my short skirt says he is not rapist

Ohk . for some reason I cant not post picture , I don't know what problem 'In picture a raped girl is holding a banner written

"my rapist doesn't know he is rapist .. you taught him it wasn't his fault 'I got drunk flirted too much nd my shorts 'too short..i was asking for it '''he left me in parking garage staircase ''.my ex BF spit in my face, he called me a s**t , he called me a wh**e '. I deserved it .my friend gave my dirty looks 'called me trash 'not realizing 'it could have been them 'this culture ..your culture ..my culture 'told me ..told them this was my fault 'and I suffered 'and my rapist doesn't know he is rapist '. "

So ii was wondering '.is it really good after rape blaming a girl for that her short skirts instigated rapist to rape her '..is it fair ????

http://cam-belles.blogspot.in/2012/03/my-rapist-doesnt-know-hes-rapist.html

hmm I thought you were asking a philosphical question by posting no picture. lol

There is absolutely no such thing as "asking for it". Short skirts, revealing tops or flirting are absolutely no excuse to rape or take advantage of someone. Real men know the importance of consent and that means consent by a sober rational mind. Real men don't take advantage of women on flimsy excuses that she was flirting, she was drinking or she wore too few clothes. Real men stand up for women against douche bags who don't know what being a man is about.

Originally posted by: King-Anu

In a logical debate we need to set aside our emotions and analyze the situation on reality.

Sure all men should be civilized. There should be no crime in this world. We should all be like a hum aap ke hain kaun type family. We should all love each other, sing songs, enjoy good food, dance, romance, chat, spread arms. Everyone should be free to parade naked without getting eyed or free to get wet at some beach and yet no one should look at them with bad intention. Now I am sorry to break the news - the world and life aint fair. Expecting others to be okay is being naive. And what is this thing "real men". Real man do this, real man say i am sexy. I mean what kind of thought process is this?

Now I dont know about others but whatever I have seen in this world, parading naked, getting drunk and passing out or presenting wet bodies does not constitue a civilized behavior either.

There is a reason this act is called rape. There are people who are not civilized. There are people who when see such things dont end up saying "sister, please wear this burqa over your bikini" or "lady please take the towel, sardi lag jayee gi aap ko". Not everyone is a ricky behl out there who despite being con man end up bringing drunk passed out girl back home.

So while there is no excuse and such people should be dealt with there lies a responsibility on the girls to exercise caution.

Originally posted by: Dexterkichokri

Surely you jest. Men and women parade around naked in nude beaches. No one is raping anyone. Animals hump at the mere thought. Humans (I'd like to assume) exercise reason and morality before doing so, that is why we are superiors. Expecting a human to behave like a human isn't too much to ask. As for the whole world isn't fair jargon, we all know that.

You cannot blame the girl for the lack of humanity on someone else's part. If you and your child are lost in the jungle for days with no food or water, would you kill the child and cannibalize just because the child happens to be there and is a ready source of food? Would anyone? Answer that before you try to place some part of the blame on the girl for being there half naked. The child is also a potential source of nutrition and is just there just as the naked girl is a potential source of please and is just there. We do what we can to survive but there are limits we don't cross. Expecting civility isn't being naive.

Originally posted by: King-Anu

IAnd what is this thing "real men". Real man do this, real man say i am sexy. I mean what kind of thought process is this?

I don't think men are uncontrollable wild animals who can't keep their pants on when they see a woman. I view men as human beings, their thoughts and intents may falter occasionally, but they always conduct themselves with dignity and respect. They may think about sex a lot, but they never rape, harass or even take advantage of women no matter what the circumstance. And that is what I mean by "real men", genuine human beings who have a conscience of what is right and wrong and live by it.

People who rape, abuse and take advantage of others are uncivilized wild animals worse than primates, they have no right to be considered human let alone men. What problem do you have with the notion of "real men"? At least most men I know consider themselves "real men" and don't find a problem with that definition.