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Originally posted by: sayali_babes

i love AR and cannot see them apart....

SidMa can go to hell😊

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Originally posted by: lighteningbuzz

I have been reading the fans of Armaan-Riddhima and reading the comments in which they solidfy their reason that Riddhima should pick Armaan. Well, I came up with the answers to their comments.

Okay, first of all many people have subjectively argued that Armaan's love cannot compare to Sid's becuz, of the time difference or the fact that you can't ever forget your first love! I don't think every person in this world ends up marrying their first love! Just becuz, they were together for two years doesn't mean her fate should be inclined only to him WHY becuz, they were together for 2 years! And yes, you can fall in love with someone in a couple of months! If in films we can digest the idea of love at first sight then what is wrong with Riddhima and Sid falling for each other in a couple of months. Besides she moved on and every person has the right to move on in his/her life even though the memories stay. I ask people out there that if you had a previous boyfriend and life's circumstances separated you. Later on, you meet an awesome, extremely caring, loving husband whose happiness is your happiness then will you really go back to your ex-boyfriend or stay with your current husband?? And is it fair to the husband if you left? Some of you people need to understand that how would you feel if you were in Sid's place? I am sure there's no man that will tolerate his wife's lover. But, its easy to judge becuz, your not looking at it from open perspective.

Everyone have their own opinions to the Riddhima-Sid-Armaan triangle. But, its apparently rather shocking that many people are implying that Riddhima & Armaan should be a couple. In addition they add that "he is hot! Or the fact that he is cuter?" So, basically your explaination narrows down to fact that Armaan is hot and therefore that's why she should be with him and for the fact that you guys are AR fans? So, basically you don't have any concern for the storyline but, just want AR together even though it doesn't make any sense.

About Armaan, people are saying that "oh he was helpless that he left her and all that!" Well, I have one question is that if he loved her so bad and couldn't live without her how did he manage to live separate from her all this time. Riddhima is absolutely right when she states that he didn't even care to check back if she's dead or alive. I understand that he had a mental condition and wanted to treat it. But, what about Riddhima she got freakin injured too? What about her condition? I fail to understand how he run away to get himself cured only to not trouble her but, did he forget that she was injured too? And if he thought she was dead, then he didn't even check back to see? I don't understand that if you love someone so badly, you would constantly make sure that they were okay first instead of thinking that your gonna give her problems with your health and just leave her alone. And what she must be going through. Both could've strived to get each other better with each other's love and support. In a time of crisis, a person needs the love and support of people around him/her and Armaan was unable to understand that. Sid on the other hand although first he was immature but later on he matured gracefully to fit the role of a companion that helped Riddhima cope through her problems. What's more he accepted her in spite of knowing her past and that she loved someone else. Even though at times he has been frustrated at her, but you gotta understand his countless efforts to take her out of her grief and pain. If he did yell at her at times then it was becuz, he wanted her to live her life in her own means and to learn to live accepting her present. She was completely wasting her time away crying for Armaan whom she couldn't get a hold of and didn't realize the importance of people around her who loved and cared for her like her parents, friends, sister, and Sid. Sid, was helping her come to terms with her life and at the same time he was mad becuz, of the suicide attempt she tried to do even though she was given so much freedom and support to make her own decisions.

I think in today's society, many men can be a loverboy, loving boyfriend like Armaan. I've seen many guys who were very much in love with a girl who happened to get married. These guys just accept it and move on.

But, how many men can actually be Sid? I ask you how many men can actually have the guts to bear the thought of their own wives loving another man and what's more forgetting about your own happiness to unite her with her former lover. He is her husband, he could've been controlling freak but, he merely wants to see her happy even if that means its not with him. To me that is the idea of "true love" in which you sacrifice your own happiness for the other person. Love is not selfish. How many men have the guts to marry a girl who tells you clearly that she's not gonna give you any husband/wife relationship after marriage but, yet you still marry her so, that her prestige and her parents' self-respect is maintained without regard to your own happiness. Siddharth is the best for Riddima. I think their jodi was given less time to develop fully considering that people have become "used" to seeing Armaan-Riddhima for two years that if Sidma given a chance can develop fully into a more widely popular jodi which is special in its own right.

Originally posted by: lighteningbuzz

I have been reading the fans of Armaan-Riddhima and reading the comments in which they solidfy their reason that Riddhima should pick Armaan. Well, I came up with the answers to their comments.

