Proposal Time, LOL - Page 2

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

Believe it. its true...😆

Yes.. However broad-minded the man, he will find sometime somewhere the girl is flaunting this extra acheivement and unwillingly trying to show him down including implicit unintended condescensions....😆.. The last time I heard..It is still a man's world...

Agree with you qwerty ji!😊

I don't prefer the idea of female partners being more educated,more intelligent,more dominating than male partner! The houses where the ladies boss the house donot potray a healthy environment! I don't mean the ladies should be un padh, nadan but the husband or partner should be more educated,more intelligent than the wife! So the basic critieria for falling in LOVE is HIGHER INTELLIGENCE and HIGHER EDUCATION😃!

In realistic world saccha pyaar,saccha dil will not work! These are my personal views!

Cheers,

Mythili

Originally posted by: mythili_Kiran

Agree with you qwerty ji!😊

I don't prefer the idea of female partners being more educated,more intelligent,more dominating than male partner! The houses where the ladies boss the house donot potray a healthy environment! I don't mean the ladies should be un padh, nadan but the husband or partner should be more educated,more intelligent than the wife! So the basic critieria for falling in LOVE is HIGHER INTELLIGENCE and HIGHER EDUCATION😃!

In realistic world saccha pyaar,saccha dil will not work! These are my personal views!

Cheers,

Mythili

someone might be more intelligent at work. doesn't make them boss.😉 there are other personality attributes too. in a sense similar principles apply on the domestic front.

Originally posted by: reeps

Does it matter if a girl is more educated than a boy? for marriage? the quality of relationship after marriage? Is it a reason for objection?😳

It does not matter if a girl is more educated then a boy but it does matter if he is not able to earn more then minimum wage. I have seen uneducated guys making much much more then educated ones working in good financial jobs. Higher education is just one aspect of a person and does not always garauntee financial success.

At the end of the day , a girl wants her man to be financialy independent and be able to support the family should she decided not to work. If a man can do that , no man or woman will feel insecure in a marriage.. Traditionaly a man's role is to provide and woman's to be pampered..😉

Originally posted by: chatbuster

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Now which guy will actually gripe about that? ok, maybe he would since he is so dumb. oh i dont know. u got me all confused now😆

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

Believe it. its true...😆

Yes.. However broad-minded the man, he will find sometime somewhere the girl is flaunting this extra acheivement and unwillingly trying to show him down including implicit unintended condescensions....😆.. The last time I heard..It is still a man's world...

Oh that happens even when the girl is less educated then the husband...😆

Fwiw, I admire the way Jaya Bhaduri, Hema malini and Sridevi married the guys who at the time were lesser in their respective fields but nevertheless carry on with grace and dignity.

Originally posted by: lighthouse

Oh that happens even when the girl is less educated then the husband...😆

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

unless there's a reason why, i wonder why she'd take it. repeated over and over, this is emotional abuse.

QT, I meant sometimes we do see a lesser educated girl put her much educated husband down.. 😕 So it may not be the education but the girl who is at fault.

Originally posted by: chatbuster

lol. only one guy so far who thinks a smarter woman would be a problem whereas most of the women think like that.

Just shows that women understand men more than men themselves 😆

now if the woman herself will have such a snobbish attitude, what's the poor guy to do? 😉 😆

Where does snobbish come in at all😊 If a MAN believes that education would make the woman superior to him, where does the womans snobbish attitude come in..... or is this just another of those things which can conveniently be foisted on the shoulders of a woman 😉

i think if the girl's smarter and she's still interested in the guy, then that means he's got something she doesn't. like maybe he might have a great personality or sense of humor. might even be the life of the party with his one-liners and his roving charming eye. in that case, he's bringing something else to the table and then it can work out.

Every relationship is about taking the best of each partner and making a viable/ working relationship..... the best of both worlds so to speak. If the guy is great, then education or no education would not stand in his way.... If the guy is great, then he would recognise that a defeciency (in a very oblique way only) of education in him can easily be rectified by balancing it with the education of his partner.... to make a "couple" in every sense of the term... one balancing out the other..

btw, doesn't have to be just table. could be other things as well. eg. bed. 😉
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Originally posted by: lighthouse

QT, I meant sometimes we do see a lesser educated girl put her much educated husband down.. 😕 So it may not be the education but the girl who is at fault.

Originally posted by: s.priya

Agree... Ultimately, every relationship is unique, so a generalisation may not necessarily work... particularly in todays day and age when chauvinism is slowly fading

😆 Priya, yahan DM per aa ker toh nahin lagta ki chauvinism is slowly fading😆😆