When love ends?? - Page 6

Originally posted by: ani11

Does'nt the law also say that the matter can never be destroyed and it will exist in some form whether we are able to see it or not...

Yeah it says that too, so if we consider love to be an energy then we can convert it to other forms of energy and even mass but at the end of it if we don't convert some other energy back into love we'd have lost it all. Now let's see, love converts itself into positve energy in the lovers, produces instant heat and even may lead to combustion, occassional hate and quarrel energy, might even convert its enegy into mass and produce a baby. We all know that, E = mc² , i.e., a huge amount of love energy can produce a small baby. That's why the amount of love between the spouses reduce drastically after a baby is born. After sufficient time, which depends upon the amount of love energy the couple started with, it will be totally depleted and if the couple had not taken care of replenishing their love energy by converting it back from other mass and energy they will fall out of love. So, a small diamond can produce huge amount of love energy (again E = mc² ), hugging and warmth can be converted to love energy, and of course there is spending power (energy) and money (mass) which can ensure a never ending source of love energy.

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

have a question .... even had this in my mind before the fall impact 😆

I can co-relate your explanation with most of real life people . who are compromising with each other with out true satisfaction ..
however at the same time find some of them who live realy for each other. I couldn't explain the death of wife just after 10days of her husbands death (both died naturally) 😭👏 I couldn't explain when a man decided to stay single after the death of his loving wife despite his own children wanted him to get married . 👏👏 I couldn't explain a life of young couple I observed over the period of ten years..they had certain unexplainable thing between them (wife had disability and man was perfectly alright)👏👏...

So the question is ...... is love nothing but illusion ? or it does exist but hard to find ... not every one can complete his\her partner the way it is required by his\her pre programmed self .

Dew Drop, that blew me away .. Very well-said & exemplified in the descriptions.
How can love die? You may fall out of it and choose not to fall back in, but you will never forget the touch, the smell, the sound, the vision, the pining, the moments when the world came crumbling down and there was no one beside the two. You will take the memory with you wherever you go.
(I am leaving abusive (mental & / or physical) relationship out of this to sound realistic)

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Dew Drop, that blew me away .. Very well-said & exemplified in the descriptions.
How can love die? You may fall out of it and choose not to fall back in, but you will never forget the touch, the smell, the sound, the vision, the pining, the moments when the world came crumbling down and there was no one beside the two. You will take the memory with you wherever you go.
(I am leaving abusive (mental & / or physical) relationship out of this to sound realistic)

@ Dewey and QT very well said and so true 👏

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

Good questions Ani .. infact this subject is still very confusing to me so can't write anything over it ...😊




have a question .... even had this in my mind before the fall impact 😆

I can co-relate your explanation with most of real life people . who are compromising with each other with out true satisfaction .. however at the same time find some of them who live realy for each other. I couldn't explain the death of wife just after 10days of her husbands death (both died naturally)yup this is intense love... I couldn't explain when a man decided to stay single after the death of his loving wife despite his own children wanted him to get marriedthats indecision coupled with inertia and self-abnegation . I couldn't explain a life of young couple I observed over the period of ten years..they had certain unexplainable thing between them (wife had disability and man was perfectly alright)... People tend to get affectionate when they live together for some period of time... Some people look at this togetherness more from the sense of duty and dont mind that...😊

So the question is ...... is love nothing but illusion ? or it does exist but hard to find ... not every one can complete his\her partner the way it is required by his\her pre programmed self .

Love is hard to find and since its in the eyes of the beholder sometimes might appear as illusion...The thing is love has to transcend beyond dependency, duty, inertia and selfishness, suspicion to be true love. True love is unconditional devotionand trust. There are many cases of love marriages where the couple vouched for true love for each other but after the divorce they end up bad mouthing each other? Wheres the love gone... was it there? Thats why I call LM is like a deal which is driven through alleys of compromize and walking around land-mines..the difference being it was more the individual judgement..

Dewey, love has several forms. For me it has one and no its not sex..😆. but an inexplicable form... All other forms fall under various categories...

Try to state one logical and compelling reason to love our parents..and you may have a different perspective.😊

beautiful poem Ani.

i feel that deep-rooted love never dies out completely, whether the parting was through death or a drifting away of two people. somewhere it'll always be a part of us, of who we are and who we become. over time, the pain might not be with us every waking hour but like the strains of the night before, the ache remains. we might learn to live with it. we might not realize it's there. the pangs might not even be as sharp and frequent, but the hurt remains...

