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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: radha_bilahari

When one has a head on confrontation witha person whom you know dislikes you, it is very important to remain calm, be decisive and focussed on what you want to say. Radhika has all these inherent qualities she did not have to assert herself by raising her voice but being very stern was more than enough to put amma in her place. Hats of you radhika.

amma has once again proved to me that for her ""not that i Love Vishaka but I hate Radhika more" is the mantra.
I have no further words to explain how I am really happy for Radhika today.

Radha, nothing unglues an angry person more than a few choice words spoken in a calm and collected manner. At that point the angry person does not know how to react anymore. This is the first tenet of intervention, used in any kind of confrontation. Anger begets anger, though in Radhika's case she was always a victim. If Radhika would have displayed anger today, Amma would have won. Radhika showed firmness, yet calmness, ungluing Amma.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gardes

Bee, this is a record - 2 days in a row you and I agree! - LOL Gardes!!, You keeping track of this? Hmm. Is there a limit? Will I be thrown of your book if I cross the limit? I need to be careful then.😆😆😆
I too enjoyed Radhika's metamorphosis from a vulnerable larva to a free-flying butterfly! She let go of all her baggage where Amma was concerned and faced her fears head-on and on her own with Dev and PF's love and support fully behind her! The words that this was always mine were so appropriate for that moment. Watching Amma, you feel pity that this woman has so much hatred in her that makes her so ugly and so down in the gutter and Radhika is so full of love and life and look how far she made it! - (For the underlined) Such an apt explanation Gardes!! 👏👏👏Kudos to you!! 👍🏼 I am awed and amazed at this Radhika who tackles this evil-hearted Amma without any effort, so easily, so matter-of-factly without any hesitation. So easily she has fit into this choti-bahu of PF family, this wife of Dev. I am just in awe of her!! She can do anything!! Nothing is impossible to this girl! Such a slow, stead and a great journey indeed, as you say, from vulnerable larva to a free-flying butterfly!
You go girl is so right for Radhika today!

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Posted: 15 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: chalhov

Grades lovely post😃😃.I just loved Rads yesterday no doubt Rads and ammas scene was the jewel in the crown but loved this confident and respectful Rad.Her conv with MIL and Dadi with Dev just loved it👏.Loved to see amma popped up face and her speechlessness and tolerated her She seems to have lost her grip on both potis no one listens to her wicked advice at present.Mrin said ek teer do nishaan One seems amma and other she herself thats what I feel.😡

Chalhov, thanks. I love your analogy of ek tir do nishan! Today Radhika put the final nail in Amma's coffing. In my eyes Amma had become nothing more than a prop on the show and not a viable character. Today, she lost being that too. Radhika was spreading brilliance everywhere she went today - Shrimati Dev Raj Purohit is on her way!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i have watched the episode till now 3 times,,,and alwys jump to the amma radhika scene,,,,so marvelously presented by the CVs,,,was really waiting for the moment,,,,4 things i loved about their conversation,,,
1........when amma talked about rights,,radhika firmly spoke that it was alwys hers and nobody else....

2.....when amma talked about her strength,,rad replied that she has got this will power from her husband's love...

3.....when amma tried to pacify her by saying that how she could go for a holiday when her sister is ill,,but radhika answered superbly that no one needs to tell her or question her about how much she has sacrificed for visakha

4......when she was leaving she didnot forget to touch amma's feet and also didnot forget to take that bowl from her,,,,,
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shinyclassic

i have watched the episode till now 3 times,,,and alwys jump to the amma radhika scene,,,,so marvelously presented by the CVs,,,was really waiting for the moment,,,,4 things i loved about their conversation,,,
1........when amma talked about rights,,radhika firmly spoke that it was alwys hers and nobody else....

2.....when amma talked about her strength,,rad replied that she has got this will power from her husband's love...

