'Physical Needs' - Can it be justified always?

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Posted: 16 years ago

#171

Originally posted by: karandel_2008

Another aspect is about minimum age for sex: The minimum age and laws etc are also meant to protect vulnerable people and people who wouldn't have matured by that age.

Lets face it that there are pedophiles out there, in real life and on Internet, and if one leaves it to horny people, or birds as you call them, without any rules and regulation, then there wont be any deterrent against those criminals.

lol i dont think criminals look to latest courthouse bulletins fer guidance on what they can or cannot do.😆 if a person's sick enuff to be a pedophile they will be, laws irrespective. amazingly however ur argument sounds like u want to put every teen in limbo because a few ppl can be bad apples. what about looking at things more positively?

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Posted: 16 years ago

#172

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

I am sure if you ask the teens - they will laugh in the faces of those who are so hell bent on getting them married at the tender age of 14-15😆

if u so sure about that, then why were u so hell bent on denying them that right?😉😆

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karandel_2008

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Posted: 16 years ago

#173

Originally posted by: cuckoocutter

lol i dont think criminals look to latest courthouse bulletins fer guidance on what they can or cannot do.😆
the problem is that if the law wont exist then how will you send the criminals to prison?

if a person's sick enuff to be a pedophile they will be, laws irrespective. amazingly however ur argument sounds like u want to put every teen in limbo because a few ppl can be bad apples. what about looking at things more positively?

Many laws are made to avoid bad things.
Moreover when you say every then how are you so sure that "every" teen is mature enough?

Edited by karandel_2008 - 16 years ago

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Posted: 16 years ago

#174

Originally posted by: karandel_2008

lol u talking as if the world is inhabited with cougars, pedophiles n that sorry kind- i mean do u walk around seeing them all the time. 😆statistically u got more adults who take on other adults fer their sexual perversions than they take on teens (unless u count muslim countries where they r perhaps allowed to). look, u can also have laws that say a 15 year old cant marry a 25 year old if that's the concern. but two 15 year olds shld be fine. it's weird however how ur argument's goin. remember it was the adults who were supposed to be mature by ur argument. now u got teens who need to be protected fm adults. who's the "adult" here?😆

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Ajnabee

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Posted: 16 years ago

#175

Oh my god. Seriously? Are physical needs really that significant that they require 23 pages of ongoing discussion? 😆

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Gunjan

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Posted: 16 years ago

#176

wow!

The discussion has changed the gears, for its own good.

I am in complete favor of allowing\encouraging teen dating if not marriages and it does not mean that they are mandatory as there is not one size approach that fits all.

I think some teens are responsible enough if they are trusted, again not talking about all. Most parents are selfish enough to not let the little birdie get out of the nest scared that it will get hurt. They like that feeling of superiority, that someone is counting on them, that they know more and they know better. They find it hard to let go, let them find the meanings of their lives, or get a taste of the world around them. They are fed, changed and protected, more so in Indian families. So even when one get married at 21-28, they are in a big shock, to some it feels like they just never had a change to go through that growing process. Actually its true of many, they were a kid, remain a kid. Indian mom dads confuse dependency with love and thats the biggest hindrance in the growing process. So what one is 25-28, he or she is still a kid.

All kind of pressures are in place when you are in your teens, do this, don't do that, this is bad, this is good without much solid justification. You question them and you are disrespecting them. Well, I am not talking about all the families but its true of most families. In a harsh world like that if you find your soul mate and society is open enough to let you hang out with him (marriage or no marriage), what more do you need.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#177

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*
Oh my god. Seriously? Are physical needs really that significant that they require 23 pages of ongoing discussion? 😆

Are you discussing physical needs😉? me not😛

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Ajnabee

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Posted: 16 years ago

#178

Originally posted by: gumsum

Are you discussing physical needs😉? me not😛

I'm not discussing anything. 😆 I'm just watching people advocate marriage at 14 with my jaw dropped. 😲

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karandel_2008

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Posted: 16 years ago

#179

Originally posted by: cuckoocutter

lol u talking as if the world is inhabited with cougars, pedophiles n that sorry kind- i mean do u walk around seeing them all the time. 😆statistically u got more adults who take on other adults fer their sexual perversions than they take on teens (unless u count muslim countries where they r perhaps allowed to). look, u can also have laws that say a 15 year old cant marry a 25 year old if that's the concern. but two 15 year olds shld be fine. it's weird however how ur argument's goin. remember it was the adults who were supposed to be mature by ur argument. now u got teens who need to be protected fm adults. who's the "adult" here?😆

lol you talk as if this world is an Utopia or something similar. 😊 What next? Should we allow murder by violent birds? Just because we don't see them walking everyday.

Moreover you talk as if when we talk about mature people then we assume that all people grow up to become mature. You assume that there cannot be anomaly in the system.

To be clear, we are talking about this real world, where some anomalies exist, and not some fairytale world. 😉

Edited by karandel_2008 - 16 years ago