Interferin in others personal lives, good? - Page 3

Originally posted by: raj5000

Just want to add...

Apart from interfering, forming an opinion on someone else's relationship good/bad/happy, right?

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

Can't be judging something that Mother Nature bestowed in abundance on us desis😛 Isn't bin-maangi salah and/or butting in part of our desi genetic make-up😉😆

Narayan Narayan Narayan ... 😉😆😆

And what about the scenario where one's job is such that they can't do anything w/o interfering --- like family counsellers, psychiatrics etc.

That what they are supposed to do, perfect career option for desi's, speciall when mother nature is already meharbann😉😆

^^ j/ks..

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

...deleted my initial response.

This seems like a bait....in my opinion😛😉

Please see the same pic you posted on SDM thread as I can't reproduce it here due to copy rights violation😆

Originally posted by: raj5000

Narayan Murti Narayan Murti Narayan Murti ... 😉😆😆

😆read somewhere people want him to take charge of Satyam and turn it around.

That what they are supposed to do, perfect career option for desi's, speciall when mother nature is already meharbann😉😆

😆 and we have so many desis averse to admitting they need some help or got some at some point in their life. I told ya - we are highly opinionated judgmental bunch of people!

^^ j/ks..

Originally posted by: raj5000

Just want to add...

Apart from interfering, forming an opinion on someone else's relationship good/bad/happy, right?

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

Neither. I say everybody should love opinions to the hilt. Love them so much that they keep on forming new ones every single day so that hamarey DM ki dukaan chaltee rahey😆

*Thumping the table and LOL *

Seriously, don't we all have our own "view" or "take" on any given thing? If "views" are welcome then why do people associate negativity with "opinions". Try calling someone opinionated and chances are you may end up hurting them bigtime as the term is considered to be insultig. That said, have you ever noticed how politically correct thoughts are "views" but politically incorrect thoughts are "opinions"!

Kya sahi hera pheri of words hai Baap!! Abhi idhar View du, Yaa Opinion, yaa thoughts... kuch samjh nahi aa raha😆😆😆 Opinions Vs Views hojayee... nahiiiiiii... am jsut kiddin. I understand and seriously something to re-read and think about. 😊

I mean how do I answer this question, Raj? There is no right or wrong way to answer it. How about you let us know what your views are here so that I can take the diametrically opposite view😉😛

It is actually NOT wrong (mind u I didn't say, its right😉😆😆), it depends, by nature you tend to form an opinion, without necessarily being aware of the facts or knowing both sides of the story. Not let those opinions drive your views or actions, if at all called for, at the same time do not let one's personal opinions on anyone's relationship be shared by folks who cann't rationally form thier own or are folks who take one's opinion as patter ki lakeer...

Back to you boss --- ball is in your court now😉

Arrey bhai, mey sacchi abhi break ley raha huuu😆😆 need to do something productive like...shredding some views/opinions that can get me into trouble here and chant harii Omm 101 times😆😆

Originally posted by: raj5000

In day to day lives we encounter wrong doing in families who are close / related . Should we interfere/intervine and provide our suggestions? or just leave troubled families alone?

Who is third party to indulge positive/negative way in others pesonal business? even if that means betterment.

Your take?