Mistis thoughts-15th March 2011 - Page 2

Originally posted by: misti73

Phuljhari

Bumbum

Kabutarni

This Purohit house is one dysfunctional family'or is it really a family?

to me its a dysfunctional family😆

'.the daughter lives in Mumbai, don't know what happen to her I just sw her only two days thats in her childhood

''the eldest son has realized that if he does not throw a tantrum then he won't get anything''🤔..I don't blame him with a mother like his what else can he do''..the middle one Rohan prefers to keep himself away from the family stuff and enjoys girls''''.don't blame him to who wants to live in this house'''..the youngest one Dev keeps on smiling and doing stuff''..but does not get involved'''I mean I do not feel as if he is a part of this family,'🤔'..he is friendly with Rohan and tells him stuff '..stays in his own dream world''..I mean the flute, sketches and sculpturing'looking or dreaming for a face that he can paint....the face that calls him and touches something inside.....that why his sketches usually don't have faces. I mean the ones that they showed before''.and now he has met this girl whom he liked a lot.......thinks that she is someone known to him and he has decided that he in in love.....'..is looking or searching for something that will make him belong to someone or someplace?''Bumbum feels that this girl was stranger but not a stranger'' says that he has never known/felt what is love'is he only talking about romantic love? Or does that mean that he does not think that amma does not love him as a son?'..or that dadaji does not love him as a grandson?'or that Rohan does not love him as a friend? I mean all these are also relationships based on the feeling or emotion called love.. .Now coming to the adults kabutarni the greatest lunatic in the house'''she keeps on justifying her actions to herself'🤪'..I mean is she trying to convince the audience or herself. 😆😆The amount of time she mumbles to herself I am starting to get a feeling that she is telling herself or reminding herself'😆😆'if I do not do this then this will not happen'🤔..if I do this then this will happen'''🤔''.uffo Chunnu munnu how many times do I have to listen to the same dialogues from her'''..its either about changing will dialogue'🤔or patting someone's head dialogue 🤔or putting a syringe in her FILS rear end dialogue'🤪''but today she got a bit frazzled when she realized that Bumbum has taken the dadaji before she could sing his lullaby to him '🤔''and chunnu munnu I know amma was interested but I am not interested in ammas looks''..If she wants to say something regarding her actions then I will be interested otherwise not.

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to me its a dysfunctional family😆don't know what happen to the daughter I last seen her her only two days thats in her childhood........yaar Rohen may be good person may be he will help here to Dev to get his Radhika back to Dev's life........

I think badi bahu remind the viewers that what her part is😕wow I like the relationship between Dadaji and dev...gr8 na

I love the precap a lot...WOW GR0

MISTI THANKS YAAR...YOU ARE GR8

Originally posted by: why3

I actually would not mind if they show this as infatuation for now and then falling truly in love when he gets to know Radhika. Dev hasn't had anybody other than Amma for 12 years and before that he only got love from his grandfather but even that was questioned all the time. Also the grandfather could never shower his love fully on Dev. So he falls for this girl to whom he is attracted and with whom he senses some connection. That connection is enhanced for him as he is a sensitive soul being an artist. So that smile all the time and confiding in Dadaji like a kid and finally pursuing Radhika with full fledged enthusiasm. It would be really cute to show that part but creatives will call it love.

Actually the transit from infatuation to love is an interesting phase.......so why not show it for sometime from Devs side. For me a person usually gets attracted to something that is present in the other person.......or something that he or she is looking for that is present in the other person ....then slowly as the person gets to know the other person then love happens. Well thats what I feel but others might feel differently.


Even in CB1, I felt that he was infatuated with Radhika and only got to respect her once she helped him during RP puja and came to stay with his family. So when he finally saw her face and connected her to a friend in whom he had confided, he fell in love. It was same for Radhika. To me her love happened in a true sense when she saw him standing up for her rights during phool Bangla. It was the first time somebody had done something for her without exclusively asking anything in return or expecting anything back from her. That's why I am hoping that they would show this attraction and make it a friendship as Radhika is new in that city and University and Dev is looking for a friend. But it would be a speed track of her being selected as Rohan's bride (probably during Holi festival), her getting convinced about Rohan, Dev finding out and then both mopping until Radhika finds out the truth and starts pursuing him with Dev acting like Abhay or old Radhika.

