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Then they shouldn't expect that gift from woman & enjoy the commited life instead of indulging over past..!

well than GUYS should also be blamed if they do sumting wrong.....WHY ONLY GIRLS R BLAMED????

i dont think u should have it before marraige if ur not sure about if ur even gonna marry the person but i still think u should wait till ur happy and married in the relation ship and if the guy forces u its a bit obvious that the guy has no self respect or any respect 4 u

plz dont be offended with anything I say:

okay ,firstly I dont support sex before marriage becoz its morally incorrect . Secondly if a girl keeps on having sex with different men and men having sex with different women then wats the difference b/w humans and animals? isnt this sumthing which animals do? arent animals the ones who live their lives w/o any rulez. Just imagine how ones everyday life would be if there r no rules or laws implied by the govt.s of ones countries,one can picture thieves roaming freely here and there, ones lives being threaten by strangers etc. u can also imagine cars bumping into oneanother if there r no traffic lights.... similarly if u dont live ur life with morals then ur life will be a big mess. Morally and even religiously one is not allowed to have sex before marriage then why break such rules which govern our lives? And honestly ppl who say that emotions drive such decisions , being married I assure u that one can for sure control oneself from having sex with ne one if its in ones heart and if one is morally a strong person!

And talking abt todays soaps, kyphfanz they even show how dead ppl cumback to life and get plastic surgeries .... does this happen in reality?

kyphfanz, Dont u know the diiference b/w a boy and a girl? A girl can become pregnant if she commits illegal sex and a boy cant! Ofcourse both r 2 blame as both r equal partners in this crime, but a girl is just like a delicate flower, her identity is her purity, her piety is her most sacred thing , which can even break with a small scratch then why should she ruin it for sumthing so immoral?

If sumthing drastic such as a rape or so happens then definitely the boy shud be blamed , and nowadays u can even read in the newspapers how a woman from a village was raped by gangsters in Pak.and how she filed against them, and how the whole world supported her!so men r blamed for their immoral acts too! Dont u think that boyz r less patient than girlz? Girlz r more patient and stronger than boyz thats why she is the one who goes thru the pains of delivering and carrying a baby. In other words she is also blessed with more self-control! I hope this answers kyphfanz ur question on why girlz and not boyz? If not , let me elaborate , how abt the physical differences(how physically a girl and a boy r diif. hope u get it)? ,do girls fight in wars(majority is of men coz they r physically tougher)? do men breast feed their babies? ........

Lastly, plz dont mind wat i say , sorry if i acted like ur mom, but u shud remember that Allah is watching over everyone, and when He has forbidden illegal sex, then why commit it? If u think that ppl. in uk or us r doing it and they r not being punished then ur wrong , why do u think that the ratio of Aids patients is so high is US ? Its a punishment in disguise from Allah ......one shud alwayz remember that ALLAH is watching over them and then one will not be able to commit such an immoral act, and guys there r also very harmful diseases other than AIDS which can be spread thru illegal sex!so plz think a zillion times before doing such a thing! (These r my views in accordance to my religion-Islam)

Remember that if a guy sleeps with a girl before marriage , and still sumhow ends up marrying her , then he can also sleep with sum1 else after marriage, as his sleeping before marriage just shows that hes not strong morally and has a very fickle personality ,then why sleep with sum1 like him or even marry sum 1 like him !!!

I am sorry but I dont agree with article given above becoz of my reasons given above!(once again wat is ones life w/o laws? Its similar 2 animals who have no brains watsoever!)

Let ur life be lead by morals, limitations and rulez and not by soaps or how ppl in uk or us r or how they lead their lives!If they all jump into the gutter will u too?

i don't think it iz a smart thing 2 do but if u do hav XXX...u shud be sure if u realli luv dat person

datz wat i think

wat if that person doesnt luv u, isnt ur life just going 2 be ruined forever, can u ever get back ur virginity ?

i personally don't advocate pre-marital sex at all.. not only because of moral and ethical issues but also because of health hazards! i mean there is the risk of pregnancy [the best example: kripa] and also the worry of stds ( sexually transmitted diseases). i doubt whether anyone whould wanna be a victim on either!

but there are some pple who are all thumbs up abt pre-marital sez (not refering to anyone in the forum, juz a general statement) so i guess it boils down to personal beliefs and morals!