Okay, first of all many people have subjectively argued that Armaan's love cannot compare to Sid's becuz, of the time difference or the fact that you can't ever forget your first love! I don't think every person in this world ends up marrying their first love! Just becuz, they were together for two years doesn't mean her fate should be inclined only to him WHY becuz, they were together for 2 years! And yes, you can fall in love with someone in a couple of months! If in films we can digest the idea of love at first sight then what is wrong with Riddhima and Sid falling for each other in a couple of months. Besides she moved on and every person has the right to move on in his/her life even though the memories stay. I ask people out there that if you had a previous boyfriend and life's circumstances separated you. Later on, you meet an awesome, extremely caring, loving husband whose happiness is your happiness then will you really go back to your ex-boyfriend or stay with your current husband?? And is it fair to the husband if you left? Some of you people need to understand that how would you feel if you were in Sid's place? I am sure there's no man that will tolerate his wife's lover. But, its easy to judge becuz, your not looking at it from open perspective.

Everyone have their own opinions to the Riddhima-Sid-Armaan triangle. But, its apparently rather shocking that many people are implying that Riddhima & Armaan should be a couple. In addition they add that "he is hot! Or the fact that he is cuter?" So, basically your explaination narrows down to fact that Armaan is hot and therefore that's why she should be with him and for the fact that you guys are AR fans? So, basically you don't have any concern for the storyline but, just want AR together even though it doesn't make any sense.

About Armaan, people are saying that "oh he was helpless that he left her and all that!" Well, I have one question is that if he loved her so bad and couldn't live without her how did he manage to live separate from her all this time. Riddhima is absolutely right when she states that he didn't even care to check back if she's dead or alive. I understand that he had a mental condition and wanted to treat it. But, what about Riddhima she got freakin injured too? What about her condition? I fail to understand how he run away to get himself cured only to not trouble her but, did he forget that she was injured too? And if he thought she was dead, then he didn't even check back to see? I don't understand that if you love someone so badly, you would constantly make sure that they were okay first instead of thinking that your gonna give her problems with your health and just leave her alone. And what she must be going through. Both could've strived to get each other better with each other's love and support. In a time of crisis, a person needs the love and support of people around him/her and Armaan was unable to understand that. Sid on the other hand although first he was immature but later on he matured gracefully to fit the role of a companion that helped Riddhima cope through her problems. What's more he accepted her in spite of knowing her past and that she loved someone else. Even though at times he has been frustrated at her, but you gotta understand his countless efforts to take her out of her grief and pain. If he did yell at her at times then it was becuz, he wanted her to live her life in her own means and to learn to live accepting her present. She was completely wasting her time away crying for Armaan whom she couldn't get a hold of and didn't realize the importance of people around her who loved and cared for her like her parents, friends, sister, and Sid. Sid, was helping her come to terms with her life and at the same time he was mad becuz, of the suicide attempt she tried to do even though she was given so much freedom and support to make her own decisions.

I think in today's society, many men can be a loverboy, loving boyfriend like Armaan. I've seen many guys who were very much in love with a girl who happened to get married. These guys just accept it and move on.

But, how many men can actually be Sid? I ask you how many men can actually have the guts to bear the thought of their own wives loving another man and what's more forgetting about your own happiness to unite her with her former lover. He is her husband, he could've been controlling freak but, he merely wants to see her happy even if that means its not with him. To me that is the idea of "true love" in which you sacrifice your own happiness for the other person. Love is not selfish. How many men have the guts to marry a girl who tells you clearly that she's not gonna give you any husband/wife relationship after marriage but, yet you still marry her so, that her prestige and her parents' self-respect is maintained without regard to your own happiness. Siddharth is the best for Riddima. I think their jodi was given less time to develop fully considering that people have become "used" to seeing Armaan-Riddhima for two years that if Sidma given a chance can develop fully into a more widely popular jodi which is special in its own right.

Originally posted by: moviebuff05

Very nice post......Loved how you put forth your thoughts

Sid and Ridhimma's story will always be a beautiful love story.......no matter what the end

Ridz is one lucky woman, who hasnt even realised how fortunate and lucky she is to have a man like Sid in her life and is her husband

Sid is ridhimmas angel!!!