Yes regarding CB1.........Dev for me initially fell in love with the image.....he was mesmerised by this girl and to me that is not love ..he actually trully fell in love when he saw the real Radhika in PB....for Radhika too it was the same thing, I think she fell in love when Dev came to apply the ointment in her hands after amma made her wear the burning bangles....there was an expression of pure wonder in her face .....I think it was been building up in her..but a person actually driving down from Delhi just to apply the ointment because he knew that she will not do it herself was something that really hit her....

I hope they don't show any artificial triangles and rectangles. I would rather that they show Radhika saying "yes" to an engagement based on her childhood beliefs with Rohan agreeing because he doesn't have guts to oppose Maheswari. But both are not interested in that marriage. Then finally Radhika chooses Dev over rituals and actually confesses that a marriage is useless and can not be considered valid if it is with somebody whom she doesn't love. In fact they can show Maheswari being happy about Radhika not becoming Rohan's wife as she realizes that she can't control Radhika. So she doesn't raise too much fuss if Radhika and Dev get together and it is only afterwards that she realizes that it was a big mistake to let Radhika and Dev be married.
Will they show that or will it reduce Radhika's "fidelity" in eyes of writers? I will go with the second option if I look at their history. Will be pleasantly surprised if they go with the first option.

Will they show that or will it reduce Radhika's "fidelity" in eyes of writers? I will go with the second option if I look at their history. Will be pleasantly surprised if they go with the first option.

Yes regarding this part but not too sure about "that a marriage is useless and can not be considered valid if it is with somebody whom she doesn't love."....Main reason is that in India arranged marriages do happen and they are not based on love..........sometimes love develops later but sometimes people stay married out of respect....so I don't know whether the makers will make Radhika say that.......Thats why maybe they might let Radhika realise in some way that Dev is that husband and give that as a reason for Radhikas refusal for Rohan even after she gets engaged to Rohan. I will be pleasantly surprised if they show Radhika choosing Dev based on love or listening to her heart where Kanha in her resides and not her head where the thoughts of society live. The main reaosn for me saying is because I am getting a feeling that spiritualism has a different meaning to the makers.

But they have changed some story. In the original synopsis, Radhika was supposed to accompany Dev to Mathura once she gets convinced of Rohan being her husband. Here they don't need to do that as she is going to Mathura every day and is only 1 hour or so away from Dev's home. Also she has met Dev before anybody knows about her.

Yes and I was thinking that the scene that you spoke about before can be used later.........I mean if they show Radhika retracting and getting confused.........she might avoid Dev who will be searching for her in Rawal...........because he knows that she is from Rawal.

Originally posted by: chalhov

Misti interesting reading ur thoughts on PF and MF

Actually in PF there is no binding factor they r just together as the entire wealth must be in one trust of RP BB is a greedy person and all must be keeping on the right side of her so that their interests r intact and for Dev its his grandfather and Daima. But he is close to Rohan also as he tells him his inner thoughts which is not possible if they were not close. Dev probably must be telling his grandfather everything but as he tells him when he had his medicine so he got no response but today he told him before that dose so he got the response from his grandfather when he told about Radhika. Rest of them as they have not shown them much so cannot form any opinion probably after Radhika comes to PB CMs will concentrate on the characters here.

Radhikas parents house everything is moving in a stable way as all the characters r well defined as well as they r stable in their response and am liking MANASA character who is not at all bothered about his wifes crankiness or emotional blackmail he is ignoring her behavior where Radhika is concerned.Liked his one rack mind and firmness where Radhikas education is concerned.😊

Loved today's episode and the telephathic dialogue between Phuljari and Bumbum

Originally posted by: anu17

to me its a dysfunctional family😆don't know what happen to the daughter I last seen her her only two days thats in her childhood........yaar Rohen may be good person may be he will help here to Dev to get his Radhika back to Dev's life........

I think badi bahu remind the viewers that what her part is😕wow I like the relationship between Dadaji and dev...gr8 na

I love the precap a lot...WOW GR0

MISTI THANKS YAAR...YOU ARE GR8

Dev is close to Rohan but this sharing of secrets from Devs side I found very innocent and kiddish........as if he has found something and he is just waiting to share this with hisfriend......maybe I have to know more f Rohan to decide on this relationship.......and they have not shown Rohans POV because most probably they are not sure how they are going to use him.

Misti yes Rohans POV is not given but Dev seems ok and comfortable with him he may be disillusioned in future I dont know as I feel he is a cat on the wall and may jump whichever side is beneficial for him and he uses/misuses Dev's name

Originally posted by: Radev_AvinaFan

thanks