Jallandar l Vrinda - The DKDM Mess

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@Gods_child

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

woman according society has role to seve man and inc population

wHy cant she ask for truth knowledge and freedom

I want equality for woman in learning and having growth

People write in all other shows also woman are degraded so wats wrong if same in DKDM its like saying people raped earlier also so wats prob if they rape now...

Edited by Gods_child - 12 years ago

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JAYASHREE

@jayvenk

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

chalta hi attittude,
chalta hi it is after all a serial
chalta hi jallandar is going to any way die
chalta hi she is woman it is ok if she cries
chalta hi, at least we got to see romance on DKDM
chalti Hi I AM WOMAN ?????

Edited by jayvenk - 12 years ago

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Karunima

@Karunima

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Posted: 12 years ago

#43

Powerful post echoes all our sentiments. 👏

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dersha91

@dersha91

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Posted: 12 years ago

#44

CVs for goodness sake please understand that Parvati Mahadev balance each other.They are not emotionally dependent on each other.Parvati being Mahadev'wife or Mother of Ganesh,Kartikeya and Ashoksundari is an extension.Sheis her own individual not a some mortal suffering from midlife crisis.
speaking of purans.Dear cvs there is no puran in which Jalandhar was a hero.And no where has it been mentioned that he kidnapped Parvati using maya.This is AdiShakti who eliminated evil like Mahishasur,Rakhtabheej,Bhanasur.Please stick to facts.dont add ur own ingredients to serve a palatable dish to the audience.

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Saumya

@Saumya19

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Posted: 12 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: jayvenk
chalta hi attittude,
chalta hi it is after all a serial
chalta hi jallandar is going to any way die
chalta hi she is woman it is ok if she cries
chalta hi, at least we got to see romance on DKDM
chalti Hi I AM WOMAN ?????

Chalta hi attitude to bahut tolerable hai par hurt kya karta hai pata hai when knowledgeable and well aware people start to defend the atrocities in the name of poor Jallandhar and likes. They bring all their knowledge and information to put forth the defense as high and mighty they can...not only on this forum but on many others too... and real life is no different either...galat ko sahi tehrane ke liye hi saara gyaan lagado...quite like our learned legal fraternity( I am one of them) who uses our entire knowledge to successfully defend the guilty...ironically we succeed more often than not Loved all your posts right from the first one to this one...

Edited by mytinypaintings - 12 years ago

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varaali

@varaali

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

I have a couple of things to say, (which may be contrary to opinions expressed here) so please hear me out patiently.

Point 1: This is regarding the portryal of Vrinda / Parvati / other woman characters. This is a mytho show, based on events which have supposedly occured thousands of yeards ago.

Now, the saas bahu serial are set in today's world. IMO, they are better equipped to show the modern woman as she is...independents, working...etc. But which saas bahu serial does that? Women are always shown walking about in huge mansions, clad in designer sarees, heavy jewellery and make up even when in bed...Is there anyone like that today?

If at all they show a woman going to work, it is usually because her father is sick / dead and she has to support a mother and younger siblings. In due course of time she marries a rich guy and becomes another woman walking about in another huge mansion, clad in designer sarres, heavy jewellery and make up, with a host of schemeing in-laws to keep company

I don't know if serials have changed these days; this was the scenario a few years back, after which I have stopped watching such dramas.

If the saas- bahu serials cannot portray the modern woman as she is, then how can we expect DKDM to show women- who lived eons ago - in a 21st century manner?

Point 2: Whether we like it or not, women were supposed to be submissive to their husbands. That was the norm and we cannot wish it away. The 'pativrata' factor was a big thing. No denying.

A woman would not call her husband by name, her life centered around her husband, she was expected to accord her husband the status of God. And Vrinda was the gold standard for Pativarta- ness.

This is how Vrinda, Parvati,et all are portrayed, and to that extent the CVs are factually correct.

If I had cribs about the weak portrayal of women, it would be in the saas bahu serials- no here.

Edited by varaali - 12 years ago

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Rumjhum Laha

@Patrarekha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#47

many will cry for the dialogue main nhi chahta tha aisa ho aisa kyun hua vrinda

answer aisa isiliye hua kyunke tumne kiya

none asked u to try to replace tridev..mahadev didn't do any harm just telling he is jal's creator is not an offense that ur ego will hurt

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Saumya

@Saumya19

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Posted: 12 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: Kadamvari
many will cry for the dialogue main nhi chahta tha aisa ho aisa kyun hua vrinda

answer aisa isiliye hua kyunke tumne kiya

none asked u to try to replace tridev..mahadev didn't do any harm just telling he is jal's creator is not an offense that ur ego will hurt

@bold precisely Kadamvari...aisa issiliye hua ki tumne aisa kiya...mahadebv ne kaha tha ki parvati ko utha lao

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JAYASHREE

@jayvenk

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Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Varaali those were the opinions of the comments made by members , not me,
My problem is portrayal of Jallanadar or Evil and the melt down of evil to a nice bad guy by DKDM and there by sending different signals to the audience.
And yes the signals sent was to women and the way women are treated.
The saas bahu was only in reference to a question asked to my by some one else.

Edited by jayvenk - 12 years ago