Why Sidma RULES! Explanations. WrningPg 5 - Page 5

Hannahx,

That's your opinion and you are free to express your own opinion. However, I am amazed that you asked me a question in your discussion and then you answered it yourself! You asked me "if it was a 2 yr saga bet/ SR would I still be able to accept if she gets married to Armaan." At least, don't ask me a question if you don't even want to hear my answer and just "assume" you know my answer. Even if it was a SR 2-yrs. saga I would've still accepted even if she married Armaan depending on the fact if he gave her the same support that Sid gave her. I understand that 2 years is a long time. But, many of us go through relationships with people in our life and do all of us end up marrying our first love? I don't think our past is ever wasted from us even though you have to understand that life is always changing and people do move on. We can learn from our past but, I don't believe in living in the past becuz, the present is more important. I think in love, its more important for two people to be friends rather than love alone. In my eyes, every woman wants her husband to be her friend becuz, that's where the love blooms. Again, me and you might have totally different experiences in life and have our own take on them. A woman of 21^st century doesn't mean that you just throw your cultural values and traditions "outside the window." And love isn't always about yourself. It's not selfish and sometimes you need to think about how many people are involved in your decision. Love is not the only thing required to make a marriage works, there are far more things required trust, understanding, maturity, etc. An as I said before to me I think if a boyfriend/girlfriend love each other, it's not stronger than a husband/wife loving each other becuz, they're already in a sacred bond. Why else did our indian society made the value of marriage sacred? Although it's a complete different story, if your husband is an alcoholic, abuses you, or doesn't love you then I can understand a woman leaving her husband.

Again, if you think Sid is coward then that's merely your opinion. Becuz, he would be a coward if he has forced control on Riddhima or tried to separate AR. He knows how much they loved each other and therefore he's trying to get Riddhima with Armaan? How is he a coward when he's sacrificing his love for her so, that she can be happy. How is he a coward, when inspite of being her husband wants her to unite with her past love? He's not expressing his feelings to her becuz, he doesn't want to confuse or pressure her into choosing him. And she shouldn't be obliged to be with him merely cuz, he loves her. He's wants her to choose herself who she wants to be with without any pressure so, that she can freely choose who she loves. And if you haven't noticed, he's using his mom so, that he can bring her closer to Armaan. Frankly, I don't think he cares about what his mom thinks. At first he lied to his mom that Riddhima wasn't his wife to make it easier on Riddhima so, she doesn't have to live with him and then he kept lying for the sake of his friends Naina and Yuvi. I think Riddhima is the one playing with both of their emotions, and it is she that's playing with Armaan's emotions and not Sid. That woman only does what people tell her to do if you have seen April 2^nd episode yet where she marries both of them. To me, a woman should have her own self-respect, dignity, and willpower. Also, I believe that if she wants to pick one that she should just do it becuz, she's like crying here and there and confusing the heck out of both Armaan and Sid. Again, if you don't agree with my points here then I am not forcing you to agree with them. I don't let anyone force their opinions on me as I stand by what I believe. Every individual is different and has their own right to their opinion.

I'm not offended by your viewpoints becuz, its YOUR opinion.