When love ends?? - Page 8

Originally posted by: kubaku

If u love sum1 wid all ur heart, it can never end. Everything reminds you of them, every little thing. Even when you are apart, you may want to forget them but you know you'll never b able to. You gave ur heart out to that person. When you love someone truly, nothing comez before their happiness and you would not be able to take it if they are in pain. even when you r apart, if the person u love is hurt or sumthin, i bet u wud run 2 them without thinking for a second. Jab sacha pyaar karte hai den their pasaanz n dislikez becumz urz, u do everythin 2 make them happy, n u luv everythin bout dem. This is true love, u can understand them, feel der pain, happiness.

den how is it possible dat when u r apart, ur love will end? it cant, lovin sum1 this much, no matter what happens, love cud not end.

i wud kno cuz i loved n still do sum1 alottt n now we dun talk buhh dat dosnt mean k ma love for him is gone, sach tho yeh hai k i still luv him more n more each day.

aww so sweet...i hope u make up with him soon ...sweetheart...😳

Originally posted by: ani11

Originally posted by: ani11

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

If you want to debate... Existence of divorce itself brings in mistrust and separation procedures.... Talking about true love is pointless.... Sure you would miss something but you cant get it anyways.....

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

LM are based on premise of just love.... AM are not based on love but just culture conformance and the love goes on building... In case of LM it started with high-flown ideas of love so the only way it can proceed is go south...or stay put...

The bad mouthing in AM is still ok since it never claimed to have based on love but just simple human nature..So it still remains valid there...

Originally posted by: Modesty

Thanks Anita. I missed you too.

Well I knew you would not be impressed with the examples of filmstars. But they too are human beings like us and not aliens.

However I also agree with what you think about them.

I guess infidelity could be a reason strong enough for someone to fall out of love. So my answer is yes it is possible. Love taking a back seat to anger and hate? I can't say.

Actually this is why I gave you e.g. of Tom-Nicole which negates how I perceive things w/o experience. I find it hard to dismiss Nicole's love for Tom which was unconditional.

No Manju i am very impressed with ur example of the movie stars...its just that me being a lesser mortal than them can't relate to them..😆😆....i don't know if they really marry for love..or its for something else...but that is not the point of discussion right..😆..i appreciate ur views..😃

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

I said it was debatable ....didn't say I want to debate😆..
existence of divorce keeps one option open ......but the question is .. for many cultures divorce is a pretty recent legal option for separation .. even before its existance there was no surety of better relationship.......
I think nobody would like to idealized a social setup where despite having spouse at home people liked to go out and it was considered a symbol of manhood ....would keep a wife for life time but at the same times thinking "if parents like ot keep this *crap * they can happily keep it ... for me I have other options😊 " . Even look into western culture( and I amnot talking about american culture ) just two hundered years back ..when divorce was not an option ....... to me social setup was much grim.......
I think these days .. yes it is true divorce rate is higher but you find less infidelities among those who are already in a relationship



So you believe in every case of AM love develops ... and it is not mere affection 😊..
It seems here we are again going into LM vs AM stuff

There is someting to be said about the power of saat pheras or mangalsutra or whatever you believe in but when 2 strangers are bonded this way , the only natural option is to love and let love blossom... it may be another story if after few years , one of them becomes frustrated or dissatisfied with the other because of abuse or neglect but love surely happens in AM to answer your question.

Originally posted by: lighthouse

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There is someting to be said about the power of saat pheras or mangalsutra or whatever you believe in but when 2 strangers are bonded this way , the only natural option is to love and let love blossom... it may be another story if after few years , one of them becomes frustrated or dissatisfied with the other because of abuse or neglect but love surely happens in AM to answer your question.

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

I totally agree with the fact that chances of success in our social setup is still AM ..besides other factors .. less expectations play a significant role..

par hoa ye kay baat kahan say chali or kahan aa punchi ..😊
we were talking about true love 😊.. I am still trying to figure out what does it means ..if it doesn't come under affection , companion ship over the period of time or sense of duty either in cases of LM or AM.. .... I percieved from Qwerts quote that true love can only exists in AM setup .

Hard to say....It depends on person and circumstances they are in... I am not much of a movie person but Dabs have you seen the movie Bridges of Madison county with Meryl streep and Clint Eastwood.. Clint comes into her mundane married life with kids and they have a torrid soul satisfying affair for 2 days and she chooses to stay with her husband...I kept going back and forth whom she loved truly- her husband or Clint whom she never forgot..and I have to say it was Clint she loved and husband she had obligation and affection by association hence she stayed back...

Gosh it must be your cool Avi that makes me talk abt movies..😆

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

I said it was debatable ....didn't say I want to debate😆.. thats not what i meant I said its debatable if you want it to be...😆
existence of divorce keeps one option open .....the existence of option makes this whole love a business of compromize...but the question is .. for many cultures divorce is a pretty recent legal option for separation .. even before its existance there was no surety of better relationship.......whats better relationship.. we dream too much on small things...
I think nobody would like to idealized a social setup where despite having spouse at home people liked to go out and it was considered a symbol of manhood ..if we have give up on sex as nominal why do we care now and they didnt care then...😆..would keep a wife for life time but at the same times thinking "if parents like ot keep this *crap * they can happily keep it ... for me I have other options😊 " . Even look into western culture( and I amnot talking about american culture ) just two hundered years back ..when divorce was not an option ....... to me social setup was much grim.......
I think these days .. yes it is true divorce rate is higher but you find less infidelities among those who are already in a relationship.Options are like pistols you telling me I can have one but cant pull the trigger... well I will do that even if out of curiosity...😆



So you believe in every case of AM love develops ... and it is not mere affection 😊..... no even thats not the RnJ I am talking about... neither does LM have that kind of love... is all i am trying to say... Both are playing a gamble former on the culture and latter on the personal judgement and its likely that unless we are careful... personal judgement can be fallacious more often... The only resort to LM is divorce since there was no one involved in first place...
It seems here we are again going into LM vs AM stuff

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

I totally agree with the fact that chances of success in our social setup is still AM ..besides other factors .. less expectations play a significant role..

par hoa ye kay baat kahan say chali or kahan aa punchi ..😊
we were talking about true love 😊.. I am still trying to figure out what does it means ..if it doesn't come under affection , companion ship over the period of time or sense of duty either in cases of LM or AM.. .... I percieved from Qwerts quote that true love can only exists in AM setup .

True love can exist in both kinds of marriage but most often doesnt exist in either... All I am saying in AM the only way for love to grow is up north or stay put, the latter is unlikely for the same reason as we like our family.... .In LM the only way for love to grow is south or just stay put....😊.. LM comes with too much of idealism...