Interferin in others personal lives, good? - Page 2

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

I will take it as interference or intrusion as indulgence does not fit in context for me.

Whether to interfere or not in someone's life completely depends on my level of proximity with them.

If it is someone I know very wel, close friend, and someone who will not feel offended with my intrusion then I will jump right in. I want to help out and thats the best way I can show I care.

However, I have some close friends who really prefer to be left alone and have strong sense of privacy and personal space. Sometimes I cross the line but I try my best to respect their privacy because that is most important for them. I simply acknowledge that I am available should they need my help.

For other not so close friends I play it by the ear and try to gauge what they want. Sometimes they are receptive to helping. Sometimes you have to respect privacy.

Wanting to help and intruding can be done with noble intentions, but for some people you can cause more damage so it is a matter of doing the right thing in the right situation.

Well written post and for the bold part - RTH (Wildest guess - Sister of Venus, Katrina style - Satrina) 👏👏

Originally posted by: lighthouse

I was able to follow you qwerts except at the bold part above. 😊 I need to indulge in interpreter services to intervene your messege there rather then have my Bheja inter fried ... 😆

Interference of Qwertz/LH by indulging in humorous intervention on this post is 🤣🤣.

Finally yes, I made up my mind😕😆 - the title regarding Interference and only Interference....

Originally posted by: imdudehead

Some people may say we should if they really need it, for example if they are smoking we should help them get over it...but you should only intefere, if they ask for help or anything if the person is satisfied by smoking, then we shouldnt continously tell them its bad for you, they do realise it, if they have the want to stop then you should help them, they know that smoking is bad, tehy are addicted! maybe not smoking but a issue that does not affect anyone yet people do not like it "Gay Marriges" it doesnt affect anyone except the people who do it so why should people who arent intervene in it. Smoking may even affect you, with second hand but "Gay Marriges" Do not. What I mean to say is you should interfere if it affects you, or if help is asked. You may think it is selfish, but i am sure you hate forced help. When your doing a project you have everything planned and someone tells you to do something else because what your doing is WRONG, that is annoying. But if you neeed help and ask someone and they help you, you appreciate it and thank them. If you dont like forced help, you shouldnt give it. 😛

If we smoke its effect others also😳.......So these situation nothing wrong to Intefere or we can tell that person about our difficulties...About Gay marriage,If anyone close to us they doing like this things, Its natrual We try to advice some practical difficulties n other things....that time they may feel A type of inteferes n their personal life...but do it in cool way..😊

In india I feel some bad points n public is when we going out somewere...neighbours n other people ask "Where u going","When u return","Why?? what??when??,where?? Ye kon hey, wo kon hey??" etc etc....lot of questions...😳

Originally posted by: raj5000

In day to day lives we encounter wrong doing in families who are close / related . Should we interfere/intervine and provide our suggestions? or just leave troubled families alone?

Who is third party to indulge positive/negative way in others pesonal business? even if that means betterment.

Your take?

I had an experince in it so

its really painful when from no where

third person enters n participate

such people r nothin but losers

they need to get life

i mean from no where how can

u particpate in issue which not even involve you

Some people although

love takin part in other people personal life

which is so weird.I mean its like kids game for them

at the end of day one should not hurt others emotionally

cause emotional wounds r tough to heal

as compare to physical

although my faimly never faced

such situation but i have heard from

friends bout it where people from

no where interfere in others faimly decsion

which is tottaly inappropriate .people should

get a life .But few are r born like that ...

As long as it is someone else's life, it is fine. 😈

Originally posted by: Maya_M

As long as it is someone else's life, it is fine. 😈

😲 do what you expect first from others then to raise one's opinion ... was this phrase from past. And you are not a devil lolsss just encouraging more POV's on this very common problem.right?