When you fall out of love , there shouldn't be any hurt from it later on.. It is our tendency to look back upon the past with fondness and those were the good ole days type of thinking... falling out of love and falling in love again is more like when we move out of comfort of parents house once we are 18 or so and start on our own... Sure the nostalgia will be there but not hurt..

I think the second time around if one is lucky enough to find true love , it is even more beautiful and devine...because one would treat it with more respect, understanding and maturity.not be chipkoo or self centered.and I personally feel that mature love is so much better then love we experience in adolesence or soon thereafter. we have preconceived notions of love then without true life experiences and falling in love later in life affords us the oppurtunity to experience love in its purest form when one does not have any personal agenda.... this is the difference in Radha and Meera's love...IMO...

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

Love is hard to find and since its in the eyes of the beholder sometimes might appear as illusion...The thing is love has to transcend beyond dependency, duty, inertia and selfishness, suspicion to be true love. True love is unconditional devotionand trust. ..

Qwerts, I loved what you said above..👏

Originally posted by: lighthouse

When you fall out of love , there shouldn't be any hurt from it later on.. It is our tendency to look back upon the past with fondness and those were the good ole days type of thinking... falling out of love and falling in love again is more like when we move out of comfort of parents house once we are 18 or so and start on our own... Sure the nostalgia will be there but not hurt..

I think the second time around if one is lucky enough to find true love , it is even more beautiful and devine...because one would treat it with more respect, understanding and maturity.not be chipkoo or self centered.and I personally feel that mature love is so much better then love we experience in adolesence or soon thereafter. we have preconceived notions of love then without true life experiences and falling in love later in life affords us the oppurtunity to experience love in its purest form when one does not have any personal agenda.... this is the difference in Radha and Meera's love...IMO...

Qwerts, I loved what you said above..👏

Thanks LH and yes Meera's example is perfect one. Its not used often since there was no person involved so it has a religious touch.

Originally posted by: chatbuster

i feel that deep-rooted love never dies out completely, whether the parting was through death or a drifting away of two people. somewhere it'll always be a part of us, of who we are and who we become. over time, the pain might not be with us every waking hour but like the strains of the night before, the ache remains. we might learn to live with it. we might not realize it's there. the pangs might not even be as sharp and frequent, but the hurt remains...

I loved that part CBj. In fact, that pain can make a person a more forgiving, a more loving and a mpre understanding person when they have the right attitude and character.. Pyar me thhokar khana can be a positive experience if one chooses. Yes, the love and pain doesn't die, but lessens and makes one more tender & matured in return.

The reason why I find nothing charming and heroic about Devdas and similar characters.. They lost trust in love and negated their entire life.

Originally posted by: ani11

I just read this beautiful poem and it left me wondering...if love does end?

Is it possible to fall out of love with a person you have loved with all ur heart?

In the breakups and divorces...does the love really go away or does it still lay there dormant in the heart?

Please share ur views on this..😳

A beautiful poem ani👏...

True love never ends...People may get separated because of their egos or whatever, but the love will remain...The hurt that is involved, explains the love..One can probably move on with somebody else, but its just not the same...There is always a corner reserved for that first love...

There is another ironic part here... When divorces become easier, endless love becomes mythical...yet people dont want to look at their life devoid of this fancy called "Love"... so it moves over to the personal department - I said personal not personnel.. And still many believe having the same husband for 7 births is a nightmare.........the question is a lifetime becomes too long with one lover yet the life looks so short.....there is a lot of confusion

I just wanna listen to Gloria Estefans version of "everlasting love" and forget about reality 😆. Here are the lyrics...

Hearts go astray, leaving hurt when they go
I went away, just when you needed me so
Filled with regret, I come back beggin' you'
Forgive forget, where's the love we once knew

1-Open up your eyes then you'll realize
Here I stand with my everlasting love
Need you by my side, wanna be your bride
You'll never be denied, everlasting love

Hearts go astray, leaving hurt when they go
I went away, just when you needed me so
Filled with regret, I come back beggin' you'
Forgive forget, where's the love we once knew

1-Open up your eyes then you'll realize
Here I stand with my everlasting love
Need you by my side, wanna be your bride
You'll never be denied, everlasting love
😊