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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: cuckoocutter

i dont think ppl necessarily get more responsible with age. they only get dumped more responsibilities.



yes thats why better way to make someone moral is to first know what is morally correct and then teach the kids properly.

Regarding marriages, I think there must be already some statistics on marriages and Divorce. They should be easy to obtain.

@crimson_sky: There are some statistics that I read (I will check if they are reliable enough and apply to which society). If people get married before 28 then there is a high chance of unhappy marriage and divorce. However starting from 28
the chances of stable marriages are good and the chance levels off after this age.

Edited by karandel_2008 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: karandel_2008



yes thats why better way to make someone moral is to first know what is morally correct and then teach the kids properly.

Regarding marriages, I think there must be already some statistics on marriages and Divorce. They should be easy to obtain for govt.

@crimson_sky: There are some statistics that I read (I will check if they are reliable enough). If people get married before 28 then there is a high chance of unhappy marriage and divorce. However starting from 28
the chances of stable marriages are good and the chance levels off after this age.

even if ur statistics can be found, there wld be a simple explanation. after 28, the guy is more fat-cat in his job, so wifey aint leaving him even if he sucks (n most do with a fat belly n farty ways). 😆you need to look at quality of marriage too. teens may or may not end up divorcing, but fer the years they're married, it's the best thing ever. let's face it- after 28, the sex cant be that tempestuous as in teens when both partners r horny like hell. it's like our bollymovie heroines say, one impregnating nite can be enuff to give her lifetime of joy. girls can look fwd to those nites when the guy is a young stud, not when he's washed out after his job.😉😆
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: cuckoocutter

even if ur statistics can be found, there wld be a simple explanation. after 28, the guy is more fat-cat in his job, so wifey aint leaving him even if he sucks (n most do with a fat belly n farty ways). 😆you need to look at quality of marriage too. teens may or may not end up divorcing, but fer the years they're married, it's the best thing ever. let's face it- after 28, the sex cant be that tempestuous as in teens when both partners r horny like hell. it's like our bollymovie heroines say, one impregnating nite can be enuff to give her lifetime of joy. girls can look fwd to those nites when the guy is a young stud, not when he's washed out after his job.😉😆



These days wifeys earn money as well so fat-cat reason may not apply. Fat-cat reason may apply to cases like Tiger woods etc.

One simple reason of a stable marriage after 28 is that after some age people have more awareness and they establish their identity. Whereas, at lower age people tend to make rash decisions only to regret later.

Regarding next point, I guess there is a difference between quality of marriage and quality of sex. There is some intersection between the two, but there are many other points unrelated to sex.
Edited by karandel_2008 - 15 years ago
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also karandel, one hand you talk about west getting away from marrying, as if that's a good thing. now you're basing ur argument on things like stability of marriage, as if that is the key factor in relationships. how'll it be goin forward?😆
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: cuckoocutter

also karandel, one hand you talk about west getting away from marrying, as if that's a good thing. now you're basing ur argument on things like stability of marriage, as if that is the key factor in relationships. how'll it be goin forward?😆


Regarding my point about West: Lets not jump the gun 😉

I think the argument of @Chrimson_sky is that the age for marriage should be reduced to 14-15 etc.
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Originally posted by: karandel_2008



These days wifeys earn money as well so fat-cat reason may not apply. Fat-cat reason may apply to cases like Tiger woods etc.

women r still dependent on guy's earnings by n large, all kinds of stats fer that. so what they got goin after 28 is a kind of inter-dependency relationship. that might be a mutually beneficial arrangement, but it sure dont have to be soul-satisfying. that's no quality, it is what it is, an arrangement. like i said b4, it's like u clean the house, rear the kids, i get u the dosh. that's barter, a trade u put on coz u cant do better.😊
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: karandel_2008


Regarding my point about West: Lets not jump the gun 😉

I think the argument of @Chrimson_sky is that the age for marriage should be reduced to 14-15 etc.

lol n wat was ur argument. 😆yeah, the west dont do marriage, so why even bother with that. but that's not what u got now, is it?😉😆
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: cuckoocutter

lol n wat was ur argument. 😆yeah, the west dont do marriage, so why even bother with that. but that's not what u got now, is it?😉😆



I said that even when age of marriage is around 18 and they dont get married at that age: Then reducing the age to 14-15 may not force them, all of a sudden, to get married early. (even if we assume that early marriages will solve somethings)
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: cuckoocutter

women r still dependent on guy's earnings by n large, all kinds of stats fer that. so what they got goin after 28 is a kind of inter-dependency relationship. that might be a mutually beneficial arrangement, but it sure dont have to be soul-satisfying. that's no quality, it is what it is, an arrangement. like i said b4, it's like u clean the house, rear the kids, i get u the dosh. that's barter, a trade u put on coz u cant do better.😊



The point is that, whatever be the reasons known or unknown, the chances are high for a stable marriage. One gets and settles for what she/he wants in life on a voluntary basis.
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Posted: 15 years ago
@cuckoocutter: What is your argument?

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