Interferin in others personal lives, good?

In day to day lives we encounter wrong doing in families who are close / related . Should we interfere/intervine and provide our suggestions? or just leave troubled families alone?

Who is third party to indulge positive/negative way in others pesonal business? even if that means betterment.

Your take?

Intereference is a negative word. One must always stand right by and make oneself available the minute needy person shows inclination to using some help.. If and when the needy person is shy / proud, you can make it clear to them that you are at a hello and would love to help out / feel that its ur duty as a human, but.. just not interfering to respect him /her. they usually love that!

However, one must never interfere.
Not interfering doesn't mean not caring. It just means respecting privacy.
jmo.

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Intereference is a negative word. One must always stand right by and make oneself available the minute needy person shows inclination to using some help.. If and when the needy person is shy / proud, you can make it clear to them that you are at a hello and would love to help out / feel that its ur duty as a human, but.. just not interfering to respect him /her. they usually love that!

However, one must never interfere.
Not interfering doesn't mean not caring. It just means respecting privacy.
jmo.

Point taken at bold Changing the title, other thought tomorrow, this viral is killing me 😳 GN

Indulging is something else... you should replace it with interfering..which is strong or intervening.... which is more or less neutral.... 😊

I will take it as interference or intrusion as indulgence does not fit in context for me.

Whether to interfere or not in someone's life completely depends on my level of proximity with them.

If it is someone I know very wel, close friend, and someone who will not feel offended with my intrusion then I will jump right in. I want to help out and thats the best way I can show I care.

However, I have some close friends who really prefer to be left alone and have strong sense of privacy and personal space. Sometimes I cross the line but I try my best to respect their privacy because that is most important for them. I simply acknowledge that I am available should they need my help.

For other not so close friends I play it by the ear and try to gauge what they want. Sometimes they are receptive to helping. Sometimes you have to respect privacy.

Wanting to help and intruding can be done with noble intentions, but for some people you can cause more damage so it is a matter of doing the right thing in the right situation.

I think lot of things indulge a persons life sometime its from Parents,friends,collegues,children etc, its all depend of situation but the importent I feel, we should handle the things n good way,better dont give much opportunities to indulge 😳😊

Originally posted by: raj5000

Point taken at bold Changing the title, other thought tomorrow, this viral is killing me 😳 GN

ohno, u got me wrong. what i meant is INTERFERENCE is bad and have a negative meaning.. hence one should not interfere.
i did not have a problem with the title of the post! in fact, the word "interference" made sense completely in debate topic! 😃 ofcourse u know the best as to what u would like to discuss 😳 in your topic..
Take care of yourself.. flu is in!

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

ohno, u got me wrong. what i meant is INTERFERENCE is bad and have a negative meaning.. hence one should not interfere.
i did not have a problem with the title of the post! in fact, the word "interference" made sense completely in debate topic! 😃 ofcourse u know the best as to what u would like to discuss 😳 in your topic..
Take care of yourself.. flu is in!

Raj here are some examples...

I dont interfere with peoples personal life while on IF.I dont indulge in interfering with peoples personal life in IF. If interfering is not intervening then I dont indulge in peoples personal life in IF...But if indulging is interfering then I would rather intervene and if intervening is interfering then I wouldn't indulge..

Now tell me 😆😆😆

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

Raj here are some examples...

I dont interfere with peoples personal life while on IF.I dont indulge in interfering with peoples personal life in IF. If interfering is not intervening then I dont indulge in peoples personal life in IF...But if indulging is interfering then I would rather intervene and if intervening is interfering then I wouldn't indulge..

Now tell me 😆😆😆

I was able to follow you qwerts except at the bold part above. 😊 I need to indulge in interpreter services to intervene your messege there rather then have my Bheja inter fried ... 😆

I think interference is right to a certain limit. Actually you know it's not really interference until after it's crossed that limit and some people actually do not like other people coming to them and asking them questions or things of such about their life whether it's personal or professional which is why they use the word "interference" according to me. 😊