dhona... uff am getting tired of it now......
P.S. i think am way off topic.. i should shut up 😛

Originally posted by: solembaum

@monar, it was not meant to be a bashing post... and I am just saying my reasons for not liking what Sid did. I am just saying that I think honesty is the best policy in all this... Sid doesn't really have to tell Armaan - that i can divorce and u can marry etc etc.. Everybody will get hurt anyway... But you will be allowing all the three concerned to do it with dignity... And while it is mainly Riddhima's responsibility, atleast when he sees things going out of hand and when he accepts Armaan as a friend ( now he might have doen that majbooran, because in all honesty he wouldn't have been able to say No to Armaan without being rude), but still I feel that would have been the best course,.. and I just didn't get it why she needs to act as A's wife! I am extremely sorry if I come acorss as rude or anything.. That was not the intention and I am not part of any of the fights that usually go on in this forum...

No I do understand what you want to convey here, but then why only SId thats my concern.

All of them are making mockery of something or other, Armaan why the hell on earth without getting nod directly from Riddhima is all set to put magalsutra, I mean he needs to find out why is riddhima behaving differently or he just thinks what ever I'll handle it and cares. might sound bad to people, but aren't they convniently ignoring this.

Secondly Riddhima Mata pehle decide karo yaar paka diya, I mean ok Sid is pushing her since Armaan first entered, to decide on something, but she is no mood, at first I can understand it must difficult for her but now beyond my understanding, think how embarrassing it is for a married person that his/her spouse is not able to decide if I am the one they want, heart trenching, and this guy wanna see how far my wife can take this.

I still don't support what ever circus is on in Sanjeevani, its just for the whole sitution not a single person is responsible.

I just wanna say that i'm not a part of the bashing that takes place on this forum but yes, i have to admit i do criticise characters to limits but i do this only to justify the character's actions