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Posted: 17 years ago
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I remembering one Quote , though I totally forget where I heard , but I really like it

"Train yourself to let go everything you fear to lose."?

What do you think about this philosophy?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

"Train yourself to let go everything you fear to lose."?

What do you think about this philosophy?

Not impossible but very difficult to do unless one is cast away on an island in utter isolation for 5 years like Tom Hanks was in the movie . In fact watching that movie was an experience - no bg music, only one actor for 80 min, very limited dialogue for 40 min to wilson the volleyball.

I think spiritual loneliness is worse than physical loneliness.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

I remembering one Quote , though I totally forget where I heard , but I really like it

"Train yourself to let go everything you fear to lose."?

What do you think about this philosophy?

letting go of things is not a problem for me...was never a problem for me. have hit rock bottom in life and then come up. so really not very attached to materialistic things. enjoy them but won't miss them if i don't have them tw.

what gets me totally scared to death is the mere thought of losing my loved ones....my parents....my daughters....that totally freaks me out. it's very hard to let go of that fear and i doubt i'll ever be able to do that.

lighty, liked ur line about physical/spiritual lonliness😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gauri_3

lighty, liked ur line about physical/spiritual lonliness😊

Thanks G. See a lot of loneliness in older people living desolate lives, practically everythign they lived for in younger days has been reduced or dissapeared, health, social life, meetings with children reduced to maybe once or twice a year.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Its not necessary to train.. time will do that.. one needs to just immortalize things first before somebody can start these training classes... 😉
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Posted: 17 years ago
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No need any training...Life is a learning......so.. train karne ke liye waqt nahe milta....😳😉

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gauri_3

letting go of things is not a problem for me...was never a problem for me. have hit rock bottom in life and then come up. so really not very attached to materialistic things. enjoy them but won't miss them if i don't have them tw.

what gets me totally scared to death is the mere thought of losing my loved ones....my parents....my daughters....that totally freaks me out. it's very hard to let go of that fear and i doubt i'll ever be able to do that

I agree with your views here. I feared/scared about the loss of my loved ones, including my friends. I am already suffering the loss of my father who was my strength.

lighty, liked ur line about physical/spiritual lonliness😊

No need to train, but can adjust to the situation, it is human nature and ability, most of us can do it with out formal training or education. But when heard about an acceident that killed most of the members in a family I wonder how the remaining members could survive and adjust to the situation and about the agony they are going through. I don't like to survive in such a condition.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: lighthouse

Thanks G. See a lot of loneliness in older people living desolate lives, practically everythign they lived for in younger days has been reduced or dissapeared, health, social life, meetings with children reduced to maybe once or twice a year.

I agree with you, but here it is physical loneliness not spiritual loneliness.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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@ nita: sorry to hear about your dad. i am very attached to mine and it's hard for me to even imagine how you cope with such a loss.

with you on cases where most of the family members perish. can't even imagine how the survivors cope up with such losses.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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@ Gauri: Thank you for your concerns

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