When love ends?? - Page 7

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

There is another ironic part here... When divorces become easier, endless love becomes mythical...yet people dont want to look at their life devoid of this fancy called "Love"... so it moves over to the personal department - I said personal not personnel.. And still many believe having the same husband for 7 births is a nightmare.........the question is a lifetime becomes too long with one lover yet the life looks so short.....there is a lot of confusion


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Can you please translate the same into English for me???

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

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I couldn't explain when a man decided to stay single after the death of his loving wife despite his own children wanted him to get marriedthats indecision coupled with inertia and self-abnegation .

knowing him personally I wouldn't agree with you . but yes possibility is there in some other similar cases.

I couldn't explain a life of young couple I observed over the period of ten years..they had certain unexplainable thing between them (wife had disability and man was perfectly alright)... People tend to get affectionate when they live together for some period of time... Some people look at this togetherness more from the sense of duty and dont mind that...😊

Yes I could accept this reason in a situation where after some times wife had have developed some disability .... case was different ..guy chose a disabled gal against the wishes of his family .... even if for a while I consider it an act of sympathy .. then my mind can't accept the sustained loving behaviour I noticed between two ... now they have two cute sons and now family is happy too😊 ...
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Originally posted by: qwertyesque

Love is hard to find and since its in the eyes of the beholder sometimes might appear as illusion...The thing is love has to transcend beyond dependency, duty, inertia and selfishness, suspicion to be true love. True love is unconditional devotionand trust. There are many cases of love marriages where the couple vouched for true love for each other but after the divorce they end up bad mouthing each other? Wheres the love gone... was it there? Thats why I call LM is like a deal which is driven through alleys of compromize and walking around land-mines..the difference being it was more the individual judgement..

Well said (colored lines) 👏👏👏.

However... I couldn't get your idea about LM .. if you said love is already rare .. then it would be equally rare happening in AM too ......😊
you can see comparable amount of bad mouthing after divorce in AM cases as well

Originally posted by: chatbuster

beautiful poem Ani.

i feel that deep-rooted love never dies out completely, whether the parting was through death or a drifting away of two people. somewhere it'll always be a part of us, of who we are and who we become. over time, the pain might not be with us every waking hour but like the strains of the night before, the ache remains. we might learn to live with it. we might not realize it's there. the pangs might not even be as sharp and frequent, but the hurt remains...

You got full marks from gals 😛

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

There is another ironic part here... When divorces become easier, endless love becomes mythical...yet people dont want to look at their life devoid of this fancy called "Love"... so it moves over to the personal department - I said personal not personnel.. And still many believe having the same husband for 7 births is a nightmare.........the question is a lifetime becomes too long with one lover yet the life looks so short.....there is a lot of confusion

Well this is debatable ..... do you think buy keeping someone into a relation by force can infact create an everlasting love? ????
don't you think despite having ample options a person choose to stay with you is truely in love with you compare to the one who is staying just because there is no other option available.😊

Originally posted by: ani11

according to me love is very real and not an illusion but in todays fast paced life it does kind of illusion.......people jump into intimate relationship without even realising whether what they feel for the person is love or lust......

Thanks Anita for your answers ..😊

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Dew Drop, that blew me away .. Very well-said & exemplified in the descriptions.
How can love die? You may fall out of it and choose not to fall back in, but you will never forget the touch, the smell, the sound, the vision, the pining, the moments when the world came crumbling down and there was no one beside the two. You will take the memory with you wherever you go.
(I am leaving abusive (mental & / or physical) relationship out of this to sound realistic)

Thanks Cutes..
and very well said ... though I am still confused about this emotion .. but truly like to believe on it 😊

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

Well this is debatable ..... do you think buy keeping someone into a relation by force can infact create an everlasting love? ????
don't you think despite having ample options a person choose to stay with you is truely in love with you compare to the one who is staying just because there is no other option available.😊

If you want to debate... Existence of divorce itself brings in mistrust and separation procedures.... Talking about true love is pointless.... Sure you would miss something but you cant get it anyways.....

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

Well said (colored lines) 👏👏👏.

However... I couldn't get your idea about LM .. if you said love is already rare .. then it would be equally rare happening in AM too ......😊
you can see comparable amount of bad mouthing after divorce in AM cases as well

LM are based on premise of just love.... AM are not based on love but just culture conformance and the love goes on building... In case of LM it started with high-flown ideas of love so the only way it can proceed is go south...or stay put...😊

The bad mouthing in AM is still ok since it never claimed to have based on love but just simple human nature..So it still remains valid there...😊

Originally posted by: raksha.l

Can you please translate the same into English for me???

then you will call it an Essay....kya?😉

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

then you will call it an Essay....kya?😉

No seriously..I did not understand what you were trying to convey😃

If u love sum1 wid all ur heart, it can never end. Everything reminds you of them, every little thing. Even when you are apart, you may want to forget them but you know you'll never b able to. You gave ur heart out to that person. When you love someone truly, nothing comez before their happiness and you would not be able to take it if they are in pain. even when you r apart, if the person u love is hurt or sumthin, i bet u wud run 2 them without thinking for a second. Jab sacha pyaar karte hai den their pasaanz n dislikez becumz urz, u do everythin 2 make them happy, n u luv everythin bout dem. This is true love, u can understand them, feel der pain, happiness.

den how is it possible dat when u r apart, ur love will end? it cant, lovin sum1 this much, no matter what happens, love cud not end.

i wud kno cuz i loved n still do sum1 alottt n now we dun talk buhh dat dosnt mean k ma love for him is gone, sach tho yeh hai k i still luv him more n more each day.