Wait for the right time to express love

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Posted: 18 years ago
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It is said that there is always the right place, situation and time for eerything. Before expressing feeling of love towards person whom you love wait for the right moment.

risks

1. Someone else expresses such feeling first and potential lover is taken.

2. Promoted to MaMa hood (uncle) by the time right moment came.😆

Secondly it is said if you love someone go for it, don't wait

risks

1. Jhutey (sandal/shoes)😆😆

2. Lost relationship.

Debate:

Should love towards propective boy/gurl be expressed asap or should a person wait for right time / moment?

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Edited by raj5000 - 18 years ago

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Posted: 18 years ago
#2

Originally posted by: raj5000


It is said that there is always the right place, situation and time for eerything. Before expressing feeling of love towards person whom you love wait for the right moment.


risks


1. Someone else expresses such feeling first and potential lover is taken.


2. Promoted to MaMa hood (uncle) by the time right moment came.😆


Secondly it is said if you love someone go for it, don't wait


risks


1. Jhutey (sandal/shoes)😆😆


2. Lost relationship.


Debate:


Should love towards propective boy/gurl be expressed asap or should a person wait for right time / moment?


disclaimer - topic is no where close to poster personally. Its a easy going topic for most to relate. If discussed let the poster know for requesting closure of this topic. Thanks!



😆 Did we ask or say that??? 😛 😉

Nice and a very very interesting topic..

Yes, if someone is confident about his/her love, then in my view it should be expressed right away..Otherwise the risks that you have mentioned are too overweighing 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: raksha.l



😆 Did we ask or say that??? 😛 😉

Nice and a very very interesting topic..

Yes, if someone is confident about his/her love, then in my view it should be expressed right away..Otherwise the risks that you have mentioned are too overweighing 😆

"😆 Did we ask or say that??? 😛 😉 "

Before someone says go for it, jutey toh jutey hi sahi 😆😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Nice one Anshu 😛

Once you are sure about your feeling there is never right time but now. Make sure you are prepared for and have thought it thru before taking that giant step. No going back. Just go for it. Even if you get rejected atleast you can say you tried it. Worse case scenerio all they can say is no but there is 50% chance of hearing Yes too 😃

There are no guarantees in life bro. Love is also a risk which one must take IMHO 😳 😃

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I have no clue 😆 😆 😆
Love is the most natural feeling of comfort.. I wish it were something we never had to ask for.

somethng like -

"Sirf ehsaas hai ye ROOH se mehsoos karo 😳 😳" , which takes this debate far from reality into mermaid_land! 😆 😆 ..

or something like the Amitabh Rekha scene right before Amitabh's Neela assmaan so gaya song 😛.. Silsila - not far from dream-land again 😆😆

If not, I wish we were all born with the soulmate's name and address written over our belly.. Then time and moment and all that tension-creating, confusion-creating, insecurity-creating, wrong decision-making would have been dumped from our lives.. 😆 😆
Don't ask me where I gather these thoughts. Should we blame it on the wine? 😉
Edited by mermaid_QT - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

I have no clue 😆 😆 😆
Love is the most natural feeling of comfort.. I wish it were something we never had to ask for.

somethng like -

"Sirf ehsaas hai ye ROOH se mehsoos karo 😳 😳" , which takes this debate far from reality into mermaid_land! 😆 😆 ..

or something like the Amitabh Rekha scene right before Amitabh's Neela assmaan so gaya song 😛.. Silsila - not far from dream-land again 😆😆

If not, I wish we were all born with the soulmate's name and address written over our belly.. Then time and moment and all that tension-creating, confusion-creating, insecurity-creating, wrong decision-making would have been dumped from our lives.. 😆 😆
Don't ask me where I gather these thoughts. Should we blame it on the wine? 😉

and in my case should I blame it on Beer 😉 😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
#7
😲 QT,DB- Aaj ke ladki I tell you... 😉 @Wine and Beer...
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Posted: 18 years ago
#8

Originally posted by: raksha.l

😲 QT,DB- Aaj ke ladki I tell you... 😉 @Wine and Beer...



yepp, when i felt safe posting certain personal info in IF land, my slambook said -
your favorite drinks - ALL ALCOHOLIC 😆😆😆..


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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mermaid_QT



yepp, when i felt safe posting certain personal info in IF land, my slambook said -
your favorite drinks - ALL ALCOHOLIC 😆😆😆..


While u are at checking slambooks pls go ahead and check mine too 😳 😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
#10

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

While u are at checking slambooks pls go ahead and check mine too 😳 😆

Checked it but no 'beer'.😕

I'd like to ask something, why is it always expected that the guy should come forward and get the girl or the jutha or slap or whatever, why can't we play the hard to get role for a change😕. Atleast, guys are a lot less likely to slap a girl and the time they'll take to take off their shoe will be enough to warn the girl of his intentions and give her a headstart.

Edited by souro - 18 years ago

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