3.....when amma tried to pacify her by saying that how she could go for a holiday when her sister is ill,,but radhika answered superbly that no one needs to tell her or question her about how much she has sacrificed for visakha

4......when she was leaving she didnot forget to touch amma's feet and also didnot forget to take that bowl from her,,,,,



Shiny,
I believe you watched the episodes 3 times, bcos you have not left even 1 conversation out , you have captured them all!!! 😉
Kudos for capturing all the dialogues 👏👏

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thanks, Bee! Because the agreements were back to back I remembered, but if you ask me a week from now I will not remember the tally!
At this point if they bring the serial to an end I will not have regrets watching the show and investing my time, all because of what Radhika did to Amma today. I read your explanation about the planning team and you are right that there is a difference from the Seinfeld episodes that we were watching for a while.
[I think you will agree too that Radhika looks prettier by the day and the current role suits her well.]
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Posted: 15 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: shinyclassic

i have watched the episode till now 3 times,,,and alwys jump to the amma radhika scene,,,,so marvelously presented by the CVs,,,was really waiting for the moment,,,,4 things i loved about their conversation,,,
1........when amma talked about rights,,radhika firmly spoke that it was alwys hers and nobody else....

2.....when amma talked about her strength,,rad replied that she has got this will power from her husband's love...

3.....when amma tried to pacify her by saying that how she could go for a holiday when her sister is ill,,but radhika answered superbly that no one needs to tell her or question her about how much she has sacrificed for visakha

4......when she was leaving she didnot forget to touch amma's feet and also didnot forget to take that bowl from her,,,,,

Shiny, I agree with Bee's assessment of you. I watched at work in fast forward and wish I had the chance to watch like you did. You have captured all the salient points of their conversation here. Now let me go watch it at a low pace at least once before I go to bed! 🥱🥱
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gardes

Thanks, Bee! Because the agreements were back to back I remembered, but if you ask me a week from now I will not remember the tally!
At this point if they bring the serial to an end I will not have regrets watching the show and investing my time, all because of what Radhika did to Amma today. I read your explanation about the planning team and you are right that there is a difference from the Seinfeld episodes that we were watching for a while.
[I think you will agree too that Radhika looks prettier by the day and the current role suits her well.]



Oh! Radhika was always pretty. The prettier Rad I think after the Lunar Esclipe lake snaan is because of her new wardrobe and I guess that again is bcos of the re-organization of the DJ's creative team. I like the colors of the newer sarees. IMO, none of the other heroines can beat Rubina in the looks department.

I also agree about the current role suiting Rubina. She does it effortlessly and she is just her.

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Posted: 15 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: gardes

Bee, this is a record - 2 days in a row you and I agree!
I too enjoyed Radhika's metamorphosis from a vulnerable larva to a free-flying butterfly! She let go of all her baggage where Amma was concerned and faced her fears head-on and on her own with Dev and PF's love and support fully behind her! The words that this was always mine were so appropriate for that moment. Watching Amma, you feel pity that this woman has so much hatred in her that makes her so ugly and so down in the gutter and Radhika is so full of love and life and look how far she made it!
You go girl is so right for Radhika today!

Gardes, Remember my poem Vanessa? the highlighted part of your response was what the poem was about 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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gardes a very good post and agreed to all you ppl's points as Y Amma was not able to answer back to Radhika..
Though I am a bit late but would still give my take on it...
Radhika was able to answer back to Amma not only b'coz of the unconditional love of her husband and in-laws but also as she was able to look through the cunningness of Amma.
Yes, Amma had always used Visakha as an emotional blackmail on Radhika, but today when she used the same thing she fell flat on her face... The reason was that although Radhika knew that Amma hated her, she had never understood that Amma's hatredness towards her was so strong that the girl for whom Amma did everything in her life can also be harmed by her without even thinking twice, just to stop Radhika from enjoying a few moments of her life....
Today Radhika was able to see that, she understood the strong hatred lying in Amma's heart... She understood that Amma knows only one feeling in her life and that is to hate her... To spoil her life, Amma would go to the extent of burning her DEAR POTI also and harm her children also...
Yes, now Amma can never use that hold on Radhika again as she has seen her heart... In addition Radhika has also understood Visakha, that whatever she may do for her, Visakha would never be satisfied with her or accept her
My 2 cents

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