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in the western world ages ago it wasnt a norm to do it b4 the marriage, but over the decades it has gotten out of control . just my opinion.

Originally posted by: muniza75

In our religion its like a big paap that you do ding dong before marriage so i dont prefer any one that do this before marriage.Thats my way to think I dont want to blame anyone.

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Originally posted by: kyphfanz

well......i have been to the US n UK....n people over there....well that's what i heard....." that if u dont have a bf after being in high schooll they think that somethin is worng wit the girl".....is it true????maybe people livin the US n UK can tell???

I Have no Idea where You Heard that Comments But tell You what--- it is absolutley rediculious if any one thinks like that----person Might be out of their mind----well Guys Use Girls for one night and then they are like waste in the trash bin----so I believe that girls Should becareful of thier Life decision----they have to think about their own self--Guys will just gone get another and left the girl with new coming up guest-----Forget about USA AND UK---its TOOK PLACE NOW EVERY WHERE-----

Originally posted by: kyphfanz

well......i have been to the US n UK....n people over there....well that's what i heard....." that if u dont have a bf after being in high schooll they think that somethin is worng wit the girl".....is it true????maybe people livin the US n UK can tell???

Actually, I believe the opposite is true...at least in the US, guys are pressured to have a girlfriend before college.

Originally posted by: |iami5o4|

Well, at first I was really blank when anyone asked me question thats being asked here :

"Is it really okay to have sex before marriage!!??"

I think it would be a beautiful thing if you were to stay a virgin until marriage like Jessica Simpson did and ummm but still times have been changing drastically so anything can happen.

I read this article by this indian-american journalist named Swetha Iyengar (I love her~! She always has something good to say and talk about) and after I read the article I saw a whole different way to look at sex and having it before marriage.

How about I do ya'll a favor and just scan and post up the article.

It's a good read ... TRUST ME~!

Well, think what you want and say what you want but I have to agree with her ... she's completely right. 😊

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Originally posted by: AALIYAH786

I personally am against it.......A teacher once told us students that the BEST gift you could you HUSBAND on your wedding night is your VIRGINITY..........your husband will really love and respect you for that..........

Especially nowadays.....boys can never be trusted..........they will just try to get you into bed and throw you like a piece of rubbish afterwards........How do you know for SURE that the guy is the right one for you and that he will MARRY you............its just a RISK that you gotta take...............

I know we're into the 21st Century and the world is changing........But i guess its a personal choice.........BUT dont start too young...........Dont FORGOT about the ever increasing AIDS VIRUS

Why only husband needs to be gifted ? Does he follow the the same norm for wife?I don't think so..!

I'm not supporting sex before marriage,as it's actually a complete devotion to ur soulmate,a desire given to us by Creator himself for a particular purpose & desciplined by the society to preserve the beauty & aim behind it ...hence bound by the marriage ..but I don't like the double standard of the society...where husband himself comes for the treatment of venereal diseases & gets wife to confirm the virginity..!!

The woman devotes entire life to this person with her complete loyality & commitment ..is her virginity is more important than this ?!

willingly giving herself is to her soulmate is more ethical than official rapes by her husband !!

I agree with the article but God created woman to be a mother ..however independent becomes she won't find herself complete if she misses the pleasure of nursing a baby...!

I personally don't agree with premarital sex but I don't agree with double standard society too..!!