why is it considered cool for a guy to be a flirt?

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Posted: 16 years ago

#21

that reminds me......talk about the james bond series.........the hero is a womanizer, he sleeps with women as casually as he drinks or smokes, he is a sexist pig who considers women as "sex objects".......he goes so far as to blackmail a woman for sex...( dont remember the movie) and even ALMOST RAPES a woman in the movie "Goldfinger".

still he is an iconic hero, and people worship him..............WHY???

ive never understood this..............can someone explain it to me?

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Believe

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Posted: 16 years ago

#22

Realy I hate some girls😉...its all attitude problems hey....cant blame anyone...😊If you see a nice flower who not try to smell it!!!😛😉

Edited by Believe - 16 years ago

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Ajnabee

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Posted: 16 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

I disagree. Yes some do play goody two shoes. But honestly, I don't think men actually pretend to be goody two shoes. Men are very comfortable admitting that they are shallow and evil. The man whores have no qualms admitting that yes we are man whores. I think women delude themselves into believing that they are special and start creating fantasies of him being a goody two shoes, and it all leads to too much drama.

Yes, sometimes even the bad boys genuinely fall for someone and change. But a lot of time women either delude themselves or force a change. That makes men seem hypocritical when they are not.

Actually, most of 'em boys are worshipped in their families as being the perfect son, when God knows, they have done nothing to establish that rep. Most of the man whores think they are a cool playas. And don't get me wrong- same goes for the female gender, all the skankwhores think all guys worship them. But point is, guy or girl, that side is only revealed in some situations and to a certain audience and kept hidden from others.

Bad boys (or girls) fall for someone and "change" because in the end, you can't live a permanent playa life. Eventually you gotta settle down and do something with your life, and god knows that delusion of 'good looks' eventually will have to wither away.

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438673

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Posted: 16 years ago

#24

I just happened to read one absurd post here.... giving grades to people based on their flirting.....like my math professor would.😆
Firstly, like genger said, the creative writers of those serials suck and know nothing about how the world works in a practical sense. No wonder those serials suck and I find it useless to even spend a single minute on analyzing their silly ever-stretching plot.
The desperate dog kinds who flirt just to get their jolly off might grab attention from the slutty girls out there who equally flirt and go around for a guy hunt every single day.....the casanova types are definitely the easy ones to hunt, I guess.
It's those logical and intelligent kinda guys who have some self-respect and don't cross all the lines in the name of casual flirting and act like a perverted jerk to the extent that girls wanna puke on their face that are "good" guys in its true literal sense. Like one girl said, "I used to think 'bad boys' were diamonds in the rough, but then I realized, they were really just lumps of coal."

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Bartz

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Posted: 16 years ago

#25

Flirting is an art. Not everyone is good at it. When it comes to flirting it
doesn't matter whether your are a guy or gal, what matters is how good you are in flirting. 😆

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Sneha Desai

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Posted: 16 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: return_to_hades
You know what bothers me most, that poor grammar and improper language and incoherence have become cool.

Totally on in this one.... I was just about to write this in my post as well when I happened to glance at this!

I don't mind boys with the cool image, even though am perhaps one of the last fans of those "types", especially the ones that go overboard in public places! What irritates me is that the most indecent behavior is slowly being turned into "cool" stuff! 😕

I don't think flirting once in a while, is of any harm. I myself find it endearing really. I think it's pretty ok if once a day a colleague comes up with a cheesy line in all fun and due respect, and of course, provided it remains with the "limits". What truly irritates me is boys who don't know you trying to flirt across the road, or someone coming up to you repeatedly when you have already told him a clear "No" innumerable times!

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200467

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Posted: 16 years ago

#27

I think fault lies with us girls too. Guys flirt because they know how easy it is to take us for a ride.

Generally speaking - ladkiyon ko bewakoof banaana bahut aasaan hota hai. Tell them some mushy gushy words and they start thinking that sun rises with you and sets with you. As long as most girls stay gullible and keep falling for the honey covered BS thrown at them, guys will carry on flirting.

That said; I fully agree with whoever said these words --- A true man is not who can romance many women simultaneously. A true man is the one who can romance one woman till eternity. the question is - how many girls would make an effort recognize a true man amongst the crowd filled with mostly fakes?

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_Angie_

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Posted: 16 years ago

#28

Is it really considered cool 😲... ?

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_Angie_

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Posted: 16 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: Gauri_3
the question is - how many girls would make an effort recognize a true man amongst the crowd filled with mostly fakes?

one gets the type of guy one deserves 😉 😆

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Ajnabee

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: Bartz
Flirting is an art. Not everyone is good at it. When it comes to flirting it
doesn't matter whether your are a guy or gal, what matters is how good you are in flirting. 😆

You post such opinions, and then you wonder why people think you sound so familiar. *sigh*, I lose, Gauri di you win. 😆