Why is it hard to keep a Indian woman happy? - Page 4

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: McNinja


Is that all it takes to make a woman happy?

😆 No wonder we're seeing an increase in delusional yuppies.



Perhaps a perusal of the topic and previous responses might enlighten YOU a bit and seriously it is bad form to call people names without being fully informed. Honestly when people descend to name-calling instead of engaging in discussion it shows a lack of maturity and inability to understand what is what
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Purva-



Perhaps a perusal of the topic and previous responses might enlighten YOU a bit and seriously it is bad form to call people names without being fully informed. Honestly when people descend to name-calling instead of engaging in discussion it shows a lack of maturity and inability to understand what is what


I didn't see a serious discussion going on when I posted for my reply to be taken so literally. The words you wrote, which as you pointed out were banter in another post, apply to the typical stereotype of a yuppie no, hence the joke relating to yuppies.

"We met at Starbucks" is perhaps the inspiration behind the jokes 😆


Immature? Maybe. Not funny? Maybe. Name calling? No. But indeed, it pays to understand what is what...truly. 😆


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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think we're not talking about just desi women but all women.

A relationship should have equal responsibility. Many women today work and handle their household. I can't even imagine how stressful it must be! As a husband you should not think that just because you are a man you should not help with household errands or take care of the kids. Do the grocery, maybe vacuum, or take the kids to park so your wife can have some time to herself.

Another key point in a married relationship I think is understanding each other. If you can share good moments together then you need to be there for each other during the hard times too. Spend some time together because this person is most likely going to be the person you Will live with till you die.

Both the husband and wife should not spend money to much. Make priorities and savings for your kids and future.

As for what you said that many Indian women want to become NRIs...I ask why not? If men can have ambitions to come to America then why can't a woman? Could be she is well educated and wants to achieve something in life also. Remember she also put in a lot of hardwork through her education life and probably spent a lot of money...

Respect each other and know their dreams/goals and motivate & support them to reach them!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shweta, Your views are really balanced and you have said very nice points which really indicate how a marriage could be made working and also a happy one.

Purva, I am indicting no one. I only said there are some not so serious comments. And I didn't feel any offence to the topic starter because I believe what he/she said is relevant point. The question, 'Why is it hard to keep an Indian woman happy?' is an important topic according to me. And we also find these days divorce rates increasing and naturally people talk about Americanization or Westernization as reason for that as Westernization is made the cause for many happenings in India and we also know that in USA divorce rates are high. As another point, I will have my own concept of how to make a marriage happy or how to keep a woman happy. I would like to know the views of women also in this topic. Some persons have really given nice balanced views and I do appreciate them. And we can't expect a debate to remain light at times because some issues (especially man-woman issues) are really sensitive based on the experience of people.

I sorry, if what I said is offensive.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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lol talking about unhappy desi women, did i make anyone unhappy here? Looks like i'll have to work on better action verbs. Tough crowd, what can i say😆

that reminds me, how about being able to have a sense of humor and being able to laugh? Best antidote for unhappiness.😊

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