Badey Miyaan YA Chhotey Miyaan? - Page 2

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Great Topic sonia! Bingo.. Intelligence has so many components! I do believe that the younger siblings appear to be smarter in certain aspects since early ages, such as self-defense, grabbing attention and similar. This is because they are competeting right from their birth. Studies indicate them to also be more driven , since they have someone to look up to / compete with. Another thing for sure - PARENTS of second kid are SMARTER than that of first kid 😆.. They take very few pictures of the second one though, no matter how cute it may be 😭😭😭..

nice question dewey, thats the same concern i had, and i totally agree with you qt, on younger siblings being smarter and they strive to do best becoz they have someone to look upto, agree on all other aspects too 😆 i think people get very excited with the first kid, take all the pictures possible in the world while eating, sleeping, crying, baby tub, dont care if the baby is in the worst pose or crying the lungs out, by the time they have second kid, they lose all the energy and enthusiasm 😆 😆 😆 so they spare them from all those embarrassment 😆 😆 😆

Hmm, I am the oldest of the 3 kids, yet the baby of the family. Exceptions, anybody? 😉 😆 😆

Originally posted by: reeps

Hmm, I am the oldest of the 3 kids, yet the baby of the family. Exceptions, anybody? 😉 😆 😆

😲 i thought you are the youngest one with your sis in india being the oldest 😆 😆 😆

i tend to disagree with the fact that younger siblings are smarter. i think that the younger ones are much more immature and irresponsible simply b/c the elder sibling is there to take care of everything.

the elder sibling has to face many challenges from day one. everything from the type of clothes to wear to their curfew at night.

elder siblings are basically left to figure things out on their own since they have no one to help them..........this was the case in my situation anyways.

when i was born my parents had only been in canada for a few years. they were not aware of anything and they learnt with me as i grew up.

so the younger ones have it much easier....they don't necessarily need to figure anything out on their own as the elder one has already been there and done that.

my bro is 25 right now and doesn't know how to do ANYTHING around the house.........why.........b/c he was never given the responsibility........i was always there.

Originally posted by: raunaq

😲 i thought you are the youngest one with your sis in india being the oldest 😆 😆 😆

where are you getting this from?😕 There was nobody in India; me so glad to land back here.😳 The other day my youngest sis. asked me what it feels like to have a younger sister, and I was like you should know better. She ssays, yeah, you are the baby.😳😆😆 .. I don't know if that is a good or bad thing.... feel like I am living in my own little world, unaware of the "realities of life".😕

Originally posted by: sonp

I want to be the middle miyaa. 😳 😳 no problems either way and conspicious. Can get away with everything while the parents focus on the older and younger one 😆

the best and funniest comment of the day 😆

Originally posted by: sonp

I want to be the middle miyaa. 😳 😳 no problems either way and conspicious. Can get away with everything while the parents focus on the older and younger one 😆

No dear being a middle child is a curse. You are not considered older or younger. Kind of grow up on your own 😔 Although you get dumped with it all. No spoiling, no attention and lots of responsibility. So reaaly think hard b4 you ask for something 😳.

I say rather be an only child 😃

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

No dear being a middle child is a curse. You are not considered older or younger. Kind of grow up on your own 😔 Although you get dumped with it all. No spoiling, no attention and lots of responsibility. So reaaly think hard b4 you ask for something 😳.
I say rather be an only child 😃

i am amazed that no middle child I know of, got best of both the worlds..being younger & then also getting an ooportunity to be older. 😊 DB, my dad would agree with you 100%.

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

No dear being a middle child is a curse. You are not considered older or younger. Kind of grow up on your own 😔 Although you get dumped with it all. No spoiling, no attention and lots of responsibility. So reaaly think hard b4 you ask for something 😳.

I say rather be an only child 😃

Only child is a lonely child 😔
One of the angles would be..that the kid would be spoilt bad BAD...given everything in life(Im sure they would love that!) buh at times, its not fun at all..cus all the cons of being an elder child & a younger child go in together in this one for some reason 😕
I like Middle option. Sounds nice.

Originally posted by: tisha_g

Only child is not a lonely child unless a shy person. You have friends, cousins and parents become your good friends too.And the spoiling part is not true either.Ask me or my kiddo.😆

I believe you have friends, cousins and parents as your friends even if you are not the only child. Me being the only child now, I think they dont measure up to having another sibling in the family. The feeling is different for me atleast, after having had an elder brother.

Showering the kid with a lot of love cus you dont have any other kid is very human n natural.. buh I know cases where it has been overdone cus the folks didnt know where to stop! Its a difficult call. They tend to give it too much attention all the time cus there is no one else to demand it as well, sometimes the kids become attention seekers. I've also seen them having difficulty in 'sharing' things in life.

Or maybe I think the ones I've met are all bad examples cus they are brats! 😛