Originally posted by: vcool

plz dont be offended with anything I say:

okay ,firstly I dont support sex before marriage becoz its morally incorrect . Secondly if a girl keeps on having sex with different men and men having sex with different women then wats the difference b/w humans and animals? isnt this sumthing which animals do? arent animals the ones who live their lives w/o any rulez. Just imagine how ones everyday life would be if there r no rules or laws implied by the govt.s of ones countries,one can picture thieves roaming freely here and there, ones lives being threaten by strangers etc. u can also imagine cars bumping into oneanother if there r no traffic lights.... similarly if u dont live ur life with morals then ur life will be a big mess. Morally and even religiously one is not allowed to have sex before marriage then why break such rules which govern our lives? And honestly ppl who say that emotions drive such decisions , being married I assure u that one can for sure control oneself from having sex with ne one if its in ones heart and if one is morally a strong person!

And talking abt todays soaps, kyphfanz they even show how dead ppl cumback to life and get plastic surgeries .... does this happen in reality?

kyphfanz, Dont u know the diiference b/w a boy and a girl? A girl can become pregnant if she commits illegal sex and a boy cant! Ofcourse both r 2 blame as both r equal partners in this crime, but a girl is just like a delicate flower, her identity is her purity, her piety is her most sacred thing , which can even break with a small scratch then why should she ruin it for sumthing so immoral?

If sumthing drastic such as a rape or so happens then definitely the boy shud be blamed , and nowadays u can even read in the newspapers how a woman from a village was raped by gangsters in Pak.and how she filed against them, and how the whole world supported her!so men r blamed for their immoral acts too! Dont u think that boyz r less patient than girlz? Girlz r more patient and stronger than boyz thats why she is the one who goes thru the pains of delivering and carrying a baby. In other words she is also blessed with more self-control! I hope this answers kyphfanz ur question on why girlz and not boyz? If not , let me elaborate , how abt the physical differences(how physically a girl and a boy r diif. hope u get it)? ,do girls fight in wars(majority is of men coz they r physically tougher)? do men breast feed their babies? ........

Lastly, plz dont mind wat i say , sorry if i acted like ur mom, but u shud remember that Allah is watching over everyone, and when He has forbidden illegal sex, then why commit it? If u think that ppl. in uk or us r doing it and they r not being punished then ur wrong , why do u think that the ratio of Aids patients is so high is US ? Its a punishment in disguise from Allah ......one shud alwayz remember that ALLAH is watching over them and then one will not be able to commit such an immoral act, and guys there r also very harmful diseases other than AIDS which can be spread thru illegal sex!so plz think a zillion times before doing such a thing! (These r my views in accordance to my religion-Islam)

Remember that if a guy sleeps with a girl before marriage , and still sumhow ends up marrying her , then he can also sleep with sum1 else after marriage, as his sleeping before marriage just shows that hes not strong morally and has a very fickle personality ,then why sleep with sum1 like him or even marry sum 1 like him !!!

I am sorry but I dont agree with article given above becoz of my reasons given above!(once again wat is ones life w/o laws? Its similar 2 animals who have no brains watsoever!)

Let ur life be lead by morals, limitations and rulez and not by soaps or how ppl in uk or us r or how they lead their lives!If they all jump into the gutter will u too?

vcool....i do the what can happen!!!!but i just wrote this topic bcaz i thought it could be related to kyph!!..take kripa for example,,didnt she love angad n angad loved her as well but what happen.. angad just leaves when is pregnent!!.....WHY DO THEY SHOW THINGS LIKE THAT IN A SOAP?? when kids younger than 9 n 8 watches such things!!!

i know, i was just discussing this topic in general (i was not pointing u out, just referring to sum of ur questions and then answering em)( i am very sorry if i said sumthing offensive) i dont know why, one shuld ask ekta , she has done the same thing in kzk and in most of her serials, i think all of em.....shes just soooooo annoying,she just wants 2 make her serials lenghty by doing such things!

Originally posted by: kyphfanz

vcool....i do the what can happen!!!!but i just wrote this topic bcaz i thought it could be related to kyph!!..take kripa for example,,didnt she love angad n angad loved her as well but what happen.. angad just leaves when is pregnent!!.....WHY DO THEY SHOW THINGS LIKE THAT IN A SOAP?? when kids younger than 9 n 8 watches such things!!!

wow u write a lot lol